Tears of Rage
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We carried you in our arms on Independence Day
And now you throw us all aside and put us all away
Oh, what dear daughter 'neath the sun could treat her father so
To wait upon him hand and foot, yet always tell him no

Tears of rage, tears of grief
Why must I always be the thief
Come to me now, you know we're so alone
And life is brief

It was all so very painless when you ran out to receive
All that false instruction which we never could believe
And now the heart is filled with gold as if it was a purse
But, oh, what kind of love is this which goes from bad to worse

Tears of rage, tears of grief
Why must I always be the thief
Come to me now, you know we're so alone
And life is brief

We pointed you the way to go and scratched your name in sand
Though you just thought it was nothing more than a place for you to stand
I want you to know that while we watched you discover no one would be true
That I myself was among the ones who thought it was just a childish thing to do

Tears of rage, tears of grief
Why must I always be the thief




Come to me now, you know we're so alone
And life is brief

Overall Meaning

The Band’s “Tears of Rage” is a heart-wrenching song about a father-daughter relationship that has gone awry. The opening lines indicate the pride and love of a father for his daughter, whom he had once carried in his arms on Independence Day. However, frustration and disappointment have taken over their relationship. The daughter has turned down her father’s support and care, leaving him feeling abandoned and hurt. The father wonders how his daughter, who received his “hand and foot” service, could treat him with such indifference.


The chorus of the song, “Tears of Rage, Tears of Grief” expresses the father’s and daughter’s emotions of grief and sadness over their relationship. The father wonders why he always has to be the “thief,” perhaps referring to the blame he feels for their estrangement. He is asking his daughter to come back to him and end their loneliness since “life is brief.” The last verse acknowledges the father’s attempts to guide and help the daughter, but his efforts went unnoticed. The daughter thoughtlessly used the father’s instructions as a pedestal to stand on and neglected to understand the underlying values. The father’s emotions are not driven by anger, but the pain of watching his daughter repeat the same mistakes while he is powerless.


Overall, The Band's "Tears of Rage" is a powerful reflection on the complexities of family relationships and how strained connections can leave us feeling helpless. The lyrics convey a tinge of regret and nostalgia for the warmth of the past. As a result, the chorus can be seen as a plea for reconnection and forgiveness.


Line by Line Meaning

We carried you in our arms on Independence Day
When you were born, we held you on the day our country gained freedom


And now you throw us all aside and put us all away
As you grew up, you ignored us and left us behind


Oh, what dear daughter 'neath the sun could treat her father so
A daughter who treats her father so poorly is very rare


To wait upon him hand and foot, yet always tell him no
We served you and gave you everything, but you still refused to listen to us


Tears of rage, tears of grief
I am crying tears of anger and sadness


Why must I always be the thief
Why do I always feel like I am stealing from you when I am only trying to protect you?


Come to me now, you know we're so alone
Please come back to us, we feel so lonely without you


And life is brief
Life is short and we want to spend it with you


It was all so very painless when you ran out to receive
You were so happy when you went out into the world


All that false instruction which we never could believe
But the things you were taught were untrue and we couldn't accept them


And now the heart is filled with gold as if it was a purse
Yet, you have gained wealth and success at the cost of your morals and values


But, oh, what kind of love is this which goes from bad to worse
Your behavior towards us has only worsened, despite our constant love for you


We pointed you the way to go and scratched your name in sand
We showed you the right path and left our mark on your life


Though you just thought it was nothing more than a place for you to stand
But you never understood the true significance of our guidance


I want you to know that while we watched you discover no one would be true
We always knew that you would face disappointment and betrayal in the real world


That I myself was among the ones who thought it was just a childish thing to do
Even I, your parent, saw your pursuit of truth as naive and immature




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Richard Manuel, Bob Dylan

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@CipherSerpico

Am I the ONLY ONE that thinks this song is an Allegory/Metaphor -- about America; And that the "Daughter" is actually the Statue of Liberty; (i.e Our symbol of Freedom, and what America is supposed to represent)...
AND, that the "Father" in the song, is actually referring to the "Founding Fathers", and how they envisioned the country/Their "Daughter" to turn out....?

Like, the song is about the fallacies of the "American Dream/American Exceptionalism", and how She/The Statue of Liberty/America -- never lived up to The Founding Fathers' expectations (The people that 'gave birth' to "Her"/America).


"We carried you, in our arms, on Independence Day":

• Independence Day --
July 4th, 1776; The day that the "Promise" (of all the great things that America would become).....Was born

"And now you'd throw us all aside and put us all away,
Oh, what dear daughter 'neath the sun could treat a father so,
To wait upon him hand and foot and always tell him No":

• America -- was supposed to be the one place that anyone and everyone could escape to. A 'Utopian-Dream-Land' -- where ALL people were equal.
And, the VERY FIRST thing that millions of people would see when they first came to America was...
The Statue of Liberty (The "Daughter" of the Founding-"Fathers".

Except, Her/America's "Children" (i.e The Citizens and the people who came to the country) - soon realized that none of that was true: i.e Slavery, Racism, Bigotry, Vietnam, Gender inequality, etc...

"We pointed you the way to go..."
• The Founding 'Fathers' gave us The Constitution; The greatest political document ever written -- They "pointed us the way to go"; And gave us all we would need to actually make America a "Utopian-State".

"...And scratched your name in sand, Though you just thought it was nothing more, Than a place for you to stand":

• The plaque at the bottom of the Statue of Liberty, with the words:
"Give me your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to be free..." -- is LITERALLY written ('Scratched in sand') on the base of the Statue;
It is LITERALLY
'WHAT SHE STANDS ON'.

Except, we do not hold true to the ideals of what the Statue/America is SUPPOSED to be about -- We only CLAIM to believe in those kinds of values.

"I want you to know that while we watched - You discovered no one would be true,
That I myself was among
The ones who thought
It was just a childish thing to do"

• We all witnessed the way America & Her "Children"...
Refused to 'remain true' to the values that we were supposed to abide by.

"...All that false instruction
Which we never could believe,
And now the heart is filled with gold as if it was a purse"...
• Again, the "false instructions" are about things like the Constitution and all that America is supposed to represent and stand for.
The 'heart of gold' line -- Could be about; How we originally had good intentions, and how we genuinely sought to be a country/people with a "heart of gold";
Except, instead of being interested in having a "heart of gold" -- We, instead, decided to replace our "good values" with Literal-Gold, i.e Money/Wealth.
We became solely focused on making money; And we essentially became one big corporation, where people do not care; How--negatively, their actions--effect others, as long as they can financially-benefit, from those actions...

All in all, I'm not POSITIVE that this song is about those things; Or, if - That kind of interpretation was purposefully-intended, except it was just supposed to give the song another layer; Where it could be about a literal 'Father/Daughter', but ALSO have secondary-meanings.
Either way, please let me know what you think, and if you think I missed something that could support my theory;
And/or -- if you think the song is actually about something else.



All comments from YouTube:

@lampard98jr

It's seriously one of the best songs of all time.

@patrickflanagan4603

It's fifty years or more on since this album was recorded, and still stirs the soul like no other.

@Staylogical

Dylan/Manuel song.Richard didn't write a lot of songs.But he did write this one and Whispering Pines,two of the best songs I've ever heard by anybody,of any generation.Somebody should have taken better care of him.

@zitarasid7210

Music from Big Pink is one of my top five favorite albums.....I was so young but this album changed how I look at things.  The Band/Dylan....can't get any better than this...

@taylorw2199

This album changed the trajectory of rock and roll !!

@stacyblue1980

It didnt sound like anything from that time. Very grown-up like. But beautiful and very with the times at the same time.

@philiphalpenny9761

32 years ago today this poetic voice was spirited away.

@easygordon

I know everything is a matter of taste, but how could anyone turn a thumbs down on this song?

@Sinfulgaiden

The Band's music gets better as I grow older.

@tjcolatrella943

First time I heard this was immediately after it's release on a huge Macintosh Stereo Tube System through big sand filled Warfdale Speakers then all of Levon's drums were mixed only to one side very unique and recreated their set up on stage..I was blown away transfixed as if I was hearing music for the first time and hearing the music I'd always heard in my head and lurked in my soul.. To think I got to know these guys as friends and honored to be requested for material by them and later record with Garth Hudson was like coming home to the big brothers I never had..

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