Unmade Bed
Sonic Youth Lyrics


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Look who's come back home again
Loser looking for his lucky break
This time he says he just needs a friend
Ain't on the run he ain't on the take

Can you take this door babe
Will you just undo the chain
Will you take your time before you
Mix up love, his love and pain

Loneliness lays down his head
Wants to get you high, better take it now
A man like that's like an unmade bed
Stained eyes searching for another way out

Does it matter if you even want this
Maybe you just don't care
All I know it takes just one kiss, babe
For you, he's never there

Hey I know it's kinda hard
And maybe this time it will never end
Hit and run lover back in your heart
Answered prayers you should never have sent

Cause now that your in his arms babe
You know your just in his way




Suckered by his fatal charm, oh girl
It's time we get away

Overall Meaning

The Sonic Youth song “Unmade Bed” is a song about a man who has returned home and is looking for a friend rather than a financial opportunity. The song speaks of loneliness, which is personified in this instance, and how it wants to get you high. The man, who is referred to as a loser, is like an unmade bed that has stained eyes and is searching for another way out. The singer questions whether the woman should even care about the man and the relationship he is seeking. She suggests that one kiss is all he wants and he’ll never be there again.


The song is about the complexity of relationships and how people can get sucked into them without realizing the dangers they may face. The idea of loneliness laying down its head and wanting to get high creates a feeling of desperation and neediness. The lyrics also suggest that the man is back in the woman’s heart because she answered his prayers, even though she shouldn’t have.


Overall, “Unmade Bed” portrays the negative effects of a toxic relationship while highlighting the fact that it can be hard to end such a relationship, even when the odds are against you.


Line by Line Meaning

Look who's come back home again
Someone returns after some time away


Loser looking for his lucky break
Someone who is unsuccessful and looking for an opportunity to change his fate


This time he says he just needs a friend
He needs someone to rely on for emotional support


Ain't on the run he ain't on the take
He is not running away from anything at the moment, nor is he trying to deceive someone


Can you take this door babe
Asking if the partner is willing to open the door


Will you just undo the chain
Asking if the partner would unhook the chain so that they could go inside


Will you take your time before you
Asking the partner to slow down and not rush into anything


Mix up love, his love and pain
Mixing up the emotions and not being able to differentiate between love and pain


Loneliness lays down his head
When someone feels lonely, they often have negative thoughts


Wants to get you high, better take it now
Trying to distract oneself from loneliness by doing something that gives immediate pleasure


A man like that's like an unmade bed
A man who can't be stable and keeps changing his mind about things


Stained eyes searching for another way out
Eyes with dark circles indicating lack of sleep and trying to escape from the present


Does it matter if you even want this
Asking if the partner cares enough to make an effort


Maybe you just don't care
Suggesting that the partner doesn't really care


All I know it takes just one kiss, babe
A single kiss can change everything


For you, he's never there
Even though he is with someone, he is not really present


Hey I know it's kinda hard
Admitting that it is difficult


And maybe this time it will never end
This might be a never-ending cycle


Hit and run lover back in your heart
Describing a lover who comes and goes without any commitment


Answered prayers you should never have sent
Regretting a decision to seek divine intervention


Cause now that you're in his arms babe
Referring to the partner who is now with her lover


You know you're just in his way
Realizing that she is in the way and not valued enough by the lover


Suckered by his fatal charm, oh girl
Getting fooled by his charm and being spellbound


It's time we get away
Realizing that it's time to break free and leave behind the toxic relationship




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: JIM (US) O'ROURKE, KIM A GORDON, LEE M RANALDO, STEVEN SHELLEY, THURSTON JOSEPH MOORE

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