Fond Affection
The Carter Family Lyrics


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Once I loved your fond affection
All my hopes on you was spent
Till a dark eyed girl persuaded
And you cared no more for me

Go on and leave me if you wish to
Never let me cross your mind
In your heart you love another
Never on earth will I call you mine

Yodel-ay-ee-oh, lay-ee-ay, oh-lay-ee

When I'm dead and in my coffin
And my pale face toward the sun
Will you come and sit beside me
And think of what you have done

Go on and leave me if you wish to
Never let me cross your mind
In your heart you love another
Never on earth will I call you mine

Yodel-ay-ee-oh, lay-ee-ay, oh-lay-ee

When I'm dead and in my coffin
And the shroud about me bound
Will you come and scatter roses
Upon your lover's mound

Go on and leave me if you wish to
Never let me cross your mind
In your heart you love another
Never on earth will call I you mine





Yodel-ay-ee-oh, lay-ee-ay, oh-lay-ee

Overall Meaning

The Carter Family's song "Fond Affection" is a heartbreaking ballad of lost love and regret. The singer reveals that they were deeply in love with their partner, and their hopes and dreams were tied to this love. However, a dark-eyed girl came along and persuaded their lover to leave them. The singer is left alone and heartbroken, knowing that their love has moved on to someone else. The chorus is a declaration of acceptance and resignation, urging their lover to leave them if they wish to and never to think of them again. The yodeling that punctuates the song adds to the sense of sadness and resignation.


The second verse takes on a slightly different tone, as the singer imagines their own death and burial. They ask if their lover will come and sit beside them, and think about what they've done. This verse adds an extra layer of sorrow to the song, as the singer is aware that their love will never be reciprocated, even in death. The final verse is similarly despairing, as the singer imagines their lover scattering roses on their grave. The song ends with the chorus once more, underlining the singer's acceptance of their abandonment.


Overall, "Fond Affection" is a poignant portrait of a love that was lost, and the pain that comes with it. The lyrics are full of pathos, and the simple melody helps to create an atmosphere of melancholy. The song is a testament to the Carter Family's skill as songwriters and performers, and it remains a classic of the country music genre.


Line by Line Meaning

Once I loved your fond affection
I used to love the care and love you used to show me


All my hopes on you was spent
I had complete trust and faith in you


Till a dark eyed girl persuaded
Until a girl with dark eyes convinced you otherwise


And you cared no more for me
You lost all the love and care you had for me


Go on and leave me if you wish to
You have the freedom to go away if you choose to


Never let me cross your mind
You should never think of me again


In your heart you love another
Your love has shifted to someone else


Never on earth will I call you mine
I will never be able to claim you as mine


When I'm dead and in my coffin
After I pass away and am buried


And my pale face toward the sun
My lifeless face will be directed towards the sun


Will you come and sit beside me
Will you pay me a visit and sit next to my grave


And think of what you have done
And reflect on the pain and hurt you caused me


When I'm dead and in my coffin
After I pass away and am buried


And the shroud about me bound
When the cloth covers me completely


Will you come and scatter roses
Will you come and place roses on my grave


Upon your lover's mound
On top of the burial place of your loved one


Yodel-ay-ee-oh, lay-ee-ay, oh-lay-ee
Refrain for the song




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GravityAngel

0:17 Once I loved your fond affection
All my hopes on you was spent
Till a dark eyed girl persuaded
And you cared no more for me

0:35 Go on and leave me if you wish to
Never let me cross your mind
In your heart you love another
Never on earth will I call you mine

0:54 Yodel-ay-ee-oh, lay-ee-ay, oh-lay-ee

1:19 When I'm dead and in my coffin
And my pale face toward the sun
Will you come and sit beside me
And think of what you have done

1:37 Go on and leave me if you wish to
Never let me cross your mind
In your heart you love another
Never on earth will I call you mine

1:55 Yodel-ay-ee-oh, lay-ee-ay, oh-lay-ee

2:19 When I'm dead and in my coffin
And the shroud about me bound
Will you come and scatter roses
Upon your lover's mound

2:37 Go on and leave me if you wish to
Never let me cross your mind
In your heart you love another
Never on earth will call I you mine

2:55 Yodel-ay-ee-oh, lay-ee-ay, oh-lay-ee

JILLY RIZZO

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