難道喜歡處女座
Terence Lam Lyrics
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我很關注 瑣碎事情
以 X 光眼睛 把你靈魂望到 很透明
敏感的我 假裝冷靜
内心充滿 對未來 不確定
是否揀你 三千晚 循環驗証 仍然未決定
嫌的比愛的多 推比要的多
孤單一個 是這潔癖惹禍
明知想這麽多 姿勢這麽多
幸福 都分到不多
應該醒了吧 除非有人 煩都不怕我
我擔心到 三更半夜
絕色的你 接受陽光照射
缺點可會 遮不了 無權伴我 同遊在舞榭
嫌的比愛的多 推比要的多
孤單一個 是這潔癖惹禍
凝望你離場 讓我很優雅 很優雅的折墮
明知想這麽多 姿勢這麽多
幸福 都分到不多
單身一世吧 除非有人 煩都不怕我
情願似白羊 似摩羯座
無謂纖細又 糾結像我
想找人呵呵
大眾偏說 尋求情人 别揀我
來首優雅悲歌 記錄我坎坷
想不管了 為愛放膽惹禍
頭撞破離場 仍能高貴地 優雅地 再一個
誰都想計清楚 才最淒楚
問心 人誰又無過
污點怎漂白 如果太煩 誰稀罕愛我
挑剔的結局 人間有人 還挑剔過我
The song 難道喜歡處女座 by Terence Lam expresses the singer's inner conflict and indecision in his relationship with a girl. The first verse describes how he is always paying attention to small details, even the cleanliness of the girl's nails, and how he tries to hide his sensitive nature by acting calm. However, he is uncertain about their future together and cannot decide whether to choose her or not. He admits to being more critical than loving, causing him to feel lonely and isolated. In the end, he realizes that he may be better off alone and is willing to accept his fate as a single person.
The chorus reiterates the singer's dilemma of being more picky than affectionate and how it leads to his isolation. He watches the girl leave, thinking about how he wants to be with her, but he cannot overcome his obsessiveness and fears. He ultimately concludes that he should be alone unless someone persists in bothering him.
The second verse portrays the singer's yearning to find someone to love but is caught in his own perfectionist tendencies, an internal struggle that resembles a Capricorn's or an Aries's stubbornness. He acknowledges that he is too complicated for most people and fears being rejected, believing that he is not significant enough to be loved.
Overall, the song expresses the universal struggle of being indecisive in love and trying to overcome one's insecurities and fears.
Line by Line Meaning
你的指甲 相當潔淨
I notice your clean and trimmed nails
我很關注 瑣碎事情
I pay attention to small details
以 X 光眼睛 把你靈魂望到 很透明
I peer into your soul with a scrutinizing gaze
敏感的我 假裝冷靜
I pretend to be calm despite my sensitivity
内心充滿 對未來 不確定
I am uncertain about the future that lies ahead
是否揀你 三千晚 循環驗証 仍然未決定
I can't decide if I should choose you after nights of deliberation
嫌的比愛的多 推比要的多
I am picky and critical, preferring to reject than to accept
孤單一個 是這潔癖惹禍
My obsession with cleanliness makes me lonely
凝望你離場 讓我很優雅 很優雅的折墮
Watching you go makes me feel both elegant and broken
明知想這麽多 姿勢這麽多
I know I overthink and worry too much
幸福 都分到不多
Happiness is hard to come by
應該醒了吧 除非有人 煩都不怕我
I should wake up and face reality, but even someone annoying would be better than being alone
我擔心到 三更半夜
My worries keep me up late at night
絕色的你 接受陽光照射
Your beauty shines in the sunlight
缺點可會 遮不了 無權伴我 同遊在舞榭
Even your flaws can't detract from your beauty, but I have no right to be with you
單身一世吧 除非有人 煩都不怕我
I guess I'll be single forever unless someone wants to put up with me
情願似白羊 似摩羯座
I wish I could be like Aries or Capricorn
無謂纖細又 糾結像我
My worrying is pointless yet engulfs me nonetheless
想找人呵呵
I want to find someone who can make me laugh
大眾偏說 尋求情人 别揀我
Society says to find a lover, but please don't pick me
來首優雅悲歌 記錄我坎坷
Let's play an elegant and sad song to document my struggles
想不管了 為愛放膽惹禍
I want to stop worrying and take a risk for love
頭撞破離場 仍能高貴地 優雅地 再一個
Even if I leave with a broken head, I can still be graceful and elegant as I go
誰都想計清楚 才最淒楚
It's tragic to overthink things too much
問心 人誰又無過
Everyone makes mistakes, and who among us is without fault?
污點怎漂白 如果太煩 誰稀罕愛我
How can I remove stains? And for those who are too bothered, who cares about loving me?
挑剔的結局 人間有人 還挑剔過我
People will always be picky, even with me
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@edss
Here goes my attempt in translating the lyrics of this song (as I understand it) into English.
你的指甲 相當潔淨
Your fingernails were clean and tidy.
我很關注 瑣碎事情
I paid too much attention to everything mundane.
以 X 光眼睛 把你靈魂望到 很透明
I scanned through your soul with my x-ray vision.
敏感的我 假裝冷靜
I was overly sensitive, but I played it cool.
内心充滿 對未來 不確定
Inside my head, it was actually full of doubts.
是否揀你 三千晚 循環驗証 仍然未決定
Were you the one? I was with you for years, and I still couldn't make up my mind.
嫌的比愛的多 推比要的多
There were more quarrel than love, there were more nos than yesses.
孤單一個 是這潔癖惹禍
I'm still single today. This must have been my OCD.
凝望你離場 讓我很優雅 很優雅的折墮
I did nothing but looked on as you left. I felt elegant, disgracefully elegant.
明知想這麽多 姿勢這麽多
I think about this a lot.
幸福 都分到不多
I will never get much of this happiness.
應該醒了吧 除非有人 煩都不怕我
I should probably accept my fate, unless there is someone who aren't bothered by my issues.
我擔心到 三更半夜
I was worried about you throughout the night.
絕色的你 接受陽光照射
You were absolutely beautiful. When the sun shone upon us,
缺點可會 遮不了 無權伴我 同遊在舞榭
it exposed all my flaws. And we couldn't be together anymore.
嫌的比愛的多 推比要的多
There were more quarrel than love, there were more nos than yesses.
孤單一個 是這潔癖惹禍
I'm still single. This must have been my OCD.
凝望你離場 讓我很優雅 很優雅的折墮
I did nothing as you left. I felt elegant, disgracefully elegant.
明知想這麽多 姿勢這麽多
I think about this a lot.
幸福 都分到不多
I will never get much of this happiness.
單身一世吧 除非有人 煩都不怕我
I'll be forever single, unless there is someone who aren't bothered by my issues.
情願似白羊 似摩羯座
I wish to be like Aries, or Capricornus.
無謂纖細又 糾結像我
Unlike me who are tedious and indecisive.
想找人呵呵
I really want some TLC.
大眾偏說 尋求情人 别揀我
But everyone says, never pick Virgo as your lover.
來首優雅悲歌 記錄我坎坷
Come sing this elegant sad song, this is the sad story of my life.
想不管了 為愛放膽惹禍
I care anymore, I want to go all out and love someone with all my heart.
頭撞破離場 仍能高貴地 優雅地 再一個
I might end up hurt and bleed, but I will come back elegantly and try again.
誰都想計清楚 才最淒楚
Everyone thinks their past is the most miserable.
問心 人誰又無過
But honestly, nobody is perfect.
污點怎漂白 如果太煩 誰稀罕愛我
How do I polish off this stain? If I continue to live in the past, nobody's going to love me.
挑剔的結局 人間有人 還挑剔過我
I was picky about the outcome, but someone else was even more fastidious.
@kayleyhouse
林家謙，你好！
聽到這首歌，我就忍不住想分享一個我與一位處女座男孩子的故事，我的留言非常冗長，希望家謙與各位謙迷都不要介意。
話說在遠古時代，遠古到我仍是學生的時代，一位比我高一級的男生走進了我的視線。他不算師哥，但看著順眼，他身材高而非常修長，羽球場上經常見到他的身影，而我都會在某個角落偷偷看著。後來我認識了一位師姐，是與他同班的一位女生，這位女生知道我有注意他，於是偷偷地為我做了個安排。
某天女生邀請我到外面吃飯，當到達的時，我看見飯桌已經坐滿了人，都是這位女生的同班同學，還包括了那位男生，他們還故意在男生的旁邊留個位。讓我坐在他的旁邊。其實除了那位女生外，其他的同學都是我第一次接觸，但他們卻像對認識了很久的朋友般，對我非常的照顧，尤其那位男生。我不知道女生事前是不是跟他說過什麼，以致他對我真的不像第一次接觸的人。他會找很多話題跟我聊，嘴角黏了食物，他會遞紙巾來叫我擦，我玩大話骰輪了要喝酒，他替我頂了幾次。其實我不是不能喝酒，只是覺得酒很難喝。那一晚可以說是我人生中到目前為止最愉快的一個晚上，自小就受盡異性排擠，做夢都沒想過受到這樣的尊重與維護。
自那天起，他就真的把我當成了朋友了，看到我經過球場，他都會主動打招呼，看到我獨自坐在梯級上，他會主動過來跟我聊天，好像兄長一般拍拍我的頭。某天放假，同學們都三五成群去玩，就我一個坐在空盪盪的校園中，與保安室伯伯閒聊，沒想到他竟出現了，他說是來拿忘記帶走的功課，這裡說明一下，我是寄宿生，他是本地生。他拿了功課後見已經是飯點，便問我吃飯了沒有，如果沒有就跟他一起午飯，他請客。我當時真是傻了一下，竟有男孩子請我吃飯？？？他似乎明白我在想什麼，沒等我回答，就拉了一下我手臂，走！就是那一餐飯，我知道他是9月21日的生的處女座。
與他熟絡不到半年，他就畢業了。不過在畢業後，我們還是有保持聯絡。我定居香港後，因為人生路人熟，我的情緒愈發不穩定，但當時我沒有意識到。我只知道我很想找人傾吐，但身邊一個朋友都沒有，家人更是我痛苦的根源，完全不可以依靠。於是，我便打長途找過去的一起讀書的朋友，而其中一個就是他。我經常夜深人靜時找他哭訴，現在想起也真的難為了他。但他一次不滿都沒表示過，一聊便是兩個多三個小時，他總是很耐性地聽我說話，偶爾也會說幾句開導的話。
某次放長假，我回到讀書的城市，與舊同學們玩了幾天。某天夜晚，我當忘了什麼事又觸動了我的情緒，我非常低落。於是我又致電給他，他接到電話後竟駕著電單車出來接我。他把我帶到他親戚的家，因為親戚一家去旅行，他就住進去，算是幫親戚看屋。他跟我說，今天晚上就在這裡安心睡，明天大早帶我去吃好吃的。
是的，不管你們相不相信，一男一女共處一室，我睡在房間，他睡在沙發中，什麼都沒發生，只是講東講西，講到睡著為止。現在想起來還真忍不住笑，這種電視劇中的場景竟然在我身上發生。也許會有人好奇我們有沒有一起。老實說我有告白過，但我跟他說，不需理會我，我只是想他知道卻沒想過要與他一起。因為我很清楚，我與他沒有這種緣分，他對我也一直都如對妹妹般憐惜，根本沒有男女之情。
我上一次見他，或許也是今生最後一次見他，已經是2010年的事了，那時他準備移民到加拿大，臨別前帶著未來的太太到香港來找我，我們還吃了一餐飯。大概他也感念過去的那段時光，所以特意來見我一面。因為自此以後，我們便再也難見到了。
這就是我與一位處女座男孩全部的故事。
我一直都不明白，為什麼大家都喜歡用潔癖，愛挑剔，難相處來標籤處女座的人。我認識的這位處女座，卻是非常的細心溫柔，我猜他在第一次見我時，就已經察覺到我是個充滿傷感的人。所以他表現出的與那些總是嘲笑我，捉弄我男生不同，他在還沒有完全知道我的名字時已經把我當作朋友，對我釋出極大的善意與尊重，並在我需要他的時候安靜地守護著，到現我才明白，他是等待，等待我意識到自己的問題，等待我真正地成長起來。
其實不只他，安排我與他見面的女生是處女座，那晚一起吃飯的同學有三位是處女座，而我身邊僅有的兩位談得來的女生也是處女座。我一個雙子女，其實是在一群處女座的圍繞下渡過了一段愉快的時光。感謝有林家謙的這首歌，讓我回想起這段過去一直不敢回憶的往事，因為人生的黑暗苦澀太多，回憶過去往往會更苦澀。但這次的感受不一樣，完成了6年的心理治療，走出了陰霾，再次回憶是一番感恩與幸福。感恩他們曾在我生命中出現過，幸福我也曾被關心過。
我不是說我結識的處女座人，就代表了全部處女座。我只希望藉由我的分享，讓大家在完全了解某人前，不要因為他的太陽星座，而蓋棺定論，或是先留下了充滿偏見的印象。將心比心，沒有誰希望別人因為一個星座就把自己標籤吧？如果有緣結識，就別管星座，放多點時間去好好了解，因為我們不知道我們是不是撿到了寶，就比如林家謙，假如你不知道他會作曲，不知道他有這般的才華，僅憑他是處女座就對他充滿防備，或者立刻疏遠他，那豈不是錯過了一個大寶藏？
@user-kw2ed6dy7l
之前家謙喺kkbox講過首歌係紫色 而男主角係藍色 女主角係紅色 藍+紅=紫 同埋佢都講過係love story嚟 所以下集應該就係講男主角/女主角一齊左 同埋冇記錯女主角都係處女座嚟
上集：男女主角都覺得 唉 處女座咁麻煩冇人鍾意我㗎啦
下集：相遇（因為mv入面隔住男女主角條線喺最尾就慢慢消失 mv男主角都發現到女主角嘅存在 所以我覺得係相遇）發現對方同自己一樣 跟住一齊左
但係睇埋首歌嗰張插圖？係有個人（疑似係mv男主角）望住mv男女主角 我個人就覺得呢個完美嘅love story係佢自己ff出嚟（如果係ff 用返mv去理解你可以當係平行時空 你心目中嘅理想型係唔會喺真實世界出現 每個人都有缺陷 呢個世界冇人係完美嘅 呢個完美嘅人只會出現喺平行時空/你自己ff嘅世界 都有啲配合返歌詞「誰都想計清楚 才最淒楚 問心 人誰又無過 污點怎漂白 如果太煩 誰稀罕愛我」）同埋襯返第二隻碟個主題（即係幻想）
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不過如果淨係聽歌唔睇mv嘅話 我個人就覺得係男主角暗戀女主角 但係男主角就覺得處女座咁麻煩 人哋點會鍾意我吖🥲
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@newt2602
與其說是故步自封、挑剔、麻煩
不如說是對感情上認真、嚴肅、專一
有另一位非常處女座性格嘅歌頌者說過：「很多人對我說：你太認真了、沒必要那麼認真、認真就輸了……我認為不是這樣的。我重視每一個對我好的人，所以我所能做的，就是用我的真心和認真去對待。」
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雖然有時會因為過於追求完美而引起人哋反感，喺感情上亦令人會覺得好麻煩，寧願情願似白羊座性格，熱情奔放，但其實追求完美和認真並非一件壞事。
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敏感的我 假裝冷靜
内心充滿 對未來 不確定
孤單一個 是這潔癖惹禍
單身一世吧 除非有人煩都不怕我
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難道喜歡處女座？
Yes
PS唔係處女座，但係幾鍾意同了解處女座性格嘅另外一個星座，唔覺得處女座性格嘅人係麻煩同幾欣賞佢哋追求完美。
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@yatkk
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@edss
Here goes my attempt in translating the lyrics of this song (as I understand it) into English.
你的指甲 相當潔淨
Your fingernails were clean and tidy.
我很關注 瑣碎事情
I paid too much attention to everything mundane.
以 X 光眼睛 把你靈魂望到 很透明
I scanned through your soul with my x-ray vision.
敏感的我 假裝冷靜
I was overly sensitive, but I played it cool.
内心充滿 對未來 不確定
Inside my head, it was actually full of doubts.
是否揀你 三千晚 循環驗証 仍然未決定
Were you the one? I was with you for years, and I still couldn't make up my mind.
嫌的比愛的多 推比要的多
There were more quarrel than love, there were more nos than yesses.
孤單一個 是這潔癖惹禍
I'm still single today. This must have been my OCD.
凝望你離場 讓我很優雅 很優雅的折墮
I did nothing but looked on as you left. I felt elegant, disgracefully elegant.
明知想這麽多 姿勢這麽多
I think about this a lot.
幸福 都分到不多
I will never get much of this happiness.
應該醒了吧 除非有人 煩都不怕我
I should probably accept my fate, unless there is someone who aren't bothered by my issues.
我擔心到 三更半夜
I was worried about you throughout the night.
絕色的你 接受陽光照射
You were absolutely beautiful. When the sun shone upon us,
缺點可會 遮不了 無權伴我 同遊在舞榭
it exposed all my flaws. And we couldn't be together anymore.
嫌的比愛的多 推比要的多
There were more quarrel than love, there were more nos than yesses.
孤單一個 是這潔癖惹禍
I'm still single. This must have been my OCD.
凝望你離場 讓我很優雅 很優雅的折墮
I did nothing as you left. I felt elegant, disgracefully elegant.
明知想這麽多 姿勢這麽多
I think about this a lot.
幸福 都分到不多
I will never get much of this happiness.
單身一世吧 除非有人 煩都不怕我
I'll be forever single, unless there is someone who aren't bothered by my issues.
情願似白羊 似摩羯座
I wish to be like Aries, or Capricornus.
無謂纖細又 糾結像我
Unlike me who are tedious and indecisive.
想找人呵呵
I really want some TLC.
大眾偏說 尋求情人 别揀我
But everyone says, never pick Virgo as your lover.
來首優雅悲歌 記錄我坎坷
Come sing this elegant sad song, this is the sad story of my life.
想不管了 為愛放膽惹禍
I care anymore, I want to go all out and love someone with all my heart.
頭撞破離場 仍能高貴地 優雅地 再一個
I might end up hurt and bleed, but I will come back elegantly and try again.
誰都想計清楚 才最淒楚
Everyone thinks their past is the most miserable.
問心 人誰又無過
But honestly, nobody is perfect.
污點怎漂白 如果太煩 誰稀罕愛我
How do I polish off this stain? If I continue to live in the past, nobody's going to love me.
挑剔的結局 人間有人 還挑剔過我
I was picky about the outcome, but someone else was even more fastidious.
@shM-ik1vq
真的很喜歡這類旋律的歌曲🙂!
不得不佩服林家謙👍! 創作這種類型的歌曲真有一手😊!
@uanx7594
啊啊啊好鍾意❤️
把處女座塑造的好像也沒那麼差
反而把它變得更可愛了呢(˶‾᷄ ⁻̫ ‾᷅˵)
From台灣謙粉😚
@annieli9145
處女座歌迷表示：真的很喜歡這首歌！😆❤️曲風有趣，家謙亦唱得很鬼馬；歌詞得意之餘，還完全表達到處女座糾結的心聲，非常讚！
@purplebrownie5175
+1!! 多謝林家謙唱出處女座心聲
@mauiyan9600
唔覺