Didn't I
Rod Stewart Lyrics


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There are times to remember and times that I wish to forget
Our time together was tinged with love and regret
Oh my girl, my sweet, sweet little girl

Didn't I try to tell ya
That life was for living
Oh, didn't I?
And wasn't I the guy who said
Stay away from that tribe
Oh, wasn't it?
And didn't I try to tell ya
That stuff's gonna kill ya
Oh, didn't I?
But you thought it was cool
And I was just an old fool
Oh, look at ya

You left home for the city with Hollywood stars in your eyes
Now your mother God bless her cries herself to sleep every night
Oh my girl, my sweet, innocent girl

Didn't I search the streets
For the biggest pimps and cheats
Oh, didn't I?
And didn't I try to guide ya
To a baptism of fire
Oh, didn't I?
And didn't I try to warn ya
Bout that folk in California
Oh, didn't I?
But you said daddy, please, don't worry
I got friends out there who love me
Now look at ya

Oh baby come back home, we can work this out
There is not blame
I wanna hold you close and stroke your hair
And share your pain, yeah

Didn't I do the best for you
Try to make you stay in school
Didn't I?
Once I was your hero
But I went from 10 to 0
Oh, didn't I?
For a roll on the dice
To really pay the ultimate price
Oh, didn't ya?
Now I stand by your bedside
Watching you fight for your life

Where's the innocence? (where's the innocence?)
Where's the future? (where's the future?)
Where's the beauty? (uuh)
Where's the promise?





There are times to remember
And times that I wish to forget

Overall Meaning

The song "Didn't I" by Rod Stewart is a poignant and heartfelt message from a father to his daughter, expressing his regrets about their relationship and how he tried to guide her in life. The lyrics touch on the theme of a child leaving home and making poor choices, causing pain to both parties. The chorus sets the tone of the song with the repeated question, "Didn't I?", expressing the father's frustration that he wasn't able to prevent his daughter from making mistakes.


The first verse reflects on the bittersweet moments shared between father and daughter, alternating between nostalgia and anguish. It is clear that the father still loves his daughter and wants her to return home, but he also feels powerless to help her. He reflects on how he tried to teach her about life and avoid negative influences, but she didn't listen. In the second verse, the father talks about how his daughter left home for the city, pursuing her dreams of fame and fortune. He admits that he tried to find her and protect her, but ultimately she ignored his warnings and ended up in trouble. The song ends with the father pleading with his daughter to come home so they can work things out and be a family again.


Overall, "Didn't I" is a touching and emotional song that many listeners can relate to. It captures the pain and frustration of a parent watching their child make mistakes and suffer the consequences, while also highlighting the enduring love that persists through difficult times.


Line by Line Meaning

There are times to remember and times that I wish to forget
Sometimes, there are moments in our past that we cherish to reminisce, but other times, we don't want to recall them.


Our time together was tinged with love and regret
When we were together, it was ambiguous, both loving and regretful.


Oh my girl, my sweet, sweet little girl
I regard you as my girl, dear and precious to me on many levels.


Didn't I try to tell ya That life was for living Oh, didn't I?
I informed you that the purpose of life was to experience it fully, didn't I?


And wasn't I the guy who said Stay away from that tribe Oh, wasn't it?
I once said to you, 'avoid those people,' wasn't it?


And didn't I try to tell ya That stuff's gonna kill ya Oh, didn't I?
I endeavored to make you realize that substance abuse would lead to your peril, didn't I?


But you thought it was cool And I was just an old fool Oh, look at ya
You considered it fascinating, but I was merely an outdated simpleton, but look at the current state you are in.


You left home for the city with Hollywood stars in your eyes Now your mother God bless her cries herself to sleep every night Oh my girl, my sweet, innocent girl
You departed from home with the desire to live among the glamour of Hollywood. Now, your mother, who wishes you well, sobs uncontrollably every night. Oh, my girl, dear and virtuous to me.


Didn't I search the streets For the biggest pimps and cheats Oh, didn't I?
Didn't I scout around for the most notorious sex traffickers and swindlers on the street, didn't I?


And didn't I try to guide ya To a baptism of fire Oh, didn't I?
I attempted to offer enlightenment in the manner of an austere live-wire to you, didn't I?


And didn't I try to warn ya Bout that folk in California Oh, didn't I?
I tried to caution you about those individuals in California, didn't I?


But you said daddy, please, don't worry I got friends out there who love me Now look at ya
You pleaded with me not to fret since you had friends who adored you; now, look at the circumstance you are in.


Oh baby come back home, we can work this out There is not blame I wanna hold you close and stroke your hair And share your pain, yeah
Beloved, return to our abode, we can resolve whatever has happened, and there is no blame. I desire to embrace you and caress your hair while we both suffer sorrow, yeah.


Didn't I do the best for you Try to make you stay in school Didn't I?
I did my utmost to make things better for you and convinced you to stop dropping out of school, didn't I?


Once I was your hero But I went from 10 to 0 Oh, didn't I?
Previously, I was your idol, but I suddenly appeared to decline drastically in your sight, didn't I?


For a roll on the dice To really pay the ultimate price Oh, didn't ya?
Was it not foolish of you to make a significant gamble and eventually pay the supreme price?


Now I stand by your bedside Watching you fight for your life
Now, I am situated next to your bed, observing you fighting for your life.


Where's the innocence? (where's the innocence?) Where's the future? (where's the future?) Where's the beauty? (uuh) Where's the promise?
Where has the naivety vanished to? Where is the prospect of tomorrow? Where is the magnificence? Where is the assurance?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Rod Stewart, Kevin Savigar

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@1UTVolFan

Mr. Stewart,
While I feel you will never see this, I'll at least feel a cathartic release in setting these words free from my heart. ....

This song is probably an older song, but I heard it for the first time about a week ago.
Sitting in my driveway with a carload of groceries, I had to bow my head as the teardrops streamed from my eyes after the gut punch of your performance of this song.

Spot on!

About 4 months ago, my 26 year old daughter made the decision to estrange herself from me. We shared laughs, music, songs, sun, hiking, scary movies and much, much more.
She had a better than average youth. But, through the "help" of counseling, she figured out a way to rewrite her upbringing and learned how to hate me. We haven't spoken since.

So, this song epitomizes our relationship now.

Acutely left to wonder what happened, why it happened and the guilt of a crime I didn't commit has ripped my heart completely in half.

But, hearing "Didnt I" gives me a seed of strength I feel might grow. Hopefully it will grow into something that will be beautiful part of my life. But for now, it's still hard to see through these tears.

Finally, Thanks to EVERYONE that had a hand in writing, producing and performing this song.

Fan forever.



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@1UTVolFan

Mr. Stewart,
While I feel you will never see this, I'll at least feel a cathartic release in setting these words free from my heart. ....

This song is probably an older song, but I heard it for the first time about a week ago.
Sitting in my driveway with a carload of groceries, I had to bow my head as the teardrops streamed from my eyes after the gut punch of your performance of this song.

Spot on!

About 4 months ago, my 26 year old daughter made the decision to estrange herself from me. We shared laughs, music, songs, sun, hiking, scary movies and much, much more.
She had a better than average youth. But, through the "help" of counseling, she figured out a way to rewrite her upbringing and learned how to hate me. We haven't spoken since.

So, this song epitomizes our relationship now.

Acutely left to wonder what happened, why it happened and the guilt of a crime I didn't commit has ripped my heart completely in half.

But, hearing "Didnt I" gives me a seed of strength I feel might grow. Hopefully it will grow into something that will be beautiful part of my life. But for now, it's still hard to see through these tears.

Finally, Thanks to EVERYONE that had a hand in writing, producing and performing this song.

Fan forever.

@srenfrederiksen

👍 I have had the same experience and I can relate to your feelings and sorrow. But it's good and important to believe in the future 🌞

@savedbygrace2280

I'm so sorry to hear this... That is heartbreaking.

@hyenaedits3460

I do not understand why this song is played in so many department stores. It's so depressing. Not a bad song but not something I want to hear on a casual shopping trip let alone on a daily basis standing behind a register.

@deyahsteelmusic

For a man who not only grew up listening too this guy but also left home for the city and caused his parents over 10 year's off pure pain this song is the truth I just sent it too my mum and told her I loved her xxxxx

@khfan4life365

I think my aunt could relate to this song. Her daughter (my cousin) got hooked on drugs during and after high school. By the grace of God and my cousin’s determination, she has been clean for eight years and has a happy life with her daughter (the main reason she quit), baby son, and husband. She and her husband (who also recovered) now counsel recovering addicts. There is hope. You can recover. It’s not easy and the road to recovery is tough, but never give up. Life is worth living.

@stephendaparma3303

💪🏻👍🏻❤️

@yuyulimaster

I cried !!! Everybody is getting trough a different situations. Thats why we need to be nice w people. Powerful song and videoclip. Welcome back master Sir Rod !

@christinewharton1051

i cried too

@bpit9289

This song hits home and along with it it both tears and regrets. Tears for what we have lost and regrets for what , as a father, I could not change. Smiles for a child’s younger years and sadness for how it so quickly slipped away. Hope that things would change and we would have our baby back thru constant interventions to a life now so empty filled with love and regret from the moment she passed.
We lost our beautiful little girl to this scourge of addiction at the age of 25 and this song hits home as the love and memory of that child never abates. I too sought to end her troubles by the silence of those who would corrupt her. Although silence was obtained from some there were many others to fill those shoes, and they did

As a father we would kill or die for our children . But it now becomes painfully true that even our greatest efforts to heal the ones we love sometimes can not work. Several clinics , rehabs , vacations and time spent could not bring back the child that was lost.


I am thankful to have had the time to love her and cherish the memories with my beautiful little girl . And Though my heart is permanently shattered I know in time I will see her again and heal. I miss you HLB. Your Daddy.

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