Whose Heartache Is This Anyway
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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Don't tell me that time will ease the pain
Don't tell me the sunshine's after the rain
Don't sit there and tell me
I'll love again someday
Whose heartache is this anyway

Don't say that all things happen
For the best
And don't talk of silver linings
Don't tell me I'll forget
Don't say don't you worry
Cause everything will be OK
Whose heartache is this anyway

[Chorus]
Cause I'm not in the mood for sympathy
At least not from the one who's leaving me
So don't try to make it easy
Don't search for words to say
Whose heartache is this anyway

Well you say that'll always care for me
That I'll always be special
Well that's not what I need
So why don't you just go now
You've done enough today
And whose heartache is this anyway

[Chorus]

Why don't you just go now




You've done enough today
And whose heartache is this anyway

Overall Meaning

In "Whose Heartache Is This Anyway," Reba McEntire sings about the pain and heartbreak of a breakup. She's frustrated with the attempts of her partner to console her, dismissing their words of encouragement and the promise of future love. McEntire questions why it's her heartache that she's dealing with and why she's expected to cope with it. She doesn't want to hear that time will heal the pain or that everything happens for the best. She's not in the mood for sympathy, especially not from the one who caused her pain.


The song speaks to the complexity of heartbreak and the individual process of healing. The lyrics show that often, the heartbroken soul doesn't want to hear the usual cliches, and sometimes just wants to sit in their pain. The song highlights the need for personal space and solitude during the healing process, which is not always considered in relationships. The chorus's line "At least not from the one who's leaving me" is especially poignant, showing that the person who broke the heart may not be the best person to bring comfort to the broken-hearted.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't tell me that time will ease the pain
I don't want to hear that the pain will go away with time


Don't tell me the sunshine's after the rain
I don't want to hear that things will get better after they get worse


Don't sit there and tell me I'll love again someday
I don't want to hear that I'll find love again in the future


Whose heartache is this anyway
I am questioning whose pain this truly belongs to


Don't say that all things happen for the best
I don't want to hear that everything happens for a reason


And don't talk of silver linings
I don't want to hear about any positive aspects of this situation


Don't tell me I'll forget
I don't want to hear that I'll eventually forget about this pain


Don't say don't you worry, cause everything will be OK
I don't want to hear that things will be fine in the end


Cause I'm not in the mood for sympathy
I don't want to hear sympathetic words


At least not from the one who's leaving me
Especially not from the person causing me this pain


So don't try to make it easy
I don't want to hear any attempts to make this easier


Don't search for words to say
I don't want to hear any words at all


Well you say that'll always care for me
You say that you'll always be there for me


That I'll always be special
That I'll always be important to you


Well that's not what I need
But that's not what I need right now


So why don't you just go now
So why don't you just leave


You've done enough today
You've already caused enough pain today


And whose heartache is this anyway
And I still can't help but wonder whose pain this truly belongs to




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