The Facts of Love
Santana Lyrics


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You know they say that one hand washes the other
Well you better start, better start looking out for me
'Cause there's a way that you can be minus one lover
Just keep making it hard deliberately

If you're gonna play with fire don't cry when you burn your fingers
I'm not going to be the fool that you get tired of
Someone's got to clean up their act before the show is over
Baby such are the facts of love

It's been so long since we made magic together
But you never stopped taking real good care of yourself
There comes a time you see your face in the mirror
And something tells you the pain ain't good for your health no no

If you're gonna play with fire don't cry when you burn your fingers
I'm not going to be the fool that you get tired of
Someone's got to clean up their act before the show is over
Baby such are the facts of love, ooh

If you gonna play with fire don't cry when you burn your fingers
I'm not going to be the fool that you get tired of




Somebody's got to clean up their act before the show is over
Baby such are the facts, the facts of love, the facts of love, the facts of love

Overall Meaning

In Santana's song "The Facts of Love," the lyrics speak to the difficulties of maintaining a healthy relationship. The opening line, "You know they say that one hand washes the other," suggests the idea of mutual give-and-take in a relationship, but then quickly turns to a warning for the other person to start looking out for the singer. The line, "Just keep making it hard deliberately," implies a deliberate attempt by the other person to make things difficult in the relationship. The singer then warns against playing with fire and risking getting burned, emphasizing that they will not be played for a fool.


The second verse hints at the idea that the relationship has been strained for some time, that it has been too long since the two have "made magic together." The line, "But you never stopped taking real good care of yourself," suggests that the other person has been more focused on their own needs and wellbeing rather than prioritizing the relationship. The singer then provides a warning that the pain of the troubled relationship is not good for anyone's health.


Overall, the lyrics of "The Facts of Love" speak to the difficulties of maintaining a healthy, mutually beneficial relationship, while also highlighting the importance of taking care of oneself and not allowing oneself to be taken advantage of or used as a tool by the other person.


Line by Line Meaning

You know they say that one hand washes the other
You understand that you should help others in exchange for their help


Well you better start, better start looking out for me
You need to start taking care of me and not just yourself


'Cause there's a way that you can be minus one lover
If you continue to mistreat me, you could end up alone without a lover


Just keep making it hard deliberately
You are purposely making things difficult between us


If you're gonna play with fire don't cry when you burn your fingers
If you engage in risky behavior, do not be surprised when you suffer the consequences


I'm not going to be the fool that you get tired of
I refuse to keep putting up with your mistreatment


Someone's got to clean up their act before the show is over
One of us needs to change their behavior before it's too late


Baby such are the facts of love
These are the harsh realities of being in a romantic relationship


It's been so long since we made magic together
It has been a while since we had a special connection


But you never stopped taking real good care of yourself
You have always made sure to prioritize your own well-being


There comes a time you see your face in the mirror
There will be a point where you will see the negative effects of your behavior on yourself


And something tells you the pain ain't good for your health no no
You will realize that the pain of our relationship is not beneficial for your physical or emotional health


Somebody's got to clean up their act before the show is over
One of us needs to make a change to salvage our relationship


Baby such are the facts, the facts of love, the facts of love, the facts of love
These are the undeniable realities of being in a romantic relationship, repeated for emphasis




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BRIAN POTTER, DENNIS LAMBERT

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Mike Maheu

One of the best albums of all time in my mind. A hidden gem in the Santana collection.

AJ Hill

Indeed, Greg Walker made a smooth, dynamic and soulful change, gave Alex ligertwood a deserved break, for once!

steve mcqueeney

I totally agree with you!
I heard this song for the first time back in 1978 and have listened to it at least a couple of times a month ever since and I've turned as many people as possible onto it throughout the years.
It's got THE BEST INSTRUMENTALS OF ALL TIMES, in my humble opinion.
KeepOnKeepin'On Rockin'! Im happy to know that others appreciate this gem of a song as much as I have and still do. What a timeless peice of art!

billy bynorth

Mike Maheu I agree

Wicca Slick

Agreed Mike

billy bynorth

This whole album is a masterpiece .ive been listening to it since it came out. 1978 in south africa

Rick h

I've always been a hard rock and metal fan and wouldn't normally listen to 'softer' music like Santana, but i discovered this album by accident (when it first came out in 1978) as somebody played "open Invitation" at a venue i went to. The guitar work is fantastic and i've still got the original LP that i bought all those years ago. A classic album and every Rock Fan should listen to it. Thanks for posting.

1988ziggy

One of the best albums of all time.A simplistic musical & emotional rollercoaster,a definite one that can be listened to from start to finish whilst relaxing in the sun with some liqour

Meli Smith

One of my favorites and it never gets old....love Santana💕.

AJ Hill

Love it so much never get sick of it

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