Can't Stand Losing You
Sting Lyrics


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I've called you so many times today
And I guess it's all true what your girlfriends say
That you don't ever want to see me again
And your brother's gonna kill me and he's six feet ten
I guess you'd call it cowardice
But I'm not prepared to go on like this

I can't, I can't
I can't stand losing
I can't stand losing you

I see you've sent my letters back
And my LP records and they're all scratched
I can't see the point in another day
When nobody listens to a word I say
You can call it lack of confidence
But to carry on living doesn't make no sense

I can't, I can't
I can't stand losing

I guess this is our last goodbye
And you don't care so I won't cry
But you'll be sorry when I'm dead
And all this guilt will be on your head
I guess you'd call it suicide
But I'm too full to swallow my pride

I can't, I can't




I can't stand losing
I can't stand losing you

Overall Meaning

Sting's song "Can't Stand Losing You" tells a poignant tale of a man who is consumed by his feelings of rejection and loss after being rejected by his lover. The first verse sets up the scene, with the singer acknowledging that he has been trying to reach out to his former partner repeatedly and has been met with silence. He acknowledges that his ex-girlfriend's friends have confirmed that she no longer wants to see him and that her brother is so angry with him that he may enact physical violence. The singer is paralyzed by fear, trapped in a cycle of desperation, anxiety, and heartbreak. He admits to feeling like a coward, yet his frustration won't let him give up hope.


In the second verse, the singer goes through a series of losses that he has experienced since the breakup, indicating that he has given his all to the relationship. The letters and records he sent her come back in a box with scratches. It symbolizes how she has even gone back to tamper with their memories, damaging parts of what was once a beautiful connection. He feels hopeless, forlorn, and dejected. His situation only worsens as no one wants to listen to his pain anymore.


In the final verse, the singer coalesces his experiences with the idea of finality. He accepts that the relationship is over, and they will not be reconciling. He tells her that he won't cry as she does not care anymore. He shifts the conversation to his demise, suggesting that she will feel guilty when he is gone. "I guess you'll call it suicide", he sings, "but I'm too full to swallow my pride." He realizes that he is hurting himself more by holding on to a relationship that ended. In the end, the singer is still the loser, but he is also searching for meaning and hope at the same time.


Line by Line Meaning

I've called you so many times today
I've been trying to contact you all day


And I guess it's all true what your girl-friends say
I suspect that what your friends have told me is accurate


That you don't ever want to see me again
You have no interest in seeing me anymore


And your brother's gonna kill me and he's six feet ten
You've told your brother about me, and he's extremely angry with me


I guess you'd call it cowardice
Some people might say I'm afraid to confront this situation


But I'm not prepared to go on like this
But I can't continue living with the constant rejection and fear


I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
I'm unable to handle the feeling of losing you


I see you sent my letters back
I noticed that you have returned the letters I sent to you


And my l.p. records and they're all scratched
You've damaged my record collection as well


I can't see the point in another day
I don't find any reason to continue living


When nobody listens to a word I say
It seems like no one cares about my opinions or feelings


You can call it lack of confidence
Some people might say I lack confidence in myself


But to carry on living doesn't make no sense
But continuing to exist seems pointless and unbearable


I guess this is our last goodbye
I suppose that this is the final farewell between us


And you don't care, so I won't cry
You appear indifferent to my emotions, so I won't show any sadness


But you'll be sorry when I'm dead
However, you will regret your actions when I'm gone


And all this guilt will be on your head
You will feel responsible for my demise


I guess you'd call it suicide
Some people might categorize my actions as suicide


But I'm too full to swallow my pride
But, in reality, I'm too stubborn to admit defeat


I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
And, ultimately, I cannot accept the pain of losing you




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@Gonzalo_ARC

I've called you so many times today
And I guess it's all true what your girl-friends say
That you don't ever want to see me again
And your brother's gonna kill me and he's six feet ten
I guess you'd call it cowardice
But I'm not prepared to go on like this

I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
I can't, I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing you
I can't stand losing you
I can't stand losing you
I can't stand losing you

I see you sent my letters back
And my L.P. records and they're all scratched
I can't see the point in another day
When nobody listens to a word I say
You can call it lack of confidence
But to carry on living doesn't make no sense

I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing
I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing

I guess this is our last goodbye
And you don't care, so I won't cry
But you'll be sorry when I'm dead
And all this guilt will be on your head
I guess you'd call it suicide
But I'm too full to swallow my pride
I can't, I can't, I can't stand losing



All comments from YouTube:

@articulo1963

The most relaxing song about commit suicide because a girl rejects you.

@j.l.lovelady-richardson1863

Don't do it it's a trick!

@BruceKira

bro, its just a girl

@articulo1963

@@eppumerio 1:54

@yosoy3218

Listen " déjate caer" To Café Tacvba

@articulo1963

@@yosoy3218Soy español por lo que he entendido perfectamente la letra. Menuda bestialidad, pero que temon.

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@bayuharyanto1350

Classic rock+reggae...

This band is answer...

@eduardoescobar566

With a little bit of jazz.

@rickh9507

“Rokggae”

@eon14873

And some punk energy

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