Stay
Tears for Fears Lyrics


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Speak, don't speak
Go, don't go
Damned if I do
Damned if I know
Wait, don't linger
Wait, damned slow
Stay for the open hand
Or let it all go

Young enough
To play the game
Old enough to know
It's all or nothing

Stay, don't stay
Go, don't go
Stay, don't stay
Go, don't go

Dust to dust
We all fall down
One for the hills
Until we're safe and sound
Are we

Young enough
To play the game
Old enough to know
It's all or nothing

Stay, don't stay
Go, don't go
Stay, don't stay
Go, don't go

It's all or nothing
Stay, don't stay (all or nothing, all or nothing)
Go, don't go (all or nothing, all or nothing)




Stay, don't stay (all or nothing, all or nothing)
Go, don't go

Overall Meaning

The song "Stay" by Tears for Fears is a reflection on the struggles involved in making a decision when one doesn't know what the outcome will be. The lyrics explore the dichotomy of conflicting emotions and the uncertainty that comes with trying to decide whether to stay or go. In the chorus, the lyrics "Stay, don't stay, go, don't go" epitomize the push and pull of indecision.


The opening verse "Speak, don't speak, Go, don't go, Damned if I do, Damned if I know" revolves around the theme of indecision. This verse highlights the difficulty of making a decision when both options seem unfavorable. The singer is afraid of the consequences of both speaking and not speaking, going and not going. Neither path has a guaranteed outcome.


In the second verse, "Young enough to play the game, Old enough to know it's all or nothing," emphasizes that the decision to stay or go requires a willingness to take risks. The singer acknowledges that life goes on regardless of the decision but stresses that the stakes are higher when one is older.


Overall, "Stay" is an introspective song that examines the fear and struggle involved in making a difficult decision.


Line by Line Meaning

Speak, don't speak
Express or withhold


Go, don't go
Leave or stay


Damned if I do
Cursed whether I choose one option or another


Damned if I know
Unsure which option is better or worse


Wait, don't linger
Pause but not for long


Wait, damned slow
Pausing is taking too long


Stay for the open hand
Remain when there is still generosity


Or let it all go
Or leave everything behind


Young enough
Still inexperienced


To play the game
Yet knowledgeable enough to participate


Old enough to know
Mature enough to understand


It's all or nothing
Success or failure, no middle ground


Stay, don't stay
Choose to remain or leave


Go, don't go
Decide to depart or linger


Dust to dust
Everyone dies eventually


We all fall down
We all eventually succumb to life's pressures


One for the hills
Fleeing to safety alone


Until we're safe and sound
Until we reach a place of refuge


It's all or nothing
Success or failure, no middle ground


Stay, don't stay (all or nothing, all or nothing)
Choose to remain or leave, despite the risks


Go, don't go (all or nothing, all or nothing)
Decide to leave or linger, despite the risks


Stay, don't stay (all or nothing, all or nothing)
Choose to remain or leave, despite the risks


Go, don't go (all or nothing, all or nothing)
Decide to leave or linger, despite the risks




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Curt Smith, Charlton Pettus

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Warren Butterfield

It’s actually an early song written during the strife between these two when all the success first hit.

They revived it and put it out on the compilation in 2017. They’ve now played with a little bit a little reengineering, a couple possibly added bits and pieces and here you have it all dressed up for the new album & the tour.

They are actually running it over the sound system on tour as a prelude to their taking the stage. It works beautifully in that context. They don’t have to play it, there it is and it appropriately sends the shiver down your spine as you know they’re about to hit the stage. For anyone attending the shows ….they have been brilliant.
The new songs come across beautifully something that’s incredibly rare in a concert. The audience respectfully responds enthusiastically. Literally the best I’ve ever seen this band and I’ve seen them throughout the ages…

Yeah we’re growing up with these two fascinating blocks.

🌻. If you’re reading this y’all probably “love a sunflower” too!!!
🌝🌚…. The sun & the moon



All comments from YouTube:

SomeSkitsandOtherBits

The diversity on this album proves that Tears for Fears are their own genre. A round of applause!

Warren Butterfield

Let’s clarify… I’m talking to the MUF

Warren Butterfield

I’ve got a box of Q-tips for you….
You may prefer the used ones?
They may have that little added something to help your ears….

skeletank mcgraw

I like about 6/10 of the tracks on this album. Some of the stuff on it not only doesn't sound like TFF, but sounds like your typical modern "contemporary adult" music which gives off a bit of an un-creative/generic vibe.

REALLY wish there was more stuff like "My Demons" and "Break the Man" on the album.

tomgirl double

@Christopher Edwards lol get ‘em told 🤣💜🖤

tomgirl double

Beautiful song, absolutely love this whole album 🤗❤️🖤

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marcyboy

This is one of the most beautiful songs I have EVER heard. Absolutely incredible that TFF are still making music of this quality all these years later.

mhoroky

@curlzgirl704 I'm glad to read that. Same here. I'm disappointed that this song has such low streams on Spotify, and low downloads on iTunes compared to other songs on the album. I don't understand. This is probably one of my favourite songs on the album.

curlzgirl704

Made me cry the first time I heard it

Don B

There's not a bad track on the album. I hope we don't have to wait another 17 years. These guys are just too good.

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