Suffer the Children
Tears for Fears Lyrics


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It's a sad affair
When there's no one there
He calls out in the night
And it's so unfair
At least it seems that way
When you gave him his life

And all this time he's been getting you down
You ought to pick him up when there's no one around
And convince him
Just talk to him
'cause he knows in his heart you won't be home soon
He's an only child in an only room
And he's dependent on you
Oh he's dependent on you

And it seems so strange
That at the end of the day
Making love can be so good
But the Pain of birth
What is it worth
When it don't turn out the way it should

And all this time he's been getting you down
You ought to pick him up when there's no one around
And convince him
Just talk to him
'cause he knows in his heart you won't be home soon
He's an only child in an only room
And he's dependent on you
Oh, he's dependent on you

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Suffer, suffer the children
Suffer, suffer the children
Suffer, suffer the children
Suffer, suffer the children
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Suffer, suffer the children
Suffer, suffer the children

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Tears for Fears' song "Suffer The Children" speak of the pain and difficulty of caring for a child who is dependent on someone else's care. The opening lines state that it is a sad affair when there is no one there for the child, and the singer of the song calls out in the night, expressing his or her despair at the situation. The song then moves on to explore the difficulty of providing for a child who seems to be a constant source of frustration, and the loneliness and isolation that can come from being the sole caretaker. The chorus of the song repeats the phrase "suffer, suffer the children," suggesting the hardship of this situation.


As the song progresses, the lyrics shift to an examination of the joys and pains of childbirth, touching on the idea that making love can be pleasurable, but the pain of birth is not always worth it if the outcome is not what was hoped for. The song also underscores the idea that having a child can place a great deal of responsibility on parents, especially if the child has special needs or requires extra care. The final lines of the song repeat the title phrase, emphasizing the central theme of the song and the idea that parents must bear the burden of caring for their children, even when it is difficult.


Overall, "Suffer The Children" speaks to the serious responsibility that comes with parenthood, and the profound impact that a lack of support or resources can have on parents and children alike. It is a poignant reminder of the importance of caring for the most vulnerable among us and the need to work towards more supportive social structures that can help families thrive.


Line by Line Meaning

It's a sad affair
The situation is unfortunate and depressing


When there's no one there
When there is no one to provide help or support


He calls out in the night
He seeks help and attention particularly at night


And it's so unfair
The situation is unjust and unreasonable


At least it seems that way
It appears to be the case, even if it may not necessarily be true


When you gave him his life
As the one who brought him into this world, you have a responsibility to him


And all this time he's been getting you down
He has been causing you frustration and difficulty


You ought to pick him up when there's no one around
You should support him when he needs it most


And convince him
Persuade him to see things differently


Just talk to him
Communication may help to resolve the situation


'cause he knows in his heart you won't be home soon
He understands that you will not be able to be with him for a while


He's an only child in an only room
He has no siblings and is isolated


And he's dependent on you
He relies on you for his well-being and survival


And it seems so strange
The situation seems unusual and difficult to comprehend


That at the end of the day
After all is said and done


Making love can be so good
Intimacy and affection can feel wonderful


But the Pain of birth
Childbirth can be a difficult and painful experience


What is it worth
Is it worth the pain and struggle?


When it don't turn out the way it should
When things do not go as planned or hoped


Suffer, suffer the children
The vulnerable and innocent children endure pain and hardship


Suffer, suffer the children
Repeatedly highlighting how the children suffer


Suffer, suffer the children
Emphasizing the children's suffering and pain


Suffer, suffer the children
The children are forced to bear the consequences of adult decisions and actions


Suffer, suffer the children
A final reminder of the children's plight


Suffer, suffer the children
Children are suffering and need compassion and help




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Written by: ROLAND ORZABAL

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