Do You Love Me
The Flyers Lyrics


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Lately we're acting like two kids in school
Spelling out things
So he won't know we're through
We know it's over and we don't want to say
But letter by letter he showed me today
And he really turned my head
As he turned around with a tear in his eye
And said

Hey d-a-d-d-why,I saw m-a-m-a cry
Say you're not going away
Is it because of me
Have I been be -a-d
Please,daddy,please won't you stay
'Cause if you leave,what will you do with M-E

So I picked him up,sat him down on my knee
I thought I'd explain but again he showed me
We've been too busy avoiding the blame
We forgot the real heart
Who will lose in this game
And I still love you,I just didn't see
Till he opened my eyes
And he spelled it out to me

Hey d-a-d-d-why,I saw m-a-m-a cry
Say you're not going away
Is it because of me
Have I been be -a-d
Please,daddy,please won't you stay
'Cause if you leave,what will you do with M-E

Hey d-a-d-d-why,I saw m-a-m-a cry
Say you're not going away
Is it because of me
Have I been be -a-d
Please,daddy,please won't you stay
'Cause if you leave,what will you do with M-E





Oh daddy,if you leave what will you do
With me?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Flyer's song "Do You Love Me" depict a father and son having a heart-to-heart conversation about the state of their family relationship. The first verse establishes that the father and mother are communicating through spelling out their thoughts, indicating a lack of open and honest communication. The son, observant of the tension between his parents, questions his father's possible departure and the impact it would have on him. The father, realizing the gravity of the situation and the negative effect it would have on his son, promises to stay and work through the issues.


The second verse highlights the father's realization that he and his wife have been avoiding their problems, and in doing so, they have forgotten about the true victim - their son. The repetition of the refrain, "Hey d-a-d-d-why, I saw m-a-m-a cry, Say you're not going away," illustrates the son's desperation for the family to stay together and the fear of being left behind if his father leaves. The poignant ending, "Oh daddy, if you leave, what will you do with me?" emphasizes the importance of a strong and healthy family relationship.


Overall, "Do You Love Me" is a touching expression of the consequences of not communicating effectively in a family and the ultimate importance of putting the needs of loved ones first.


Line by Line Meaning

Lately we're acting like two kids in school
We've been behaving childishly lately


Spelling out things
Communicating indirectly by spelling out words so that the other person doesn't catch on to what we're saying


So he won't know we're through
So he won't realize that we've broken up


We know it's over and we don't want to say
We both know that our relationship is over but we're having a hard time admitting it to each other


But letter by letter he showed me today
He spelled out his true feelings for me letter by letter


And he really turned my head
He surprised me and made me stop and think


As he turned around with a tear in his eye
As he looked away from me crying


And said
And spoke to me


Hey d-a-d-d-why,I saw m-a-m-a cry
Child is trying to understand why his parents are having problems


Say you're not going away
Assurance that dad is not going to leave


Is it because of me
The child thinks that the reason his parents are having problems is him


Have I been be-a-d
Child is trying to understand if he has done something wrong


Please,daddy,please won't you stay
The child is begging his father to stay


'Cause if you leave,what will you do with M-E
Child is scared of his father leaving and is wondering what will happen to him


So I picked him up,sat him down on my knee
Dad is comforting and reassuring his child


I thought I'd explain but again he showed me
Dad was going to explain his true feelings but the child already understood what he needed to say


We've been too busy avoiding the blame
We've both been avoiding taking responsibility for our problems and it's only hurting us more


We forgot the real heart
We've lost sight of what really matters in our relationship


Who will lose in this game
We need to stop playing games with each other and start working through our problems


And I still love you,I just didn't see
Dad still loves mom, he just didn't realize it until his child helped him see it


Till he opened my eyes
The child helped Dad see the truth


Oh daddy,if you leave what will you do With me?
The child is scared of being alone if his father leaves




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CRAIG M. MARTIN, DENNIS MORGAN

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