Don't Ask for the Water
Ryan Adams Lyrics


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I hate this old place
And what it represents
And I hate who I was
And who I ended up since
But if you learned how to swim in case you'd drowned
Don't ask her for the water

Cause shell swallow you down
And she's ten miles of peace
And the hardest of nights
And her belfry's got arch
But her rooftops all right
But down here in the sewer
I'm smelling a rat
Don't ask her for the Whiskey

Cause her waters all that
And what horses we rode
Through what somber fields
With our lovers at war
And the dust on their heels
And the infidels screamed its all but a lie
Don't ask her for the water
Cause shell teach you to cry

Don't ask her for the water

Cause shell teach you to cry

And her weapon of choice is a red patterned dress
And a sac full of stones
With her hands on her chest
And a book full of quotes
And a tight fastened lip
Don't ask her for the water
Cause you'll sink like a ship
Don't ask her for the water





Cause you'll sink like a ship

Overall Meaning

The song "Don't Ask for the Water" by Ryan Adams is a melancholic ballad about a person who is struggling to cope up with their past and the present. The lyrics express an intense dislike for the old place and the person that has been since then. The song presents a sense of hopelessness and despair of not being able to go back in time to fix the mistakes or relive the moments of love that are now gone. The line "But if you learned how to swim in case you'd drowned" can be interpreted as a metaphor for survival, indicating that the only way to move on from this painful past is by learning to survive and deal with those emotions.


The chorus "Don't ask her for the water, Cause she'll swallow you down" implies that the person should avoid going back to the past and seek comfort from the same person who caused the pain. The lyrics describe the person who represents the past as all-consuming and overpowering, which will only bring more pain and tears. The last few lines "And a sac full of stones, With her hands on her chest, And a book full of quotes, And a tight fastened lip" depict that the person has closed themselves off and is no longer susceptible to love and affection.


Line by Line Meaning

I hate this old place
The singer dislikes the environment they are in


And what it represents
The singer has negative feelings towards the symbolic meaning behind the place


And I hate who I was
The singer dislikes who they used to be


And who I ended up since
The artist is unhappy with their current self


But if you learned how to swim in case you'd drowned
Despite feeling negative, the artist suggests learning to adapt in difficult situations


Don't ask her for the water
The singer advises against seeking assistance from a particular person


Cause shell swallow you down
The aforementioned person will consume and overcome those seeking help


And she's ten miles of peace
The person in question is often viewed as composed and peaceful


And the hardest of nights
Despite appearing at ease, the person is capable of enduring difficult times


And her belfry's got arch
The person has a prominent and impressive location or structure


But her rooftops all right
However, there may be hidden or overlooked issues


But down here in the sewer
The artist presents themselves as being in a less desirable position


I'm smelling a rat
The singer senses that something is not right


Don't ask her for the Whiskey
The singer continues to discourage seeking help from the person


Cause her waters all that
The previously mentioned person's assistance is both the only option and potentially dangerous


And what horses we rode
The artist references a time of fond memories


Through what somber fields
Despite these memories, they were experienced in a bleak atmosphere


With our lovers at war
Those closest to the singer were not on pleasant terms


And the dust on their heels
The people the singer cared about were leaving or distancing themselves


And the infidels screamed its all but a lie
Others have criticized the artist's thoughts and experiences


Don't ask her for the water
The previous warning is reiterated


Cause shell teach you to cry
Seeking help from the person may result in emotional pain and vulnerability


And her weapon of choice is a red patterned dress
The person presents themselves in a way that is both alluring and dangerous


And a sac full of stones
The person is prepared with the tools necessary to inflict harm


With her hands on her chest
The person seems poised and self-assured


And a book full of quotes
The person has a wealth of knowledge and wisdom


And a tight fastened lip
The person is unlikely to reveal too much or expose themselves


Don't ask her for the water
The listener is once again advised against asking the person for help


Cause you'll sink like a ship
Attempting to seek help from the person may have disastrous consequences


Don't ask her for the water
The final warning to steer clear of the person is reiterated


Cause you'll sink like a ship
The potential danger of seeking help is underscored




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: RYAN ADAMS

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Comments from YouTube:

courtney cotner

amazing song

Matt Malone

so much sorrow. thats what makes the song so good. inspiring stuff

huskerhotelfoxtrot

"her weapon of choice is a red-patterned dress"....kills me how great that is

Taylor Pratt

Oh my God the lyrics.

J. Alexander Reyes

!!!!!!me levante con el pie derecho hoy, acerté el haber puesto esta canción!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

victoria hope

"Don't ask her for the water, cause she'll teach you to cry"

Lavache Beadsman

What tape/performance are all these videos from?

yake yo

If i ever come across this place i will have absolutely no idea what to order...haha

Runfree0303

please some tell me what tuning he is in, or teach me to play this song

Sjoerd Bijlmakers

I know it is pretty late haha, but in case you still see/need this: it is open G but with a normal low E (so EGDGBD)

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