Never as Good as the First Time
Sade Lyrics


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Good times, they come and they go
Never going to know
What fate is going to blow
Your way, just hope that it feels right
Sometimes it comes and it goes
You take it ever so slow
And then you lose it
And then it flows right to you
So we rely on the past
And special moments that last
Were they as tender
As we dare to remember?
Such a fine time as this
What could equal the bliss
The thrill of the first kiss
It'll blow right to you

It's never as good as the first time
Never as good as the first time
(Never as good as the first time)

Good times, they come and they go
Never going to know
It's like the weather
One day chicken, next day feathers
The rose we remember
The thorns we forget
We'd love and leave
We never spend a minute on regret
It is a possibility
The more we know, the less we see
Second time is not quite what it seemed
Natural as the way we came to be
The second time won't live up to the dream

It's never as good as the first time
(Never as good as the first time)
Never as good as the first time
(Never as good as the first time)

Ba-da-da-da, bum-bum-bum
Ba-ba-da-da-da, bum-bum
Ba-da-da-da, bum-bum-bum
Ba-ba-da-da-da, bum-bum

Natural as the way we came to be
Second time won't live up to the dream
As natural as the way we came to be
The second time is not quite what it seemed

It's never as good as the first time
As the first time
Never as good as the first time (the first time)

Natural as the way we came to be
Second time won't live up to the dream
As natural as the way we came to be
Second time is not quite what it seemed

It's never, ooh
As good as the first time (as good)
As the first time
As good as the first time (first time)

Ba-da-da-da, bum-bum-bum
Ba-ba-da-da-da, bum-bum




Ba-da-da-da, bum-bum-bum
Ba-ba-da-da-da, bum-bum

Overall Meaning

In Sade's song Never As Good As the First Time, the singer reflects on the passing of time and how special moments of the past remain forever etched in our memory. The opening lines suggest that we never know what fate will bring our way and that sometimes we experience highs and lows, which we must accept as part of life. We hope that the good times we experience will feel right, but sometimes we have to settle for slow acceptance and even loss.


The chorus repeats the phrase "Never as good as the first time" to emphasize that things may never be as perfect or as joyful as they were when we experienced them for the first time. The lines "Good times, they come and they go, never going to know, it's like the weather, one day chicken, next day feathers" affirm the idea that everything in life is impermanent, and just like the weather, good times can turn into bad times without warning.


The second stanza continues the theme of life's unpredictability and how we often forget the bad things and only remember the good. The lyrics suggest that we fall in love and leave without regret, and that with each encounter, we learn less and less about love. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus, with the added beat of Ba-da-da-da and Bum-bum, to highlight the song's somber message that "second time is not quite what it seemed."


Line by Line Meaning

Good times, they come and they go
The enjoyable moments of life do not last forever and are temporary


Never going to know
It is impossible to predict the future and what it holds


What fate is going to blow
We cannot control what happens to us and are at the mercy of fate


Your way, just hope that it feels right
We can only hope that the circumstances that come our way are desirable


Sometimes it comes and it goes
Some opportunities appear and disappear without warning


You take it ever so slow
To savor the good things in life, it is important to take it slow and enjoy every moment


And then you lose it
Despite our best efforts, sometimes we still lose what we cherish


And then it flows right to you
However, there are times when the good things come back to us effortlessly


So we rely on the past
When present circumstances are uncertain, we tend to rely on our past experiences for guidance


And special moments that last
Memorable moments in the past help us get through uncertain times


Were they as tender
We question whether these memories are as soft and loving as we remember them


As we dare to remember?
We question whether our memories are exaggerations or true reflections of reality


Such a fine time as this
We are currently experiencing a time that is great and reminiscent of the past


What could equal the bliss
We ask what could be as great as this moment that we are living in


The thrill of the first kiss
The excitement and joy of experiencing something for the first time, such as a kiss, cannot be duplicated


It'll blow right to you
Good moments can come as easily and quickly as the wind blows


It's never as good as the first time
Repeated experiences cannot match the excitement and greatness of experiencing something for the first time


(Never as good as the first time)
This line appears throughout the song as a repeated chorus


It's like the weather
Life is unpredictable and can change as quickly and suddenly as the weather


One day chicken, next day feathers
One day life can be great and the next, it can be terrible


The rose we remember
We tend to focus on the good things we experienced and remember them fondly


The thorns we forget
However, we tend to forget the negative and painful experiences we went through


We'd love and leave
Our tendency is to move on from an experience after it has run its course


We never spend a minute on regret
We rarely take the time to reflect on our past and regret our actions


It is a possibility
There is a chance that the more we know about something, the less exciting it becomes


The more we know, the less we see
As we delve deeper into something, it can become less and less special to us


Second time is not quite what it seemed
Even if we experience something again, it will never quite live up to our initial experience


Natural as the way we came to be
It is natural to seek out new experiences and to want to repeat memorable ones


The second time won't live up to the dream
No matter how much we want it to, a repeated experience can never be as great as the first


Ba-da-da-da, bum-bum-bum
These sounds appear throughout the song as a musical interlude


Ba-ba-da-da-da, bum-bum
These sounds appear throughout the song as a musical interlude




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Stuart Matthewman, Helen Adu

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