If You Really Love Me
Stevie Wonder Lyrics


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And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
Then I won't have to be
Playing around

You call my name
Ooh, so sweet
To make your kiss incomplete
When your mood is clear
You quickly change your ways
Then you say I'm untrue
What am I supposed to do
Be a fool who sits alone waiting for you

And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
And if you really love me, won't you tell me? (Yeah)
Then I won't have to be
Playing around

I see the light of your smile
Calling me all the while
You are saying baby
It's time to go
First the feeling's alright
Then it's gone from sight
So I'm taking out this time to say

And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
And if you really love me, won't you tell me? Baby, tell me
Then I won't have to be
Playing around
Playing around

Hey, yeah
Goofing around, no
Oh, baby
Playing around, no
Let me know how you feel, baby




Hey, oh, baby
Playing around, no

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Stevie Wonder's song "If You Really Love Me" are a plea for honesty and transparency in a relationship. The repeated phrase, "If you really love me, won't you tell me?" is a direct address to the person in the relationship, asking them to speak honestly about their feelings. The singer is tired of playing games and being accused of being untrue. They want the other person to be clear about their own feelings and intentions so that they don't have to resort to "playing around." The lines "You quickly change your ways/ Then you say I'm untrue/ What am I supposed to do/ Be a fool who sits alone waiting for you" reveal the singer's frustration with their partner's inconsistency and doublespeak.


In the second verse, the singer acknowledges the other person's ability to draw them in with a smile and a sweet tone, but they are also aware of how easily that mood can change. They are tired of being left in the dark about the other person's true intentions and feelings, and they are using the song as a way of asking for clarity. The repetition of the chorus reinforces the idea that the singer is desperate for their partner to be upfront with them.


Overall, the song is a plea for honesty and transparency in a relationship. The singer is tired of playing games and being left in the dark about their partner's true feelings. They are asking for a direct and honest conversation about the state of the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
Singer is asking the person if they truly love him/her, and requests them to express their love.


And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
Singer repeats his request and emphasizes the need for the person to convey their love.


And if you really love me, won't you tell me?
Singer repeats the request for the third time, suggesting his eagerness to hear the person express their love.


Then I won't have to be Playing around
The singer implies that he/she is playing around only because he/she is uncertain of the other person's feelings. If they express their love, then he/she will be able to commit entirely.


You call my name Ooh, so sweet To make your kiss incomplete
The person calls the singer's name but does not complete their kiss, indicating their lack of interest and desire.


When your mood is clear You quickly change your ways Then you say I'm untrue What am I supposed to do
The person changes their behavior and accuses the singer, leaving them confused about how to proceed.


Be a fool who sits alone waiting for you
The person expects the singer to wait for them, making them feel foolish and alone.


I see the light of your smile Calling me all the while You are saying baby It's time to go
The person appears happy, but it is temporary and does not reflect their true feelings. They suggest it's time to leave.


First the feeling's alright Then it's gone from sight
The initial feeling of affection quickly dissipates.


So I'm taking out this time to say
The singer takes this moment to express their desire for the person to communicate their love.


Hey, yeah Goofing around, no Oh, baby Playing around, no
The singer asserts that they are not goofing or playing around anymore, and yearns for honesty and commitment from the person.


Let me know how you feel, baby Hey, oh, baby Playing around, no
The singer pleads with the person to express their true feelings and to stop playing games.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Syreeta Wright, Stevie Wonder

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@matthopkins2024

The amount of joyful energy in this song is amazing.

@dennismclaurin1487

AMAZING,INDEED!!!!

@garvinwilson5728

Yes it is❤

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@spareplanet

Exactly! I was just thinking about that. How is it that Stevie infuses so much joyful energy into his songs, so much more than other artists, even tho he would very understandably be down and depressed due to not having sight.

@rubedogg6969

The trumpet player is kicking some serious ass!

@ToOpen6seven

You ain't never lied!! LOL

@mrmc1022

Ruben Delgadillo.

@c.mitchell4983

Yasssssssss! Killing it!

@liljack2xjl634

On meeeeeee

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