Too Afraid to Love You
The Black Keys Lyrics


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Whoa

My gears they grind
More each day
And I feel like
They're gonna grind away

Whoa

And the city blocks
They drive me wild
They're never ending
Mile after mile

I just don't know what to do
I'm too afraid to love you

'Cause heaven on earth
Is in her embrace
A gentle touch
And a smiling face

I'm just one wishing
That I was a pair
With someone, oh somewhere

I just don't know what to do
I'm too afraid to love you

All those sleepless nights
And all those wasted days
I wish loneliness would leave me
But I think it's here to stay
What more can I do
'Cause I'm ringin' myself dry
And I can't afford to lose
One more teardrop from my eye

Whoa

I'm too afraid
I'm too afraid
I just don't know what to do
With myself
Thinkin' all the time

Don't know what to do

Don't know what to do





Drivin' me outta my mind

Overall Meaning

The Black Keys' song "Too Afraid to Love You" is an introspective cry of help from a man who is afraid of taking a chance on love. The lyrics of the song convey a sense of the singer's insecurity and fear of being vulnerable to love, which leads him to experiencing feelings of loneliness and despair. He reflects on the city, the gears that grind him each day, and the never-ending miles, which all make him more fearful of falling in love. He considers himself just one person wishing that he was a part of a duo, as he sings, "I'm just one wishing that I was a pair, with someone, oh somewhere."


The singer's fear does not stem from a lack of affection or admiration for the person he loves; on the contrary, he believes that "heaven on earth" is in her embrace, and he yearns for her gentle touch and smiling face. However, his fear of being vulnerable to the person he loves is a barrier that keeps holding him back from experiencing love. The singer is distressed with the sleepless nights and wasted days; he is fed up with being lonely and wishes it would leave him. But he concludes his lamentation by accepting the vicious circle of despair and leaves the song open-ended, as he repeats his fear of love and begs for an answer to his dilemma, "I just don't know what to do."


Line by Line Meaning

My gears they grind
My mind is constantly working and stressing me out


More each day
It's getting worse over time


And I feel like
I have a sense of impending doom


They're gonna grind away
I fear that my mind will break down completely


And the city blocks
The urban landscape that surrounds me


They drive me wild
It's overwhelming and chaotic


They're never ending
It just goes on forever


Mile after mile
And it feels like there's no way out


I'm too afraid to love you
I have feelings for you, but I'm scared of what might happen


'Cause heaven on earth
Being with you is the best feeling I've ever experienced


Is in her embrace
Your touch and affection is everything to me


A gentle touch
Your love is patient and kind


And a smiling face
Your happiness is contagious and brightens my day


I'm just one wishing
I'm a lonely person hoping to find someone to love


That I was a pair
I wish I had a partner in life


With someone, oh somewhere
I hope to find love with someone, somewhere


All those sleepless nights
I can't stop thinking about you at night


And all those wasted days
I've spent too much time on my own


I wish loneliness would leave me
I hope to find companionship and love soon


But I think it's here to stay
I fear that I will never find true love


What more can I do
I've exhausted all possible ways to find love


'Cause I'm ringin' myself dry
I've put in so much effort to find love, to no avail


And I can't afford to lose
I can't bear to lose any more time, hope or energy


One more teardrop from my eye
I'm emotionally drained and have no more tears left to cry


I'm too afraid
I'm scared of being hurt or rejected


I just don't know what to do
I'm lost and don't know how to find love


With myself
I'm alone and uncertain


Thinkin' all the time
My thoughts are consumed by the desire for love


Don't know what to do
I'm lost and hopeless


Drivin' me outta my mind
It's overwhelming and driving me insane




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: Daniel Auerbach, Patrick Carney

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@SamsButterscotch

I wish this song'd never end.

@dsrosem

All I know is i'm a 53 year old grandma raised on the 70's hard rock .Zeppelin,Deep Purple ,Sabbath.And when I heard this today on the radio I liked it. Rock on.............

@LodeDSVD

thank you The Black Keys for being there, when my ex-girl wasn't

@TakajoMiyazaki

This song helped me so much with my depression... The whole Brothers album helped me with my depression... As soon as my friend showed me one of their songs, I instantly fell in love with them. I'd always think that no one would be able to churn out something this good these days, but my goodness, I was wrong..

@MrP1kollo

My gears they grind More each day And I feel like They're gonna grind away And the city blocks They drive me wild They're never ending Mile after mile I just don't know what to do I'm too afraid to love you It's heaven on earth In her embrace Her gentle touch And her smiling face I'm just one wishing That I was a pair With someone Oh somewhere All those sleepless nights And all those wasted days I wish loneliness would leave me But I think he's here to stay What more can I

@coolsprus101

I love how the whole dynamic changed once the bass kicked in.

@survivor1077

a masterpiece....no words

@machinakos

Black keys do it oldschool like nobody else does it in our days at this level. Thats why they are top band.

@SweetSweetInterpol

A stunning remarkable band. The lack of credit they get for what they do is just more evidence of the absolute state of modern music.

@Prometheus336

...And I can't afford to lose one more teardrop from my eye... geez what a line!!

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