Just Good Friends
Peter Hammill Lyrics


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Drawing back the curtains,
sluggish city daylight in the afternoon...
here's that special silence,
just before you walk out of the hotel room.
Each time we're so close I assume
that we'll never be again.
Oh, how long can we pretend
that we're just good friends?

A casual affair is all that you can spare
from your emotional change;
a calendar of meetings, strangers on the street
the best we ever arrange.
Now I just can't stand all the pain,
all the constant make and mend:
how long must we pretend
that we're just good friends?

I gave you my devotion,
hiding nothing up my sleeve.
If I walked clean out of your life
would you even notice me leave?
So much tangled-up emotion,
should I stay or should I go?
If I walked clean out of your life
how long would it take you to know?
Are we such good friends?

You used to say "I love you",
you used to say "You make me feel alive and young".
Now we're just a habit,
a flavour, once a month, to titillate your tongue.
Oh, how sordid this has become
as the means approach the end –
oh, how long can we pretend
that we're still good friends?

I gave you my devotion,
hiding nothing up my sleeve.
If I walked clean out of your life
would you even notice me leave?
So much tangled-up emotion,
should I stay or should I go?
If I walked clean out of your life
how long would it take you to know?
Are we such good friends?





Are we still good friends?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Peter Hammill's song "Just Good Friends" talk about a couple who seem to be caught in a "casual affair" that leaves them both emotionally empty. The song seems to be narrated by one of the partners who finds the situation deeply unsatisfying and is wondering whether to stay or leave.


The first verse describes a particular moment of intimacy between the two partners as they prepare to leave a hotel room. The singer seems to be acutely aware that this moment might be their last and wonders how long they can continue pretending that they are "just good friends." The next verse describes the routine of their relationship, which seems to be limited to occasional meetings and encounters in public places. The singer has grown tired of the "constant make and mend" and wants something more substantial.


Line by Line Meaning

Drawing back the curtains, sluggish city daylight in the afternoon...
It's a lazy afternoon in the city as the curtains are drawn back to reveal the quietness of the hotel room.


here's that special silence, just before you walk out of the hotel room.
There's a unique quietness in the atmosphere just as the person is about to leave the room.


Each time we're so close I assume that we'll never be again.
Every moment they are close, the singer assumes they will never have another chance again.


Oh, how long can we pretend that we're just good friends?
The singer questions how long they can maintain the ruse of being just friends when there's more to their relationship.


A casual affair is all that you can spare from your emotional change; a calendar of meetings, strangers on the street the best we ever arrange.
The person can only offer a casual relationship because of their emotional instability and busy schedule filled with strangers.


Now I just can't stand all the pain, all the constant make and mend: how long must we pretend that we're just good friends?
The singer can no longer endure the pain of pretending to be just friends instead of what they truly are.


I gave you my devotion, hiding nothing up my sleeve.
The person gave their all and was completely honest in their relationship.


If I walked clean out of your life would you even notice me leave?
The singer wonders if they are even significant enough to be missed if they were to walk away from the person's life.


So much tangled-up emotion, should I stay or should I go?
There are lots of complicated emotions at play, causing the singer to question whether they should stay or leave.


If I walked clean out of your life how long would it take you to know?
The person wonders how long it would take the other person to realize they're gone.


Are we such good friends?
The singer queries whether they are still good friends, insinuating that they have advanced beyond that stage.


You used to say "I love you", you used to say "You make me feel alive and young".
The other person was once vocal about their love for the singer and how much they made them feel alive.


Now we're just a habit, a flavour, once a month, to titillate your tongue.
Now they are just seen as a routine or habit, like a flavor that's used once a month just to add some excitement.


Oh, how sordid this has become as the means approach the end – oh, how long can we pretend that we're still good friends?
The relationship has become dirty because it seems like they're exploiting one another as the end draws closer, and the singer reiterates how long they can pretend to be just friends.


Are we still good friends?
The singer repeats the question, questioning the legitimacy of the current arrangement between them.




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