Safe as Houses
Stiff Little Fingers Lyrics


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She makes a home and she stays mum
About the things she might have done
She keeps her eyes firm on the ground
To set her own life
Makes up her face and not her mind
To be a wife

There was a time away back then
She might have thought to think again
But then through dolls and schoolyard games
Like ma before her
She learned girls play the family way
Don't look for more

She's just playing
Playing safe
Playing houses
Safe as houses

Here on this street when they were kids
He built his dreams with coloured bricks
But comes the time for him to prove
That he's a man now
He gets a wife and he makes his move
To three doors down

He's playing
Playing safe
Playing houses
Safe as houses

For there was no-one there to say
It didn't have to be that way
You never get the best of you
When you do what they expect you to

You've heard it all
How you're no use
You're born to fail
So follow suit
But if you feel and got a dream
Don't dare ignore it
'cause that is what you've got to be
You must got for it

Don't play it
Play it safe




A plague on houses
Safe as houses

Overall Meaning

The song Safe as Houses by Stiff Little Fingers speaks about the societal expectations of women to be wives and mothers and men to be providers, even if it means sacrificing their dreams and desires. The song portrays a woman who has settled for a life as a wife and mother and has accepted the limitations put on her by society. She has learned to keep her eyes on the ground and her opinions to herself to maintain a safe and comfortable life. Her husband, who was once a dreamer, has also settled for a life that society has expected of him. He has also played it safe and become the man of the house. The song urges people not to follow societal expectations blindly and pursue their dreams instead of settling for a life that is safe as houses.


Line by Line Meaning

She makes a home and she stays mum
She dedicates herself to creating a home and silently avoids speaking about any possible alternative life paths.


About the things she might have done
She refrains from mentioning her unexplored curiosities or ambitions.


She keeps her eyes firm on the ground
She focuses on her mundane task list without seeking outside inspiration or adventure.


To set her own life
To follow her own plan of how her life should be.


Makes up her face and not her mind
She puts on a positive facade rather than examining her own true desires.


To be a wife
She chooses to accept the traditional societal role of a wife.


There was a time away back then
In the past, there was a moment where she could have taken a divergent path.


She might have thought to think again
She may have reconsidered her choices.


But then through dolls and schoolyard games
However, she learned at a young age through structured play and early socialization that girls are expected to conform to traditional gender roles.


Like ma before her
Her behavior was modeled after her mother's.


She learned girls play the family way
She was taught from a young age that her life vision should center on the concept of family.


Don't look for more
She was instructed that dreaming outside of the domestic sphere is fruitless.


She's just playing
She's merely participating without taking any real risks or making deliberate choices.


Playing safe
She is choosing the path of least resistance instead of truly seeking fulfillment.


Playing houses
She participates in cliched domesticity instead of exploring possibilities for herself.


Safe as houses
She is prioritizing creating a sense of security and comfort over seeking personal growth.


Here on this street when they were kids
A flashback to a time period when the roles of the male and female protagonist were set in their social environment.


He built his dreams with coloured bricks
The male protagonist had vivid hopes and aspirations in his own reality.


But comes the time for him to prove
Once he reaches adulthood, he is presented with an opportunity to prove his worth as a man.


That he's a man now
An implicit societal presumption that until he has a wife and family he is not wholly mature.


He gets a wife and he makes his move
He chooses to marry and follow the established socially prescribed progression toward fulfilling his gender identity.


To three doors down
He accepts the popular belief that this is the only way to truly belong in his society.


For there was no-one there to say
There weren't any role models or dissenters to demonstrate alternative life paths.


It didn't have to be that way
Without the rigid societal expectations of traditional roles, life could have been very different.


You never get the best of you
You'll never reach your full potential.


When you do what they expect you to
When you simply follow established societal and cultural scripts.


You've heard it all
You've been told repeatedly.


How you're no use
You've been told you will never amount to anything.


You're born to fail
You are programmed for failure due to your intrinsic qualities.


So follow suit
Adhere to societal standards without asking questions.


But if you feel and got a dream
If you have feelings and aspirations that defy cultural scripts.


Don't dare ignore it
Acknowledge it and take it seriously.


'Cause that is what you've got to be
Pursue your true self despite the societal pressure to conform.


You must got for it
The only way to find personal fulfillment is by striving for your true aspirations.


Don't play it
Don't settle for standard scripts.


Play it safe
Playing it safe will prevent you from realizing your potential.


A plague on houses
A rejection of traditional household norms that stifle alternative paths.


Safe as houses
A sarcastic reference to the idea that safe, traditional, and pre-determined life paths provide happiness and fulfillment.




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Written by: JAKE BURNS, GORDON OGILVIE

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