They released an album, Interference and a split album called Faces do Terceiro Mundo with Dead Fish, Noção de Nada and Street Bulldogs. The band broke up and Philippe went to Dead Fish playing guitar.
Their last gig was on December 13, 2003 in Vitória, Espírito Santo.
http://www.last.fm/event/93105
Members:
Philippe - guitar and vocals
Gaba - drums
Paulista - bass
Beto - guitar
Lost Friendship
Reffer Lyrics
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Once I trust you but I was so blind
I thought I knew but left me alone
Don't you feel for it
Friendship's not something you can play
I like my friend but sure I don't like you
Only around when you fucking need me
But when I need you go
HEY, you are the friend I don't need
Selfish I don't want you around
You are the friend I don't need
I can't consider you my friend
Understand that I really need to do it
Can't you see that I have my points of view
Own conclusions try to talk first
Why do you have to hide?
I can't believe how selfish you are now
Just yourself and nothing else matters
Try to think I have my feelings too
Respect I only ask you.
The song "Lost Friendship" by Reffer is a powerful message about a friendship that has gone wrong. The song starts off on a hopeful note with the singer describing how at one point, they met this person and considered them a friend, trusted them, but were ultimately betrayed. The singer seems to be warning the person that they cannot play games with friendship, that it's not something to be taken lightly. The chorus is particularly strong in its message, with the singer declaring that this person is the friend they don't need, that they're selfish and not wanted around.
As the song continues, the lyrics become more confrontational, accusing the friend of only being around when they need something, but disappearing when the tables are turned. The singer questions why this person has to hide and why they're being so selfish, ultimately asking for respect and understanding. The song ends with the singer asserting their own agency, stating that they need to do what's best for themselves and that they have their own points of view.
Overall, "Lost Friendship" is a song about the pain of betrayal and the importance of standing up for oneself. It's a powerful anthem about the importance of mutual respect and genuine connection in any relationship, particularly in the context of friendship.
Line by Line Meaning
Once I met you and consider you my friend
I used to think of you as a friend when we first met
Once I trust you but I was so blind
I used to trust you, but now I realize that I was naive and couldn't see your true nature
I thought I knew but left me alone
I thought I understood our friendship, but then you abandoned me
Don't you feel for it
Don't you feel any remorse for how you treated me?
Friendship's not something you can play
Friendship is not a game or something to be taken lightly
I like my friend but sure I don't like you
I still like and value my real friends, but I don't feel the same way about you
Only around when you fucking need me
You only show up when you need something from me and disappear when you don't
But when I need you go
You are never there for me when I need you
HEY, you are the friend I don't need
You are not a real friend to me
Selfish I don't want you around
You are selfish and I don't want to be around you
You are the friend I don't need
I don't consider you a friend anymore
I can't consider you my friend
I have decided that you are not my friend
Understand that I really need to do it
Please understand that I need to end our friendship
Can't you see that I have my points of view
Can't you understand that I have different feelings and perspectives than you?
Own conclusions try to talk first
Form your own opinions, but talk to me first before making assumptions
Why do you have to hide?
Why can't you be honest and straightforward with me?
I can't believe how selfish you are now
I am shocked at how much you have become self-centered and inconsiderate
Just yourself and nothing else matters
You are only concerned with your own needs and don't care about anyone else
Try to think I have my feelings too
Please try to consider that I have emotions and they matter to me
Respect I only ask you.
All I ask for is some basic respect in our interactions
Contributed by Aaliyah G. Suggest a correction in the comments below.