A Rush On Me
Stephanie Mills Lyrics


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You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better

What kind of girl do you think I am
It's just too soon, can't you understand
I'm not the kind of girl who has to
Lay you down before I fall in love
It's been kind of relaxed here waiting ???
But baby, you got to slow down

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Baby)

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Baby)

Please just be patient if nothing else, oh, babe
Just know that I respect myself, yes, I do

But I hope I didn't lead you to thinking
Thinking that I was that easy, boy
I know that we're living in the 80s
Yet some things never change

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Baby)

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Baby)

I'm just an old fashioned girl
When it comes down to love
Before I give you some love
I've got to be sure your intentions are pure

(Oh, babe) You're puttin' a rush on me (Take it easy, baby)
But I'd like to know you better (Don't rush it, baby)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time, oh...)

You're puttin' a rush on me (Oh, oh, oh, yeah, yeah)

You're puttin' a rush on me (Puttin' a rush on me)
Baby, can't you see (Oh, can't you see)
Puttin' a rush on me (You're puttin' a rush on me)
Yeh, ey, hey, hey

You're puttin' a rush on me (Oh, babe)
But I'd like to know you better (Puttin' a rush on me, don't-don't do it, babe)
You're puttin' a rush on me (I can't stand it, baby)
But I'd like to know you better (Don't you do it, baby, ah...oh...oh...)

You're puttin' a rush on me (Oh...oh...oh...oh...)
But I'd like to know you better (Yeah)

You're puttin' a rush on me (You're puttin' a rush on me)
Oh, baby, can't you see (Oh, baby, can't you see)
Puttin' a rush on me (Puttin' a rush on me)
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'd like to know

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Oh, baby, ooh, ooh, ooh, babe)
You're puttin' a rush on me (Slow down, boy)
But I'd like to know you better (Take it easy)





You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better

Overall Meaning

In Stephanie Mills's "A Rush On Me," the singer is being pursued by an admirer who is moving too fast for her liking. The lyrics convey her desire to take things slow and establish a deeper connection before becoming intimate with the person. She explains that she is not the kind of girl who jumps into bed before falling in love with someone. She values patience and mutual respect, emphasizing the importance of a pure intention before engaging in any romantic activity. Though she acknowledges the changes and evolving culture of the 80s, she reminds her suitor that some things never change, and she won't compromise her values for anyone.


The song showcases Stephanie Mills's smooth vocal delivery and soulful nuances, coupled with an upbeat synth-pop production that perfectly captures the sound of the era. The use of repetition in the chorus emphasizes the conflict between the singer's desire to get to know someone better and her suitor's urgency to pursue a physical relationship. The lyrics also demonstrate a sense of empowerment and self-respect, as the singer is firm in her decision to take things slow and establish a deeper connection before pursuing a physical relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You're puttin' a rush on me
You're moving too quickly in our relationship


But I'd like to know you better
I want to take things slow and get to know you more before diving in


What kind of girl do you think I am
I do not want to be misrepresented by your assumptions about me


It's just too soon, can't you understand
I do not want to rush into anything until we have a better understanding of each other


I'm not the kind of girl who has to Lay you down before I fall in love
I do not need to be physically intimate with you to develop feelings for you


It's been kind of relaxed here waiting
I have been happy taking things slow and getting to know each other


But baby, you got to slow down
You need to take it easy and not rush into things


Please just be patient if nothing else, oh, babe
I am requesting patience from you above all else


Just know that I respect myself, yes, I do
I value myself and want you to respect me as well


But I hope I didn't lead you to thinking
I do not want to give you the wrong idea or make you think I am someone I am not


Thinking that I was that easy, boy
I do not want you to assume I am easy to get with


I know that we're living in the 80s
I understand the social norms and standards of this time period


Yet some things never change
Certain core values and beliefs remain the same despite the passage of time


I'm just an old fashioned girl
I have traditional values when it comes to relationships


Before I give you some love
I do not want to be physically intimate with you until I trust and feel comfortable with you


I've got to be sure your intentions are pure
I need to know that you have honest and respectful intentions towards me


Baby, can't you see
I am trying to communicate my needs and boundaries to you


Slow down, boy
I am asking you to take things at a slower pace


Take it easy
I want you to not rush and enjoy the process of getting to know each other




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: PAUL LAURENCE JONES, TIMOTHY MONROE ALLEN

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Can we give this Queen a lifetime achievement award?
Stephanie is a living legend

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@geedawg1946

Never gets old! Her voice is so awesome.

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Queen Stefanie, can sang it now, yessssss she can.

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