Daughter
Ryan Cassata Lyrics


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10 years ago I cut my hair
And I changed my name as people stared
And I went on TV and I so did declare
That this is who I am, for anyone that cares

I didn′t change who I am
I've always been a man
Still, it changed your world
But dad, I′ll always stay your little girl

10 years ago, I know you had a hard time
And I tried and tried, cause I want you in my life
I'm just living true, no doubt in my mind
And these changes they take time you'll find

I didn′t change who I am
I′ve always been a man
Still, it changed your world
But dad, I'll always stay your little girl

I know that you accept me as your son
But that Doesn′t mean your daughter ever did a run
I'll always be close to you, no matter what
I love you and no doors are ever shut

I didn′t change who I am
I've always been a man
Still, it changed your world
But dad, I′ll always stay your little girl

I didn't change who I am,
I've always been a man
Still, it changed your world




But dad, I′ll always stay your little girl
But dad, I′ll always stay your little girl

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ryan Cassata's song "Daughter" are incredibly poignant and deeply personal to the artist. The song deals with the experience of being a transgender person and the struggle to be accepted by loved ones. The first verse describes the moment when the artist cut their hair and changed their name, effectively announcing to the world that they were asserting their true identity as a man. The line "And I went on TV and I so did declare" suggests that this was a public act, and that the artist was not afraid to speak out about who they really were.


In the chorus, the artist reflects on the impact that their transition had on their father, acknowledging that "it changed your world." However, the artist also reassures their father that despite this change, they will "always stay your little girl," emphasizing the importance of maintaining their relationship despite this difficult period of adjustment. The second verse echoes this sentiment, with the artist acknowledging that their father "had a hard time" but that they have always tried to reach out and remain close.


Overall, "Daughter" is a powerful and moving tribute to the experiences of transgender people and the struggle for acceptance and understanding. By sharing his own struggles with gender identity, Ryan Cassata has created a touching and heartfelt song that resonates with anyone who has ever felt different or misunderstood.


Line by Line Meaning

10 years ago I cut my hair
A decade back, I decided to chop off my hair.


And I changed my name as people stared
As people curiously looked at me, I changed my name as well.


And I went on TV and I so did declare
I officially announced on TV that this is the real me.


That this is who I am, for anyone that cares
I'm being true to myself and I don't care who judges me.


I didn't change who I am
My true identity was always there, I just made it visible.


I've always been a man
Despite societal roles and norms, I knew who I was from the start.


Still, it changed your world
My journey affected those around me, even if they accepted me.


But dad, I'll always stay your little girl
No matter what, I will always be my father's child.


I know that you accept me as your son
I am glad that my father accepts me for who I really am.


But that Doesn't mean your daughter ever did a run
But I want you to know that I never abandoned my old self, she's still a part of me.


I'll always be close to you, no matter what
I'll never drift apart from my family, despite how different we may seem.


I love you and no doors are ever shut
My love for my loved ones will never be hindered by our differences.




Writer(s): Ryan Otto Cassata

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@deadname.not_found9659

Me: I wanna cut my hairs

My mom: hell naw. You look ugly

My dad: sure sweetye whaterver makes you happy

Me some years later. STILL WITH LONG HAIR: Hey, I'm trans!

My dad: I might be a phase, but if it makes you happy, then I have two sons and two daughters. It's fine smiles at me and hugs me (we even went shopping afterwards)

Me then with my mom: I'm trans

My mom: deathstares me gOd mAdE yOu a lAdY aND yOu'Re StAyInG OnE



@jessp4016

@@Popplebop  @vannpire vidzz  in this situation I'd remind her that not all women wear makeup, not all men aren't feminine, flamboyant, OR simply don't love makeup or fashion -- because MANY guys love fashion, art, design, and even makeup (starting from a young age even!). There's many tomboys too. If all of these people exist, it makes sense that you'd also not like dresses on an easier-to-handle level but if that's her gender bias then it makes sense that you're transitioning. I'm a cis female and I've always joked that my mom should have had another daughter :p and my friends often bonded with her over high feminine things. It's not that I'm not feminine, but I wasn't as in to fashion and frills and sequins and sparkles and pink (pink I liked for a short time around 4). I've never cared for jewelry, it annoys me. Many men wear jewelry. I resent makeup but it does look good lol so I'll do it. I'm so lazy about my hair :p. Also here's a website that discusses studies that found that only 0-13% (0 because they don't know everything about the brain) of people have 100%male or female brains -- what I mean by that is the fact that certain parts of the brain are more like to be certain shapes, sizes, or have certain characteristics if the person is male or female.
https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn28582-scans-prove-theres-no-such-thing-as-a-male-or-female-brain/
Here's a link to a ted talk about other facts about the brain that can relate to gender transitions.
I watched this TED Talk and thought you would find it interesting.

Karissa Sanbonmatsu: The biology of gender, from DNA to the brain
https://go.ted.com/CoUf

Learn more about watching TED Talks on all of your favorite platforms: https://www.ted.com/about/programs-initiatives/ted-talks/ways-to-get-ted-talks



@CopperCoinz

Me: Cuts hair off

Mom to her friends: Oh you know how teens are, trying to rebel.

Dad: You haven't figured it out yet, this is just your rebellious phase.

Me: *Bi-Ace/Trans pause*... yEP, REBEL, THAT'S WHAT I AM

Edit: Turns out i am binary- specifically a man



@greekg0d584

10 years ago I cut my hair
And I changed my name as people stared
And I went on TV and I so did declare
That this is who I am, for anyone that cares

I didn’t change who I am
I’ve always been a man
Still, it changed your world
But dad, I’ll always stay your little girl

10 years ago, I know you had a hard time
And I tried and tried, cause I want you in my life
I’m just living true, no doubt in my mind
And these changes they take time you’ll find

I didn’t change who I am
I’ve always been a man
Still, it changed your world
But dad, I’ll always stay your little girl

I know that you accept me as your son
But that Doesn’t mean your daughter ever did a run
I’ll always be close to you, no matter what
I love you and no doors are ever shut

I didn’t change who I am
I’ve always been a man
Still, it changed your world
But dad, I’ll always stay your little girl

I didn’t change who I am,
I’ve always been a man
Still, it changed your world
But dad, I’ll always stay your little girl
But dad, I’ll always stay your little girl



All comments from YouTube:

@RyanCassata

Thank you so much to everyone who made this happen. I'm so proud of how this came out. <3

@damiensukulele2834

Ryan Cassata this is honestly my new favorite song, I remember my dad was the last one in my family to start using he/him pronouns. I relate to this song so much. Thank you for making it. I started honestly crying.

@morganmillward

Ryan Cassata could you put the chords somewhere so i can learn it?

@mf6598

Ryan Cassata I wish you could thumbs up more than once

@legoduckie

Heh. Came out.

@RyanCassata

I am working on getting the chords online.

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@heidi.9057

Me: cuts hair off
My dad: jokingly "I never wanted a son."
Me: "Well, now you have one."
My dad: suprised pikachu face

@thebutifulbees7320

I like The song I am a boy now I wass a girl beffore

@4mpl1f1er

I love this song.I'm non-binary!

@LauleyPops

im ftm and i was the only daughter... now my dad has 4 sons! ( but he doesnt know it yet lol closeted check )

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