I Couldn't Be Your Friend
Tegan and Sara Lyrics


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Does your heart ache when you get around me?
Does your heart break when you think about me?
Now you wanna say, I was a liar
Led you astray, I won’t deny it
I did what they thought would be good for me
Now you wanna cry, call me a cheater
Left you to die, though I did neither
Thought that it would, that it would be best for me

Do you cry? Oh, do your worst
Do you talk? Oh do your worst
I couldn’t be your friend even if I tried again
I couldn’t be your friend (Wouldn’t be your friend)
Try to conceal it, I won’t believe it
Even if I tried again
I couldn’t be your friend (Wouldn’t be your friend)

Does your body shake when you get around me?
Does your body wake when you think about me?
Now you wanna say, I was a criminal
Stole you away, that sounds so fictional
I did what they thought would be good for me

Do you cry? Oh, do your worst
Do you talk? Oh do your worst
I couldn’t be your friend even if I tried again
I couldn’t be your friend (Wouldn’t be your friend)
Try to conceal it, I won’t believe it
Even if I tried again
I couldn’t be your friend (Wouldn’t be your friend)

Now you wanna say you had it all wrong
Now you wanna say you had me all wrong
Now you wanna say you had it all wrong
Now you wanna say you had me all wrong

I couldn’t be your friend even if I tried again
I couldn’t be your friend (Wouldn’t be your friend)
Try to conceal it, I won’t believe it
Even if I tried again
I couldn’t be your friend (Wouldn’t be your friend)
Try to conceal it, I won’t believe it
Even if I tried again
I couldn’t be your friend (Wouldn’t be your friend)





Couldn’t be your friend

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Tegan and Sara's song "I Couldn't Be Your Friend" seem to be about a relationship that has ended badly. The singer appears to have hurt their partner and the partner is hurt and angry. The singer seems to be trying to justify their actions by saying that they did what they thought was best for themselves, even though it hurt their partner. The partner is hurt and angry and is trying to get the singer to admit that they were wrong and to try to make things better, but the singer is resigned to the fact that they can't be friends or even try to be friends again.


The chorus, "I couldn't be your friend even if I tried again," seems to be the singer's way of saying that their actions have made it impossible for them to even attempt to be friends with their ex-partner again. The use of the phrase "even if I tried again" suggests that the singer has attempted to reconcile with their partner before, but it hasn't worked out.


The repetition of the questions "does your heart ache when you get around me" and "does your body shake when you get around me" suggest that the singer is still affecting their partner, even though they are no longer together. The repetition of the line "I did what they thought would be good for me" suggests that the singer is blaming outside influences for their actions, rather than taking responsibility for them.


Line by Line Meaning

Does your heart ache when you get around me?
Do you feel pain in your heart when you are near me?


Does your heart break when you think about me?
Do you feel heartbroken when you think of me?


Now you wanna say, I was a liar
Now you want to accuse me of lying


Led you astray, I won’t deny it
I made you lose your way, and I admit it


I did what they thought would be good for me
I did what I thought was best for myself


Now you wanna cry, call me a cheater
Now you want to cry and call me a cheater


Left you to die, though I did neither
I didn't leave you to die, but I also didn't save you


Thought that it would, that it would be best for me
I thought it would be the best for me


Do you cry? Oh, do your worst
Are you crying? Go ahead and do your worst


Do you talk? Oh do your worst
Are you talking? Go ahead and do your worst


I couldn’t be your friend even if I tried again
I couldn't be your friend even if I attempted it again


I couldn’t be your friend (Wouldn’t be your friend)
I am unable to be your friend (I refuse to be your friend)


Try to conceal it, I won’t believe it
Even if you try to hide it, I won't believe you


Now you wanna say you had it all wrong
Now you want to admit you misunderstood everything


Now you wanna say you had me all wrong
Now you want to say that you got me all wrong


Try to conceal it, I won’t believe it
Even if you try to hide it, I won't believe you


Even if I tried again
Even if I attempted it again


Couldn’t be your friend
I am unable to be your friend




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: SARA KEIRSTEN QUIN, TEGAN RAIN QUIN

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