Where I Was
The Browns Lyrics


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On a black and white TV back in grammar school
I was watching Neal Armstrong walking on the moon
That same day I pretended I was an astronaut
on the playground monkey bars I flew above the stars
I was in a Dallas disco the night John Lennon died
The DJ played "Imagine" and everybody cried
I remember a thousand lighters held up in our hands
All we were saying was let's give peace a chance

[Chorus]
Where was I when you stopped lovin' me
When did I become history
There's not many things that escape my memory
Tell me where was I when you stopped loving me

Every twenty thousand years a comet lights up the night
On a blanket we watched it sail across the sky
A Moment like that comes just once in life
It felt like our first time at 11:35

[Chorus]

I remember when I met you
The taste of our first kiss
I remember your goodbye
Could you tell me this

[Chorus]





Where was I when you stopped loving me

Overall Meaning

The Browns's song "Where I Was" is a poignant reflection on the fleeting nature of time and memory. The song begins with nostalgic references to the singer's childhood and adolescence, as he recalls watching Neil Armstrong walk on the moon on a black and white TV when he was in grammar school. The singer also reminisces about playing make-believe as an astronaut on the playground monkey bars that same day. The song then shifts to more adult memories, as the singer remembers being in a Dallas disco the night John Lennon died, and how the DJ played "Imagine" and everyone cried while holding up lighters.


The chorus of the song poses the question "Where was I when you stopped lovin' me?" suggesting that the memory of lost love is a central theme of the song. However, the lyrics also delve into broader themes of the passage of time and the ways in which memories are both preserved and lost. References to a once-in-a-lifetime moment like a comet lighting up the night sky, and the taste of a first kiss, are contrasted with a sense of loss as the singer grapples with the question of when and how he became "history" to his former lover.


Overall, "Where I Was" is a moving meditation on the nature of memory, time, and loss. The song invites the listener to reflect on their own experiences of love and loss, and the memories that persist even as time marches on.


Line by Line Meaning

On a black and white TV back in grammar school
Back when I was just a kid in grammar school, I remember watching the iconic moment in history when Neal Armstrong walked on the moon on an old black and white television set.


That same day I pretended I was an astronaut
I was so enamored with the idea of space travel that I even pretended to be an astronaut that same day on the monkey bars in the playground.


on the playground monkey bars I flew above the stars
As I played on the monkey bars, I imagined myself flying amongst the stars, exploring the mysteries of the universe.


I was in a Dallas disco the night John Lennon died
One particularly fateful night, I found myself at a disco in Dallas when the news broke of John Lennon's tragic death.


The DJ played "Imagine" and everybody cried
In honor of John Lennon, the DJ played his iconic song "Imagine", causing an outpouring of grief and emotion from everyone in attendance.


I remember a thousand lighters held up in our hands
As we all mourned the loss of a legend, we stood together with our lighters raised high in the air, united in sorrow and remembrance.


All we were saying was let's give peace a chance
In that moment of shared sadness and emotion, we were reminded of John Lennon's message of peace and love, and we all came together in a spirit of unity and hope for a better world.


[Chorus]
The refrain of the song repeats, asking the question: where was I when you stopped loving me? The memories and events recounted in the previous verses all serve to emphasize the loss and confusion felt by the artist over this event.


Every twenty thousand years a comet lights up the night
In contrast to the historical and cultural events described earlier in the song, this verse speaks to the sense of wonder and awe inspired by natural phenomena, such as the sight of a comet lighting up the night sky.


On a blanket we watched it sail across the sky
The poet reminisces about a moment shared with his lover, when they lay together on a blanket and watched a beautiful comet streak across the sky.


A Moment like that comes just once in life
The singer recognizes the rarity and significance of such a moment, and cherishes the memory deeply.


It felt like our first time at 11:35
The memory of watching the comet together is powerful enough to evoke the same feelings of nervous excitement and anticipation felt in the beginning of the lovers' relationship.


[Chorus]
The chorus repeats, underscoring the central theme of the song: a yearning to know where things went wrong and why the singer's lover stopped loving them.


I remember when I met you
The poet recalls the moment when they first met their lover, picturing the details of that day in his mind.


The taste of our first kiss
As he reflects on their early romance, the poet recalls the sensory details of their first kiss: the scent, the feel, and especially the taste of the experience.


I remember your goodbye
The poet also remembers the painful moment of separation from his lover, a difficult goodbye that lingers in his memory and troubles him still.


Could you tell me this
The song ends on a plaintive note, with the poet asking his lost love to explain why they stopped loving him and left him behind.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: ANNA LISA GRAHAM, BILLY MADDOX, JIM ALLISON

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Comments from YouTube:

Maxine Russell

I love this song, written by our good friend, Harlan Howard. I hope it will be one of your favorites also. Thanks for the post. (Maxine Brown)

mrblindfreddy9999

maxine. I can honestly say you guys never recorded a dud and i have heard some awful stuff..I even tossed some cd's in the bin lol (not yours) cheers Dave

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