I Never Knew You
The Avett Brothers Lyrics


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Well I guess it's kinda funny how
I loved you so way back when.
You say I wouldn't know you now,
Well I didn't even know you then.

We take (we take)
A lot (a lot)
And no one here can stop
That train (that train)
Before (before)
It gets to where it's goin'.
And ah

Well I guess it's kinda funny how
I loved you so way back when.
You say I wouldn't know you now,
Well I didn't even know you then

I heard (I heard)
About (about)
The company you're keeping
And from (and from)
Someone (someone)
Who didn't have much interest
In keeping us apart.

Well I guess it's kinda funny how
I loved you so way back when.
You say I wouldn't know you now,
Well I didn't even know you then

And so I go out Friday night and talk to anyone I can.
If they can see me they can hear me run my mouth.
I tell them all I'd love to see you once again
Or maybe just run into you hanging out,
Hanging out.

You know (you know)
I lie (I lie)
So it comes as no surprise
When I (admit)
That I (that I)
Don't really want to reunite.

Well I guess it's kinda funny how
I loved you so way back when.
You say I wouldn't know you now,
Well I didn't even know you then.

So I guess it's kinda funny how
I loved you so way back when.
You say I wouldn't know you now,
Well, I didn't even know you then.




No, I didn't even know you then.
No, I didn't even know you then.

Overall Meaning

The Avett Brothers' song "I Never Knew You" explores the complexities of love and the ways in which time can change people. The singer of the song reflects on a past relationship and the ways in which the person they once loved has changed. The opening lines, "Well I guess it's kinda funny how / I loved you so way back when / You say I wouldn't know you now / Well I didn't even know you then," deal with the idea that love can be fleeting and based on shallow premises. The singer recognizes that they loved the person based on an idea of who they were, rather than who they actually were.


The song then turns to the idea that our pasts and current company can affect our relationships. The verse "I heard about the company you're keeping / And from someone who didn't have much interest / In keeping us apart" speaks to the idea that outside forces can have a major impact on relationships. It also deals with the idea that people change and move on from past relationships, as the person the singer once loved is now with someone else.


The final verse of the song speaks to the idea of closure and the ways in which we try to reconnect with past loves. The singer admits that they would like to see the person again or "maybe just run into you hanging out," but ultimately recognizes that they "don't really want to reunite." The song explores the idea of nostalgia and the ways in which we can romanticize the past, while also recognizing that it is not always possible or healthy to try to recapture what once was.


Line by Line Meaning

Well I guess it's kinda funny how
Reflecting on how things have changed over time


I loved you so way back when.
Expressing past affection for someone


You say I wouldn't know you now,
Acknowledging that the person has changed since then


Well I didn't even know you then.
Admitting that they never really knew the person to begin with


We take (we take)
Acknowledging that people take from each other in relationships


A lot (a lot)
Emphasizing how much people take from each other


And no one here can stop
Implying that stopping the taking is difficult because both parties are involved


That train (that train)
Using a train as a metaphor for the course of the relationship


Before (before)
Before it's too late


It gets to where it's goin'.
Implying that the relationship will go its natural course


And ah
Adding a pause or moment of reflection


I heard (I heard)
Implying that the person heard about the other person from a third party


About (about)
In reference to


The company you're keeping
Referring to the other person's current social circle


And from (and from)
From


Someone (someone)
A person who didn't want to keep them apart


Who didn't have much interest
Implying that the person who informed them didn't really care


In keeping us apart.
Suggesting that the other person has moved on and doesn't want to reconnect


And so I go out Friday night and talk to anyone I can.
Trying to fill a void or distract themselves by socializing


If they can see me they can hear me run my mouth.
Being talkative, possibly trying to mask sadness or loneliness


I tell them all I'd love to see you once again
Revealing their true desire to see the other person again


Or maybe just run into you hanging out,
An alternate scenario where they stumble across the other person unexpectedly


Hanging out.
Casual, easygoing interaction with the other person


You know (you know)
Acknowledging that the other person is aware


I lie (I lie)
Admitting to lying about wanting to see the other person again


So it comes as no surprise
Implying that the other person shouldn't be shocked by the lie


When I (admit)
Acknowledging that they will tell the truth


That I (that I)
Referring to themselves


Don't really want to reunite.
Admitting that they don't have a genuine desire to see the other person again


So I guess it's kinda funny how
Continuing the contemplative tone


I loved you so way back when.
Reiterating past feelings for the other person


You say I wouldn't know you now,
Reflecting on the changes the other person has gone through


Well, I didn't even know you then.
Reaffirming that they never really knew the other person at all


No, I didn't even know you then.
Emphasizing that they want to make it clear they didn't know the other person well


No, I didn't even know you then.
Repeating the previous line to drive home the point




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: ROBERT WILLIAM CRAWFORD, SCOTT YANCEY AVETT, TIMOTHY SETH AVETT

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CSelH

This song really shows their talent, probably one of the most complex/hardest they have wrote, and just amazing

MartyMartin87

may the luck always be on their side, great music, great band

Deborrah Trueman

Thank you for this!!! The greatest love affair we can sometimes have is with ourselves in proxy of someone else

Kandra Armstrong

The best thing about this album??!!! You get to feel the joy of brand new every time

Steve Alcorn

This band is GREAT!!!! Would love to see them in concert!

justin2pac

Such an underrated breakup song that makes you feel HAPPY instead of miserable!!!

Divany Araujo

When I thought I couldn't love them more, they surprise me with this. The song is so freaking perfect.

Rebecca Seven

Love this song. Anyone else think it sounds sad or is it just me?

emmy jenkins

They are just way to cute for words. Love this video..

Arthur Vieira

Greetings from Brazil! Nice sound guys!

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