Dear Father
Sum 41 Lyrics


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I addressed this letter to "dear father"
I know you as complete unknown
I guess it's better you don't bother
All our truth should be left alone

Be left alone...

Be left alone...

I learned the things you never showed me
Took the chances you'd have blown
And to this day the one and only
You remain a complete unknown

Complete unknown...

Complete unknown...

[Chorus:]
You're out there somewhere
I don't know if you care at all
It seems that you don't
It's as if the day will never come
So you remain a complete unknown

So many years I've been ignored
You've been gone without a trace
I'm getting used to knowing you're just a name without a face

Without a face...

Without a face...

[Chorus x 2]

I addressed this letter to "dear father"
I know you as complete unknown
I guess it's better you don't bother
All our truth should be left alone

You're out there somewhere
But don't know if you care at all
It seems that you don't
It's as if the day will never come
So you remain a complete unknown

[Chorus]





You're out there somewhere
I don't know if you care

Overall Meaning

The song "Dear Father" by Sum 41 is a very touching and emotional song that delves into the complexities of strained father-son relationships. The lyrics convey the deep pain and sense of abandonment that the singer feels because of his father's absence. The lyrics "I addressed this letter to 'dear father'" indicate that the singer is writing a letter to his father, whom he knows as a complete unknown.


The singer expresses his feelings of resentment towards his father for never being there to teach him the things he needed to know. He evaluates how he had to learn everything on his own, and the consequences he had to deal with due to his father's negligence. The chorus "You're out there somewhere, I don't know if you care at all" highlights the singer's doubts whether his father cares about him or not. The lyrics convey the fact that the singer feels neglected by his father, which has left him feeling incomplete and emotionally drained.


Moreover, the song expresses that the singer has given up hope of ever establishing a relationship with his father. The lyrics "It's as if the day will never come, so you remain a complete unknown" show that the singer no longer expects to reunite with his father. The song "Dear Father" is a powerful expression of the pain and emotional turmoil that many people experience when their fathers are absent from their lives.


Line by Line Meaning

I addressed this letter to 'dear father'
I am writing a letter to you, my father.


I know you as complete unknown
You are a stranger to me, a person I don't really know.


I guess it's better you don't bother
It's best if you don't try to connect with me.


All our truth should be left alone
We should not delve into our past or try to uncover any secrets.


Be left alone...
Let's not speak about it any further.


Be left alone...
I don't want this to be a topic of discussion.


I learned the things you never showed me
I grew up without being taught important lessons by you.


Took the chances you'd have blown
I did things despite knowing that you would advise me against it.


And to this day the one and only
You are still the only one in my mind.


You remain a complete unknown
Even though you're my father, I still don't know much about you.


Complete unknown...
A mysterious figure in my life.


Complete unknown...
I don't really know you as a person.


You're out there somewhere
You exist somewhere in this world, but we are not in touch.


I don't know if you care at all
I'm not sure if you think about me or have any feelings for me.


It seems that you don't
Based on your lack of communication, it appears that you don't care about me.


It's as if the day will never come
The day when we can connect with each other will never arrive.


So many years I've been ignored
I've spent so many years without you, feeling alone and unimportant.


You've been gone without a trace
You disappeared from my life without a clear explanation or goodbye.


I'm getting used to knowing you're just a name without a face
I'm adjusting to the idea that you're just a name and not a real presence in my life.


Without a face...
I have never actually seen you in person.


[Chorus x 2]
Repeating the same sentiments expressed earlier in the song.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DERYCK WHIBLEY, DERYCK JASON WHIBLEY

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