Our Love
Sharon Van Etten Lyrics


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You say I am genuine
I see your backhand again
I'm a sinner, I have sinned
We're a half mast flag in wind

It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love

At the bottom of a well
I'm reliving my own hell
Someone throws the ladder down
Still don't know what I have found

In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love

It's all love
It's all love
It's all love
It's all love
It's all love
It's all love




It's all love
It's all love

Overall Meaning

In the song "Our Love," Sharon Van Etten is exploring the complexities of a relationship that is both genuine, and yet, problematic. The opening line, "You say I am genuine," suggests that one of the partners in the relationship is acknowledging the other's authenticity. However, the following line "I see your backhand again" indicates that there is still conflict between the two, especially given that the backhand is typically a reference to a slap or a hit from the back, suggesting that the conflict between the two has turned physical.


The next two lines reveal that the singer is aware of her own flaws, admitting to being a "sinner" who has "sinned." The metaphor of the "half mast flag in wind" illustrates the precariousness of the relationship, which is blowing in the wind, half of it drooping down due to the weight of the issues that the couple is dealing with.


The chorus repeats the phrase "It's our love," over and over again, emphasizing that it is the love that is holding the two together despite the challenges that they are facing. However, the slight changes in the melody each time the line is repeated signify a certain sense of unease and uncertainty in the relationship.


The next verse describes the singer as being at the "bottom of a well," a space that is dark and isolated, symbolizing the singer's feelings of isolation and loneliness within the relationship. The line "I'm reliving my own hell" suggests that the singer is going through some sort of a personal crisis, which is also affecting the relationship.


The following line, "Someone throws the ladder down," indicates that there is a glimmer of hope, an attempt by the other partner to reach out and help the singer out of her metaphorical well. However, the singer admits that she still doesn't know what she has found, suggesting that the relationship remains confusing and uncertain for her.


Overall, "Our Love" is a song that captures the complexity of a relationship that is failing, yet is still being held together by love. It portrays the struggles of the two partners trying to make things work, despite their issues.


Line by Line Meaning

You say I am genuine
You acknowledge my authenticity


I see your backhand again
I recognize your subtle insult


I'm a sinner, I have sinned
I am guilty of wrongdoing


We're a half mast flag in wind
We are struggling to stay afloat


It's our love
Our relationship is the source of these emotions


At the bottom of a well
I am in a dark place


I'm reliving my own hell
I am haunted by past trauma


Someone throws the ladder down
Someone is trying to help me escape


Still don't know what I have found
I am unsure if I want to be saved


It's all love
In the end, all that matters is love




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Written by: Sharon Van Etten

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Most interesting comments from YouTube:

@normupipita1217

Dices que soy genuino
Veo tu espalda otra vez
Soy un pecador. He pecado
Somos una bandera de medio mástil en el viento
Es nuestro amor

Es nuestro amor, es nuestro amor
Es nuestro amor, es nuestro amor
Es nuestro amor, es nuestro amor
Es nuestro amor, es nuestro amor

En el fondo de un pozo
Estoy reviviendo mi propio infierno
Alguien tira la escalera hacia abajo
Todavía no sé lo que he encontrado
En nuestro amor

En nuestro amor, en nuestro amor, en nuestro amor, en nuestro amor
En nuestro amor, en nuestro amor, en nuestro amor, en nuestro amor
Es todo amor, es todo amor, es todo amor, es todo amor

Es todo amor, es todo amor, es todo amor, es todo amor



@hennylaundry4912

You say I am genuine
I see your backhand again
I'm a sinner, I have sinned
We're a half mast flag in wind

It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love
It's our love

At the bottom of a well
I'm reliving my own hell
Someone throws the ladder down
Still don't know what I have found

In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love
In our love

It's all love
It's all love
It's all love
It's all love
It's all love
It's all love
It's all love
It's all love



All comments from YouTube:

@battlepapaya

blows my mind to go from her song "seventeen" to this. what an artist! I appreciate a voice with rangeeeeee

@TTryyan

seventeen came after ləv

@pukakeneki905

I’d play this in my wedding to myself

@kilderkin13

simple, hauntingly beautiful and mesmerizing. excellent production, sounds almost uplifting with subtle and thoughtful layers to perfectly capture Sharon's mood (love the switching from electric beats to a live sound w/ rich snare.)

@Gammaflaj

I just realized that she keeps her eyes close almost the entirety of this video. The video is made so specifically for the song, most ppl don't even get that.

@carlyhayes2816

I had never heard of her.........now she's all I want to hear, back to the video marathon!

@JordanWilhelmi

One of my favorites off the album - but who am I kidding...they're all great!

@T0mat0S0up

I never knew this song existed 20 minutes ago and my faith is restored in modern music that it can still move me.

@P9_STUDIO

That means nuttin from someone that likes Alanis Morrisette and Simply Red.   #imjustsaying  
You are so far of beeing "modern".
(Excuse my english)

@breed3011

Albert Zaera a real mensch

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