To Be Young
Ryan Adams Lyrics


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Young boy, you done me bad, I went and did ya wrong
Young boy, you done me bad, I went and did ya wrong
Then I got high, Lord I got high, and I got a bone to pick with you
And I'm sure you know it's true

Oh one day when you're looking back
You were young and man you were sad
When you're young you get sad
When your young you get sad, then you get high
Oh man

Young gal you done me bad and I went and did ya wrong
Young gal you done me bad so I went and did ya wrong
Then I got high
Lord, I got high
Now you got a bone to pick with me, but I wish you'd let me be

Oh one day when you're looking back
You were young and man you were sad
When you're young you get sad
When your young you get sad, then you get high
You get high

Oh the days the rain would fall your way
Oh the days the rain would fall your way
Then you be high, cause you got sad




Cause you got sad
Oh man

Overall Meaning

At its core, Ryan Adams's song "To Be Young" is an anthem for young people to embrace their youth and all its struggles: sadness, mistakes, and the freedom of reckless abandon that often comes with being young. The lyrics speak to a sense of carelessness and invincibility that often characterizes youth, as well as the pain and regret that can sometimes follow those adventures. The repeated refrain of "when you're young you get sad, then you get high" is particularly poignant, seeming to suggest that drugs and alcohol become a coping mechanism for young people as they navigate the ups and downs of adolescence.


The song's structure is fairly simple, with two verses that repeat almost identically, followed by the chorus. The verses tell two parallel stories of a young boy and a young girl who both did wrong and got high to deal with the aftermath. The chorus, with its soaring guitar riff, is where the song's central message really comes alive: "when you're young you get sad, when you're young you get high." The song seems to be urging young people to embrace their emotions and experiences, even if it's painful at times, because it's all a part of growing up and finding oneself.


Overall, "To Be Young" is a powerful and sentimental track that speaks to the joys and pains of youth. Whether you're young and struggling to find your place in the world or simply feeling nostalgic for your younger days, it's a song that's sure to strike a chord and resonate deeply.


Line by Line Meaning

Young boy, you done me bad, I went and did ya wrong
I wronged you after you hurt me, young boy


Then I got high, Lord I got high, and I got a bone to pick with you
I got high and now I have unresolved issues with you


Oh one day when you're looking back, You were young and man you were sad
Someday you'll realize how sad you were when you were young


When you're young you get sad, When your young you get sad, then you get high
Being young often leads to sadness and substance abuse


Young gal you done me bad and I went and did ya wrong
I did wrong to you because you did me wrong, young girl


Now you got a bone to pick with me, but I wish you'd let me be
You have a problem with me, but I want to be left alone


Oh the days the rain would fall your way, Then you be high, cause you got sad
The rainy days made you sad, and you turned to drugs to cope




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: David Rawlings, Ryan Adams

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

Taylor Ross

Young boy you done me bad I went and did ya wrong
Young boy you done me bad I went and did ya wrong
Then I got high Lord I got high and I got a bone to pick with you

And I'm sure you know its true

Oh one day when you're looking back
You were young and man you were sad
When you're young you get sad
When your young you get sad then you get high

Oh man
Young gal you done me bad and I went and did ya wrong
Young gal you done me bad so I went and did ya wrong
Then I got high
Lord I got high

Now you got a bone to pick with me but I wish you'd let me be
Oh one day when you're looking back
You were young and man you were sad
When you're young you get sad
When your young you get sad then you get high

You get high
Oh the days the rain would fall your way
Oh the days the rain would fall your way
Then you be high cause you got sad
Cause you got sad

Oh man



Jessica Berdiales

Young boy you done me bad I went and did ya wrong 
Young boy you done me bad I went and did ya wrong 
Then I got high Lord I got high and I got a bone to pick with you 

And I'm sure you know its true 

Oh one day when you're looking back 
You were young and man you were sad 
When you're young you get sad 
When your young you get sad then you get high 

Oh man 
Young gal you done me bad and I went and did ya wrong 
Young gal you done me bad so I went and did ya wrong 
Then I got high 
Lord I got high 

Now you got a bone to pick with me but I wish you'd let me be 
Oh one day when you're looking back 
You were young and man you were sad 
When you're young you get sad 
When your young you get sad then you get high 

You get high 
Oh the days the rain would fall your way 
Oh the days the rain would fall your way 
Then you be high cause you got sad 
Cause you got sad 

Oh man



All comments from YouTube:

American Gothic

You won't always be young, you may not always be sad, but you can still get high.

Joe Bell

Honest to God, I thought this was a sixties song when I first heard it. I am absolutely impressed. love it.

alittle chickun

i'm young, sad and high. this guy gets it.

Sebastian Welander

Hey, aren't we all? Cheer up. You're beautiful!

Sebastian Welander

Don't think I did. And stupid? Why is that if I may ask?

trixie tang

The reply is for chingy

Sebastian Welander

Why are you calling her stupid?

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TheAnanaki

Elton John called this the most beautiful album he has ever heard. Let that sink in. His cover of "Oh my sweet Carolina" shows how just much.

Taylor Ross

Young boy you done me bad I went and did ya wrong
Young boy you done me bad I went and did ya wrong
Then I got high Lord I got high and I got a bone to pick with you

And I'm sure you know its true

Oh one day when you're looking back
You were young and man you were sad
When you're young you get sad
When your young you get sad then you get high

Oh man
Young gal you done me bad and I went and did ya wrong
Young gal you done me bad so I went and did ya wrong
Then I got high
Lord I got high

Now you got a bone to pick with me but I wish you'd let me be
Oh one day when you're looking back
You were young and man you were sad
When you're young you get sad
When your young you get sad then you get high

You get high
Oh the days the rain would fall your way
Oh the days the rain would fall your way
Then you be high cause you got sad
Cause you got sad

Oh man

paulhorn27

I don't care what he did. His music is amazing.

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