Back Before The War
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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Stacks of paper, my name in bold print
Yours right besides it on this document
Too many lawyers, too many angry words
So much we didn't say, so much we never heard
Do you remember
When I was all that you were living for
Back before the war
[Chorus]
Back before the broken vows
The shattered trust, this empty house
When nothing really mattered but us
Back before we climbed too high
My dreams were yours, your dreams were mine
back before we fell so out of touch
Back before the war

Children's laughter trailing down the hall
Tiny footsteps, God how I miss it all
It's not as simple as who's right and who's to blame
How could we fly so high to be shot down in flames
Do you remember
When you were all that I was living for
Back before the war

[Chorus]

Stacks of paper, I guess this is where we sign
Strange how your signature so closely matches mine
I never dreamed our love would ever come to this
Avoiding each other's eyes still craving your tenderness
Do you remember
When love was all that we were living for




Back before the war
Back before the war

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Reba McEntire's song Back Before The War vividly depicts the painful reality of a couple going through a divorce. The opening lines describe stacks of paper with their names on it followed by lawyers and angry words indicating the legal proceedings of their divorce. The pain of not being able to say and listen to each other's thoughts and the memories of the past when they were all that they lived for, becomes clear. The chorus talks about the time when love was the only thing that mattered to them and how things have gone down the hill since then. The broken vows and shattered trust have destroyed the family and their 'empty house' is a symbol of their failed marriage. They have lost their touch and have fallen out of love, which was not the case in the beginning when they shared each other's dreams.


The second verse of the song highlights the hopelessness of their situation. The sound of children's laughter that once filled their house is now missing, and they miss the time when their little ones were around. The situation might not be a question of who is right and who is wrong, but of two individuals who have loved each other but for some reason can't be together anymore. The song ends with the irony that despite craving each other's tenderness, they avoid looking into each other's eyes.


Line by Line Meaning

Stacks of paper, my name in bold print
Papers with contractual agreements are in front of us, with my name highlighted.


Yours right besides it on this document
Your name is also present alongside mine on the document.


Too many lawyers, too many angry words
We involved too many lawyers and spoke words that were filled with anger.


So much we didn't say, so much we never heard
We left so many things unsaid and unheard.


Do you remember When I was all that you were living for Back before the war
Remember the time when I was the only person you wanted to live for, before the conflict emerged.


[Chorus] Back before the broken vows The shattered trust, this empty house When nothing really mattered but us Back before we climbed too high My dreams were yours, your dreams were mine back before we fell so out of touch Back before the war
The chorus refers to the time before the relationship began to fall apart, where we made promises and shared dreams, before we lost touch with each other.


Children's laughter trailing down the hall Tiny footsteps, God how I miss it all
The sound of our children's laughter and footsteps used to echo through the halls; I miss them so much.


It's not as simple as who's right and who's to blame How could we fly so high to be shot down in flames
It's not easy to pinpoint the right and the wrong or the person to blame. How did we end up being obliterated after we rose so high?


Do you remember When you were all that I was living for Back before the war
Remember when you were the reason I lived, before the war began.


[Chorus]
The chorus refers to the time before the relationship began to fall apart, where we made promises and shared dreams, before we lost touch with each other.


Stacks of paper, I guess this is where we sign Strange how your signature so closely matches mine
This is the moment where we sign the agreement, and it's strange that our signatures match so well.


I never dreamed our love would ever come to this Avoiding each other's eyes still craving your tenderness
I never thought that our love would end up like this, and even though we are avoiding each other, I still yearn for your affection.


Do you remember When love was all that we were living for Back before the war Back before the war
Recall when our love was the only reason we lived before the conflict started, once again.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Anthem Entertainment
Written by: DAN HILL, KEITH STEGALL, ROBIN WILEY

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