The Bridge You Burn
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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Better hang on to that matchbook with his number on it
But not for the reason you think
There'll come a day girl that you're gonna want it
To light the past up in flames

He's the lesson you learn
He's the dead end you see when you realize you made a wrong turn
He's that one last look back when you finally get over the hurt
He's the bridge you burn
He's the bridge you burn

No you're not the first one to think they can change him
Well that line of fools is so long
But you'll be the only one you have to blame when
You wake up and he's gone

He's the lesson you learn
He's the dead end you see when you realize you made a wrong turn
He's that one last look back when you finally get over the hurt
He's the bridge you burn, burn down

Then you turn around and say
Man that was a close one

He's the lesson you learn
He's the dead end you see when you realize you made a wrong turn
He's the lesson you learn
He's that one last look back when you get over the hurt
He's the bridge you burn
He's the bridge you burn

Yeah he's the bridge you burn




He's the bridge you burn
Burn it down girl

Overall Meaning

In Reba McEntire's song "The Bridge You Burn," the lyrics aim to tell the story of a woman who is stuck in a cycle of trying to change a man who has ultimately proven he cannot be changed. The first verse talks about how the singer should hold onto a matchbook with this man's number on it, not to call him, but to eventually use it to set the past ablaze. The man is described as someone who is going to lead the woman to understand the lesson that some people cannot be changed.


The second verse dives into the common trope of believing that one can change someone who is not up for change. The woman is warned that she is not the first, nor will she be the last, to think she can change this man, but she will be the only one to blame when he ultimately disappoints her. The chorus repeats that this man is the "bridge you burn," representing the connection to the past and the cycle the singer has been in. The song ends with the woman finally seeing the light and saying, "that was a close one."


The song is a familiar storyline, but what sets it apart is Reba McEntire's powerhouse voice and delivery. The lyrics are straightforward and easy to understand, but Reba's performance gives the song a depth that makes it an emotional listening experience.


Line by Line Meaning

Better hang on to that matchbook with his number on it
Keep his number, but not to call him, to use to set fire to the past


But not for the reason you think
The reason you're keeping his number is not because you want to call him again


There'll come a day girl that you're gonna want it
Someday, you'll want to forget and move on, and that matchbook will come in handy


To light the past up in flames
You'll use it to burn the bridge between you and him, so you can move forward


No you're not the first one to think they can change him
Many women have thought they could change him, but none have succeeded


Well that line of fools is so long
The queue of women who've tried to change him is very long


But you'll be the only one you have to blame when
You should know better not to try changing him, and if he leaves, it'll be your fault for believing you could change him


You wake up and he's gone
He will eventually leave, and you'll regret trying to change him


Then you turn around and say
After he's gone, you'll realize how close you came to getting your heart completely broken


Man that was a close one
That was a close call


He's the lesson you learn
He's a learning experience


He's the dead end you see when you realize you made a wrong turn
He's the final stop on a road that you should never have taken


He's that one last look back when you finally get over the hurt
You'll remember him when you finally move on and get over the pain he caused


He's the bridge you burn
He's the connection you need to sever to truly move on


Burn it down girl
Get rid of the connection to him and never look back




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: WENDELL MOBLEY, NEIL THRASHER, TONYL MARTIN

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