Seether gained mainstream popularity in 2002 with their US Active Rock number one single "Fine Again", and their success was sustained in 2004 with the single "Broken", which peaked at number 20 on the Billboard Hot 100. They have experienced continued success with number one hits on the Hot Mainstream Rock Tracks chart, such as "Remedy", "Fake It", "Country Song", "Words as Weapons", and "Let You Down". The band currently consists of lead vocalist/guitarist Shaun Morgan, bassist Dale Stewart, drummer John Humphrey and guitarist Corey Lowery (exStuck Mojo, Stereomud}. Seether has undergone several lineup changes since their formation in 1999, with vocalist/guitarist Shaun Morgan being the only constant member.
The Gift
Seether Lyrics
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Like I never wanted anything
I suppose I'll let this go and find a reason I'll hold on to
I'm so ashamed of defeat
And I'm out of reason to believe in me
I'm out of trying to get by
I'm so afraid of the gift you give me
I'm so ashamed of the lie I'm living
Right on the wrong side of it all
I can't face myself when I wake up
And look inside a mirror
I'm so ashamed of that thing
I suppose I'll let it go
until I have something more to say for me
I'm so afraid of defeat
And I'm out of reason to believe in me
I'm out of trying to defy
I'm so afraid of the gift you give me
I don't belong here and I'm not well
I'm so ashamed of the lie I'm living
Right on the wrong side of it all
Hold me now I need to feel complete
Like I matter to the one I need
I'm so afraid of the gift you give me
I don't belong here and I'm not well
I'm so ashamed of the lie I'm living
Right on the wrong side of it all
Now I'm ashamed of this
I am so ashamed of this
Now I'm so ashamed of this
I am so ashamed of me
The lyrics to Seether's song "The Gift" express the struggles of a person who is dealing with shame, defeat, and lack of self-belief. The artist expresses their need for relief and a purpose to hold onto as they feel ashamed of themselves and the lie they are living. They are afraid of the gift they have been given, which could be their talent, potential or anything that sets them apart. The artist feels like they don't belong and are not well, dwelling on the wrong side of life. They express that they cannot face themselves in the mirror and are ashamed of what they see.
The artist is also struggling with a personal lie that they have been living and trying to let go of, until they find something to say for themselves. They feel defeated, with no reason left to believe in themselves, as they are afraid of the gift that was given to them. The song portrays a sense of hopelessness and self-doubt. In the end, the artist wants to feel complete, like they matter to the one who needs them. The lyrics depict a poignantly relatable struggle of feeling out of place and lacking in self-worth.
Line by Line Meaning
Hold me now I need to feel relief
I'm in so much pain and turmoil that I need someone to comfort me and help me escape my problems.
Like I never wanted anything
I feel like I don't deserve happiness and that my life is lacking purpose and meaning.
I suppose I'll let this go and find a reason I'll hold on to
I need to let go of the past and find a new reason to keep going, despite my doubts and fears.
I'm so ashamed of defeat
I feel like a failure and am deeply embarrassed by my shortcomings.
And I'm out of reason to believe in me
I have lost faith in myself and my abilities.
I'm out of trying to get by
I am exhausted from constantly trying to survive and make it through each day.
I'm so afraid of the gift you give me
I'm scared of the love and support that someone is offering me because I feel unworthy of it.
I don't belong here and I'm not well
I feel like I don't fit in anywhere and that something is deeply wrong with me.
I'm so ashamed of the lie I'm living
I am deeply ashamed of pretending to be someone I'm not and hiding my true feelings.
Right on the wrong side of it all
I feel like I'm on the opposite side of where I should be in life.
I can't face myself when I wake up
I cannot bear to confront my own thoughts and feelings when I first wake up in the morning.
And look inside a mirror
When I do look at myself in the mirror, I am full of self-loathing and disgust.
I'm so ashamed of that thing
I am deeply ashamed of a certain aspect of myself or something that I have done.
I suppose I'll let it go until I have something more to say for me
I need to release my shame and guilt but only when I am ready to forgive myself and move forward.
I'm so afraid of defeat
I am terrified of failing and losing any shred of hope or self-worth that I have left.
And I'm out of reason to believe in me
I have lost all faith in myself and my ability to succeed.
I'm out of trying to defy
I am tired of fighting against the obstacles in my life and am ready to give up.
Like I matter to the one I need
I desperately want to feel valued and loved by somebody who is important to me.
Now I'm ashamed of this
I am now deeply ashamed of what has happened or what I have done.
I am so ashamed of this
I feel immense guilt and embarrassment about my actions or situation.
Now I'm so ashamed of this
I have never felt more ashamed or helpless in my life.
I am so ashamed of me
I feel a deep sense of self-hatred and disgust for who I am as a person.
Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Reservoir Media Management, Inc.
Written by: Shaun Welgemoed
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@matthewgarnier7701
Hold me now I need to feel relief
Like I never wanted anything
I suppose I'll let this go and find a reason I'll hold on to
I'm so ashamed of defeat
And I'm out of reason to believe in me
I'm out of trying to get by
I'm so afraid of the gift you give me
I don't belong here and I'm not well
I'm so ashamed of the lie I'm living
Right on the wrong side of it all
I can't face myself when I wake up
And look inside a mirror
I'm so ashamed of that thing
I suppose I'll let it go
until I have something more to say for me
I'm so afraid of defeat
And I'm out of reason to believe in me
I'm out of trying to defy
I'm so afraid of the gift you give me
I don't belong here and I'm not well
I'm so ashamed of the lie I'm living
Right on the wrong side of it all
Hold me now I need to feel complete
Like I matter to the one I need
I'm so afraid of the gift you give me
I don't belong here and I'm not well
I'm so ashamed of the lie I'm living
Right on the wrong side of it all
Now I'm ashamed of this
I am so ashamed of this
Now I'm so ashamed of this
I am so ashamed of me
@tbolinger75
I can honestly say I wouldn't be alive if not for this song. While in the Marine Corps, things got to a boiling point and I was ready to just end everything. This song popped up on my playlist on my 360 and for the first time I really listened to the words. I broke down, and finally all the built up emotions came like a flood. These are powerful lyrics, and I hope that somehow the band gets to read this. Thanks Seether, you saved a Marine's life.
@Aprillfools
I hope you are doing well and have found a reason and have found peace. Sending well wishes
@karanfield4229
Glad yr still here🕊
@Klownguy22
Thank you for your service!!
@subzerorevenge8569
Thank goodness for that sir and thank you for your service. Stay strong and don't let life get you down (advice I myself am trying to follow).
@MegaBullfrog09
Shaun Morgan lost a brother to suicide. So I'm sure that if he read this, then he would be very happy to hear that he helped you.
@skaterrrdie
Just got out of jail and I am going on my 12th day sober. I am blessed to still be here on this earth and this is the first song I listened to after getting out. It gives me the strength I need to keep on pushing
@johnnysortore402
Wishing you all the best. It’s tough but very doable. I picked up 5 years clean last Tuesday. God bless you kind soul.
@skaterrrdie
@@johnnysortore402 Thanks Johnny. We're all in this fight together brotha.
@user-zx1ir7jt4c
Seether is actually underrated...