I Hate That I Love You
Rihanna Lyrics


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Yeah, yeah
Hey
That's how much I love you (yeah)
That's how much I need you (yeah, yeah, yeah)

And I can't stand you
Must everything you do make me wanna smile
Can I not like you for awhile? (No)
But you won't let me
You upset me, girl
And then you kiss my lips
All of a sudden I forget (that I was upset)
Can't remember what you did
But I hate it
You know exactly what to do
So that I can't stay mad at you
For too long, that's wrong
But I hate it
You know exactly how to touch
So that I don't wanna fuss and fight no more
Said I despise that I adore you

And I hate how much I love you, boy (yeah)
I can't stand how much I need you (I need you)
And I hate how much I love you, boy (oh whoa)
But I just can't let you go
And I hate that I love you so (oh)

You completely know the power that you have (power that you have)
The only one makes me laugh (makes me laugh)
Sad and it's not fair
How you take advantage of the fact
That I
Love you beyond the reason why
And it just ain't right

And I hate how much I love you, girl (ooh)
I can't stand how much I need you (yeah)
And I hate how much I love you, girl (yeah)
But I just can't let you go (ooh)
But I hate that I love you so

One of these days, maybe your magic won't affect me (hmm)
And your kiss won't make me weak
But no one in this world knows me the way you know me
So you'll probably always have a spell on me
Yeah
Oh, oh, oh
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

That's how much I love you
How much I need you
How much I need you
How much I love you
That's how much I love you
Oh, I need you
That's how much I need you
I need you
And I hate that I love you so
And I hate how much I love you, boy
I can't stand how much I need you
(I can't stand how much I need you)
And I hate how much I love you, boy
But I just can't let you go
(But I just can't let you go no)




And I hate that I love you so (oh)
And I hate that I love you so, so

Overall Meaning

In Rihanna's song I Hate How Much I Love You, she speaks about the complicated nature of loving someone who can both upset and uplift her. She expresses her conflict with how much she loves and needs this person, yet she cannot stand some of their actions or behaviors. Rihanna acknowledges that this person knows exactly how to approach her so that she cannot stay angry, and that they have a certain power over her because of the depth of her love for them. She is honest about the fact that this situation is not fair, and it bothers her that this person has such an effect on her.


The chorus of the song emphasizes both Rihanna's love and hate for this person. She feels trapped by her feelings, knowing that she should probably let them go, but ultimately, she cannot bring herself to do so. The lyrics suggest that she is fully aware of the complexity of her emotions and that she struggles to reconcile with them.


Line by Line Meaning

That's how much I love you
I love you deeply; my love for you is immense.


That's how much I need you
I have a strong emotional and physical dependence on you.


And I can't stand ya
Despite my love for you, I can't tolerate some of your actions or behaviors.


Most everything you do make me wanna smile
I find joy in many things you do or say, even though I may not always show it.


Can I not like it for a while?
Is it possible for me to dislike something about you, without it affecting our relationship?


No, but you won't let me
You have a way of manipulating my emotions, and I find it difficult to stay upset with you.


You upset me, girl, and then you kiss my lips
You have a habit of causing me emotional pain, but you make up for it with physical affection.


All of a sudden I forget that I was upset
Your touch or kiss has the power to erase any negative feelings I had towards you.


Can't remember what you did
I am so consumed by my love for you that I often overlook or forget the root cause of my negative emotions towards you.


But I hate it
I despise this cycle of loving you in spite of your flaws and being unable to stay mad at you.


You know exactly what to do
You are aware of the effect you have on me, and you use it to your advantage to keep me by your side.


So that I can't stay mad at you
Your actions or words have a way of calming me down, making it difficult for me to maintain my anger.


For too long, that's wrong
It's not healthy for me to constantly forgive and forget the things that upset me, but I am unable to resist the hold you have on me.


You know exactly how to touch
You are aware of what makes me feel loved, and you use it to manipulate me emotionally.


So that I don't wanna fuss and fight no more
Your touch, kiss, or gesture has the ability to pacify me and make me stop arguing or fighting with you.


Said, I despise that I adore you
I hate that I am so infatuated with you, even though you have hurt me in the past.


And you completely know the power that you have
You are aware of the control you have over my emotions, and you use it to your advantage.


The only one that makes me laugh
You are the only person who has the ability to make me genuinely happy and laugh.


Sad and it?s not fair how you take advantage of the fact
I feel dejected and used because you are exploiting my love for you to get what you want.


That I love you beyond the reason why
My love for you is so intense that it defies reason or logic.


And it just ain't right
It is not appropriate for you to manipulate my emotions or take advantage of my love for you.


One of these days, maybe your magic won't affect me
Hopefully, I will be able to resist your charms and manipulation in the future.


And your kiss won't make me weak
I want to be able to resist your physical affection and not be affected by it emotionally.


But no one in this world knows me the way you know me
You have a deep understanding of who I am and what I need, making it difficult to resist your influence.


So you'll probably always have a spell on me, yay
You will likely always have power over me, making it impossible for me to break away from this cycle of loving you despite the negative effects on my emotions.


But I hate that I love you so
I despise the fact that I can't help but love you, even though you have caused me pain and manipulated my emotions.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Mikkel Eriksen, Tor Erik Hermansen, Shaffer Smith

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Hate That I Love You (feat. Ne-Yo)
Rihanna

Yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah
That's how much I love you (yeah, no, oh, oh)
That's how much I need you (yeah, yeah, yeah)

And I can't stand you
Must everything you do make me wanna smile
Can I not like you for awhile? (No)

But you won't let me
You upset me, girl
And then you kiss my lips
All of a sudden I forget (that I was upset)
Can't remember what you did

But I hate it
You know exactly what to do
So that I can't stay mad at you
For too long, that's wrong
But I hate it
You know exactly how to touch
So that I don't want to fuss and fight no more
Said: I despise that I adore you

And I hate how much I love you, boy (yeah)
I can't stand how much I need you (I need you)
And I hate how much I love you, boy (ooh, oh)
But I just can't let you go
And I hate that I love you so (ooh)

And you completely know the power that you have (the power that you have)
The only one makes me laugh (one that makes you laugh)

Said: It's not fair
How you take advantage of the fact that I (I)
Love you beyond a reason why (why)
And it just ain't right, oh

And I hate how much I love you, girl
I can't stand how much I need you (yeah)
And I hate how much I love you, girl
But I just can't let you go (ooh, ooh)
But I hate that I love you so

One of these days, maybe your magic won't affect me (hmm)
And your kiss won't make me weak
But no one in this world knows me the way you know me
So you'll probably always have a spell on me, yeah
Ooh, oh, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah

That's how much I love you (how much I need you)
That's how much I need you (how much I love you)
That's how much I love you (oh, need you)
That's how much I need you (I need you)
And I hate that I love you so

And I hate how much I love you, boy
I can't stand how much I need you (I can't stand how much I need you)
And I hate how much I love you, boy (girl)
But I just can't let you go (but I just can't let you go, no)
And I hate that I love you so (ooh)
And I hate that I love you so, so



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