She Wasn
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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She was good at late night listening
When he'd call her on the phone
She was good to come and get him
When he couldn't make it home
She was good to make love to
And they did now and then
She was good to never ask
When he'd be back again

She wasn't good enough for him
For his family or his friends
He kept her out there on a limb
Wouldn't let her go, wouldn't let her in
She wasn't good enough for him

She was there on his bad days
And for years he led her on
We all knew she had a bad case
He was doing her all wrong
She couldn't bring herself to do the right thing
Break it off and say goodbye
'Til she overheard him one night tellin'
Somebody on the side that

She wasn't good enough for him
For his family or his friends
He kept her out there on a limb
Wouldn't let her go, wouldn't let her in
She wasn't good enough for him





She was good at late night listening
When he'd call her on the phone

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "She Wasn't Good Enough For Him" tell the story of a woman who loves a man who doesn't fully appreciate her. She is always there for him, whether it's to listen to him late at night or to come to his aid when he needs her. However, the man in question doesn't see her as good enough for him to introduce to his family or friends. He keeps her at arm's length, never committing fully to her, but also never allowing her to move on. She hears him tell someone else that she isn't good enough for him, and finally realizes that she needs to let go of this toxic relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

She was good at late night listening
She was a supportive listener who would stay up late to talk to him on the phone


When he'd call her on the phone
He would regularly reach out to her for comfort


She was good to come and get him
She was always willing to go out of her way to help him, even picking him up when necessary


When he couldn't make it home
She was a reliable partner who would cover for him when he was absent


She was good to make love to
She was a satisfying sexual partner for him


And they did now and then
Although they weren't in a committed relationship, they engaged in physical intimacy sporadically


She was good to never ask
She was willing to tolerate ambiguity and never questioned him about his whereabouts


When he'd be back again
She was content with uncertain scheduling and didn't push for more information about his plans


She wasn't good enough for him
Despite her efforts to be a supportive partner, he did not value her or view her as an equal


For his family or his friends
He did not want to introduce her to those close to him or include her in his social and familial circles


He kept her out there on a limb
He left her hanging in a state of emotional uncertainty and instability


Wouldn't let her go, wouldn't let her in
He refused to commit to her or end their relationship, leaving her in limbo


She was there on his bad days
She was a constant source of emotional support for him when he needed it most


And for years he led her on
He gave her false hope and strung her along for an extended period of time


We all knew she had a bad case
The people around them were aware of the unhealthy dynamic and recognized that she was being mistreated


He was doing her all wrong
He was not treating her with the respect and kindness that she deserved


She couldn't bring herself to do the right thing
Despite knowing that she needed to end the relationship, she struggled to take action


Break it off and say goodbye
She needed to initiate a breakup and move on from the toxic relationship


'Til she overheard him one night tellin'
It was only after she eavesdropped on him


Somebody on the side that
He revealed to someone else




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DEAN DILLON, LESLIE SATCHER, LESLIE WINN SATCHER

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Comments from YouTube:

@CajunMan77

The kids today will never know how controversial this song was, how important it was, and how many radio stations refused to play Reba songs after she released this. It is still one of my favorite songs!

@scottybroker

SCREW the RADIO STATIONS, THE "Correctness". It MASKS/COVERS/HIDES THE TRUTH. HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CURSE AND A SCOURGE. It destroys the family. TOO MANY PEOPLE ARE C O W A R D S. Speak Out.

@NikB331

You’re right.. They will never know! Now they have HIV/AIDS commercials with gay men in them! I’m just saying that would not have happened in 1994! I have a family member that passed from it n the poor girl suffered like a dog dying. Now we have a pill. Very sad

@dannybost

I 1st heard this at a Reba concert in Charlotte n.c. this lady gave one of the greatest concerts I've ever seen.

@kirkcather3670

We owe Reba a big thank you for recording this song. She was the ONLY one with the gravitas to get a song like this on the radio.

@YeahRightInc

Indeed. Very few if any other female country artists would have been offered this song and taken on the challenge. But when you're a giant and you have a heart like Reba, you do it because it was/is a message that needs to be conveyed. Kudos to her. I knew what it was about the first time I heard it and was very moved by the song.

@ninamartinez5171

​@@YeahRightInc I wish to God almighty i knew what this song is about. She thinks his name was John ? Obviously someone was cheating?

@YeahRightInc

@@ninamartinez5171 It is about a woman who is single and has a one night stand with a stranger. Sadly, she contracts AIDS from her tryst. She knew the name and details of all the men she'd ever been with except him...but she thinks his name was John.

@jfrizell665

@@ninamartinez5171 She met a hot guy named John, they had sex, and she got AIDS from him.

@MsMeme1976

@@ninamartinez5171 No one is cheating. It’s about a woman who has a one night stand with a man she met at a party, and ended up contracting & dying from HIV/AIDS. She thinks his name was John…

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