Break Up To Make Up
R. Kelly & Jay-Z Lyrics


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[Chorus]
You and me, havin sex
After an argument, that shit's the best
You and me, havin sex yeahh
After an argument, that shit's the best
(Think about it while the streets you roam
It's Dom P and Army in the fridge when you get home)
I storm in, she storm out
It's like the "War of the Roses" goin on in my house
It's a little separation but I know how to fix the situation
Mami just sufferin from love deprevation
So I gotta give her thug reperations
Put it in the life until love leg is shakin
Slow and passionate, 'til we forget what happens
Then we laughin and we back friends

You don't have to fuss and fight
Why don't you just spend the night
Baby let's just kiss and hug
You know the words girl let's make up
So much love to be made
Instead of screamin, "Who's to blame?"
Girl I don't wanna let you go, I need you so

[Chorus]

Girlfriend didn't believe me when I said I'd be back in a little
Cause I had the Chris T on with the crease in the middle
Plus a fresh cut and the freezin icicles
On my wrist, on my hand, that's when shit hit the fan
Said, "You never spend timey, what's up with that?"
Translated it means
Hit it hard from the back
Yeah she hid my car keys
And forced me to fall asleep to her heartbeat

[Chorus]

I don't want baby I don't want to fight
I just want to make it right (ooh yeah)
Put out problems to the side
Let's just make sweet love tonight (I don't want)
Baby I don't want to fight
I just want to make it right (ohhhhh love)
Put our problems to the side
Let's just make sweet love tonight

Sex so intense, all that's on my mind
It ain't feel this good since the very first time
I'm pullin her close, she's pullin away
I'm tryin to kiss her mouth but she keeps turnin her face
Cute sex game like our very first date
We ain't know each other well enough, we had to wait
But oh! I know just where your hot spot at
You can not deny that, so do not try that
I do not buy that





[Chorus]

Overall Meaning

The song "Break Up To Make Up" by R. Kelly and Jay Z is a reflection of a passionate relationship between a man and a woman who often argue but make up through sexual intimacy. The chorus reflects the idea that after a heated argument, having sex is the best way to make up and move forward. The use of Dom P and Army, referring to the popular luxury champagne and beer, emphasizes their lavish lifestyle of extravagance and indulgence. The first verse is about R. Kelly being in a constant argument with his girlfriend, leading to separation, but he knows how to fix it. He recognizes that his girlfriend is suffering from a lack of love and decides to give her "thug reperations" by making passionate love until they forget what happened and become friends again.


The second verse talks about Jay Z's girlfriend not believing in him and misinterpreting his actions. He describes his fashion and jewelry, showing his financial status and success, but it didn't matter to his girlfriend as all she wanted was for him to spend time with her. However, he translates what she really needed was to have intense sex, and then they slept in each other’s arms. The lyrics depict the craving to reconcile and be with their partner, so it’s worth it to forget about the argument and have sex. The overall message is that communication through sexual intimacy is an essential aspect of maintaining a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You and me, havin sex
Having sex is the best way to make up after an argument


After an argument, that shit's the best
The best way to make up after an argument is to have sex


You and me, havin sex yeahh
Having sex after an argument is the best way to make up


After an argument, that shit's the best
The best way to make up after an argument is to have sex


Think about it while the streets you roam
Reflect on the importance of sex after an argument while you're out


It's Dom P and Army in the fridge when you get home
Celebrate making up with Dom P and Army in the fridge when you get home


I storm in, she storm out
We argue and fight, but I know how to fix it


It's like the "War of the Roses" goin on in my house
Our fights are intense and we are battling like War of the Roses


It's a little separation but I know how to fix the situation
Our separation can be fixed with sex


Mami just sufferin from love deprevation
My girlfriend just needs more love and affection


So I gotta give her thug reperations
I need to show her love in my own way


Put it in the life until love leg is shakin
Give her what she wants until she can't handle it anymore


Slow and passionate, 'til we forget what happens
Take it slow and passionately until we forget our argument


Then we laughin and we back friends
After making love, we laugh and become friends again


You don't have to fuss and fight
We don't have to argue and fight


Why don't you just spend the night
Stay the night and make up with me


Baby let's just kiss and hug
Let's make up with love and affection


You know the words girl let's make up
Let's make up with love and sex


So much love to be made
We have so much love to give each other


Instead of screamin, "Who's to blame?"
Stop arguing and blame each other


Girl I don't wanna let you go, I need you so
I don't want to lose you, I need you in my life


Girlfriend didn't believe me when I said I'd be back in a little
My girlfriend didn't believe I would return soon


Cause I had the Chris T on with the crease in the middle
I had fresh clothes and a fresh haircut


Plus a fresh cut and the freezin icicles
I also had nice jewelry


On my wrist, on my hand, that's when shit hit the fan
My girlfriend gets angry when she sees my jewelry


Said, "You never spend timey, what's up with that?"
She accuses me of not spending enough time with her


Translated it means
What she really wants is hard sex


Hit it hard from the back
She wants rough sex from behind


Yeah she hid my car keys
She is angry with me and wants to punish me by hiding my keys


And forced me to fall asleep to her heartbeat
She controls me by making me fall asleep listening to her heartbeat


I don't want baby I don't want to fight
I don't want to fight, I just want to make love


I just want to make it right (ooh yeah)
I want to make up and have great sex


Put out problems to the side
Let's forget our problems for now


Let's just make sweet love tonight (I don't want)
Let's make love and forget everything else


Baby I don't want to fight
I don't want to argue with you


I just want to make it right (ohhhhh love)
I want to make up with love


Put our problems to the side
Let's forget about our problems


Let's just make sweet love tonight
Let's make love and feel good


Sex so intense, all that's on my mind
The sex is intense and all I can think about


It ain't feel this good since the very first time
I haven't felt this good since we first made love


I'm pullin her close, she's pullin away
I want to be close to her, but she's hesitant


I'm tryin to kiss her mouth but she keeps turnin her face
I'm trying to kiss her, but she's not into it


Cute sex game like our very first date
We're having playful and cute sex like our first date


We ain't know each other well enough, we had to wait
We didn't know each other well enough to have sex right away


But oh! I know just where your hot spot at
I know exactly where to touch you to make you feel good


You can not deny that, so do not try that
You can't deny the pleasure I give you


I do not buy that
I don't believe you if you say you're not enjoying it


After an argument, that shit's the best
The best way to make up after an argument is to have sex


You and me, havin sex yeahh
Having sex after an argument is the best way to make up




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: SAMUEL BARNES, JEAN OLIVIER, ROBERT KELLY, SHAWN CARTER

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