The Hazards of Love 3
The Decemberists Lyrics


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Father I'm not feeling well
The flowers me you fed
Tasted spoiled for suddenly
I find that I am dead
But father don't you fear
Your children all are here
Singing oh the hazards of love
Father turn the water down
The basins overflown
The water covers everything
And me left all alone
But papa here in death
I have regained my breath
To sing oh the hazards of love
To sing oh the hazards of love

Spare the rod, you'll spoil the child
But I prefer the lash
My sisters drowned and poisoned
All of me reduced to ash
And buried in an urn
But father I return
Singing oh the hazards of love
Singing oh the hazards of love




The hazards of love
The hazards of love

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Hazards of Love 3 by The Decemberists are dark and yet the melody is hauntingly beautiful. The song tells the story of a woman who has died due to poisonous flowers given to her by her father. The first verse, "Father I'm not feeling well, the flowers me you fed, tasted spoiled for suddenly, I find that I am dead, but father don't you fear, your children all are here" sets the tone for the rest of the song. The daughter, even in death, sings about the dangers of love and the consequences of being blind to it.


As the song progresses, the daughter's sister and then the daughter herself die tragic deaths. The second verse, "Father turn the water down, the basins overflown, the water covers everything, and me left all alone, but papa here in death, I have regained my breath" is particularly poignant, as the daughter is left to drown by herself. However, in death she feels free from the hazards of love and is able to sing a warning to others.


The chorus, "Singing oh the hazards of love, singing oh the hazards of love" is repeated throughout the song, reflecting the theme of the dangers of love. The final verse, "Spare the rod you'll spoil the child, but I prefer the lash, my sisters drowned and poisoned, all of me reduced to ash, and buried in an urn, but father I return, singing oh the hazards of love" further highlights the dangers of love and even the consequences of discipline.


Overall, The Hazards of Love 3 is a haunting and mesmerizing song that tells a dark story with a powerful message about the hazards of love.


Line by Line Meaning

Father I'm not feeling well
The singer is expressing their pain and ailments to their father.


The flowers me you fed
The singer is referring to the actions made by their father to care for them.


Tasted spoiled for suddenly
The singer is describing how the care provided to them became unsatisfactory to the point where they are in pain.


I find that I am dead
The artist is using hyperbole to emphasize the severity of their agony and discomfort.


But father don't you fear
The artist is trying to calm their father, assuring them that they do not need to worry.


Your children all are here
The singer is trying to indicate that they are still alive and present despite their ailment.


Singing oh the hazards of love
The singer is using sarcasm and cynicism to reflect on how love can bring about pain, hardship, and unfulfillment.


Father turn the water down
The artist is still in pain and is requesting their father to tend to the water that is causing them grief.


The basins overflown
The artist is describing how their father's care is excessive and detrimental to them.


The water covers everything
The artist is using metaphor to represent how their physical discomfort is consuming everything about them.


And me left all alone
Although physically present with their father's care, the singer feels deserted and neglected.


But papa here in death
The artist is using sarcasm again to exaggerate their pain and misfortune, as they are not actually dead.


I have regained my breath
The singer is indicating that they are recovering from their misery and are now filled with vigor and energy.


To sing oh the hazards of love
The singer is once again being sarcastic and bitter about how love is not always a happy and fulfilling emotion.


Spare the rod, you'll spoil the child
The singer is using a common proverb to criticize their father's harsh discipline and punishment towards them.


But I prefer the lash
The artist is being ironic, indicating they would rather endure physical punishment than the emotional pain caused by their father's care.


My sisters drowned and poisoned
The artist is revealing a dark family history, where their siblings were victims of abuse or mistreatment.


All of me reduced to ash
The singer is using metaphor to represent how their negative experiences have left an irreversible impact and have almost destroyed them.


But father I return
The singer is indicating that they have healed and become stronger despite their past suffering.


Singing oh the hazards of love
The artist is repeating the sarcastic refrain, as they are still critical of how love can bring about pain and hardship.


The hazards of love
The artist is repeating the title of the song to emphasize how love can cause danger, trouble or difficulty.




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