Apology Accepted
The Go-Betweens Lyrics


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I used to say dumb things
I guess I still do
I'm doing it again
But that's what happens
When you're in view
More used to naked men
You said leave the light on
Don't be frightened
I don't know how long
I can wait to see if my
Apology's accepted
Too proud to hang my head
In shame beside your bed
But sometimes you want something
So bad, you'll grab anything
You said that's ridiculous
There's only one thing that precious
I don't know how long
I can wait to see if my
Apology's Accepted
I gotta know is my
Apology accepted
Time and time again
Your soft eyes close
In trust above me
Such a simple question
I pretended I was sleeping
I didn't know anything
But you I'm keeping
I don't know how long
I can wait to see if my
Apology's Accepted




I gotta know is my
Apology Accepted

Overall Meaning

The Go-Betweens' "Apology Accepted" describes a man who is seeking forgiveness from his partner after continuously saying foolish things. He admits that he still messes up sometimes, but it's because she's always on his mind. The man acknowledges his mistakes and expresses his remorse, but he's too proud to make a public apology. He doesn't want to admit his guilt, and he fears judgment from others. However, he's haunted by the possibility that his apology might not be accepted, so he asks for reassurance from his partner.


The song expresses the vulnerability inherent in seeking forgiveness. The man wants to make things right, but he's afraid of being rejected. He's also unsure of whether or not his partner truly forgives him. The lyrics paint a picture of a man who is wrestling with his own insecurities and seeking validation from someone he loves. The chorus of the song, "I don't know how long/I can wait to see if my/Apology's accepted/I gotta know if my/Apology's accepted" perfectly describes the man's intense desire for his partner's approval.


Overall, "Apology Accepted" is a heart-wrenching track that encapsulates the complexity of human relationships. It's a song about forgiveness, love, and the fear of rejection.


Line by Line Meaning

I used to say dumb things
In the past, I would speak foolishly.


I guess I still do
I admit that I continue to do this.


I'm doing it again
Once again, I am making the same mistake.


But that's what happens
It seems to be a pattern with me.


When you're in view
Especially when I'm around you.


More used to naked men
I am more familiar with seeing men unclothed.


You said leave the light on
You requested that the light stay on.


Don't be frightened
You don't need to be scared.


I don't know how long
I am unsure of the time frame.


I can wait to see if my
I'm willing to wait and find out if my


Apology's accepted
Your forgiveness will be granted.


Too proud to hang my head
I have too much pride to admit my mistake.


In shame beside your bed
I can't bring myself to apologize in person.


But sometimes you want something
At times, you will do anything to get what you want.


So bad, you'll grab anything
Even if it's not the right thing to do.


You said that's ridiculous
You find this behavior absurd.


There's only one thing that precious
You believe that only one thing is truly valuable.


I gotta know is my
I must know if my


Apology accepted
You will forgive me for my mistake.


Time and time again
Repeatedly, throughout time.


Your soft eyes close
You become relaxed and vulnerable.


In trust above me
You have confidence in me.


Such a simple question
It's a straightforward inquiry.


I pretended I was sleeping
I acted as if I were asleep.


I didn't know anything
I was unaware of any wrongdoing.


But you I'm keeping
Despite my mistakes, I still want to be with you.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, DOMINO PUBLISHING COMPANY
Written by: GRANT MCLENNAN, ROBERT DERWENT GARTH FORSTER

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Comments from YouTube:

RBK Ian FN

The most underrated band in history. Lucky enough to see them live both originally in 1986 and in 2003 when they reformed. Also saw Grant McLennan do a solo gig at The Leadmill in 96. Can't have been more than 40 people there bu he was brilliant. Sadly missed. By the way that's him singing if nobody answered the earlier question.

Stephen De Carteret

Bought this magnificent album in the 80’s. They truly were a top band and criminally underrated. No real compensation to them but people are getting to appreciate their brilliance anew.

E Says

My fav album, one of the best Australian albums of the 80's.... EVER!

E Says

This arrangement is....AMAZING to say the least! The drone organ is hypnotic. I'm learning this song but I need to change key which I fear may tarnish the songs finish? Miss you Grant :(

NashSpaceRocket

what drone organ? That's a 12 string electric playing in the background.

E Says

@NashSpaceRocket there's an obvious hammond organ playing a single note, G I believe, that doesn't change throughout the entire arrangement as a crescrndo. The 12 string is obviously there but a 12 string cannot sustain a note like that.

Searchandpreserve

@E Says you`re so right! It´s simply a great musical idea, sounds like a clamp around the heart and that goes so well with the song´s message..

patrick cullen

1000 acoustic guitars?

TheChamberlaingirl

One of my favorite albums ever.

E Says

I'm going to make a YouTube video about this album

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