Careless
The Go-Betweens Lyrics


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We're both careful
We're both kind
I know you
You're so easy to find
Clumsy me, clumsy you
Fell in love
And we don't know what to do
We make mistakes
Things crack and break
A friendship's born
And then it's too late
Clumsy me and you
Broke something
And we didn't know what to do
It used to be fun
Something to share
Now we're both jealous
'cause now we both care
Between the world and us
I sang, 'caught you'
Two is a crowd, one of us should know
Safety in numbers means number one can't go
Clumsy me and you




Broke something
And we didn't know what to do

Overall Meaning

The Go-Betweens' song "Careless" tells the story of two friends who fall in love, but they struggle with the transition from platonic to romantic relationship. The song expresses the difficulty of maintaining a friendship after crossing the line into romance, and the fear of losing that connection entirely. The opening lines of the song, "We're both careful, We're both kind," suggest that the couple is aware of the complications that come with falling in love with a friend. The line "Two is a crowd, one of us should know" highlights the tension of wanting to stay close to someone while also feeling suffocated by their presence.


The lyrics "clumsy me, clumsy you" illustrate the stumbling nature of their relationship, and phrases like "things crack and break" suggest that their newfound romance is fragile. The line "safety in numbers means number one can't go" implies that their relationship may not survive if one of them wants to break things off. In the end, the song suggests that the couple is struggling to navigate their new dynamic and may not be able to salvage their friendship.


Overall, "Careless" is a poignant and relatable song about the challenges of transitioning from a platonic friendship to a romantic relationship. It captures the bittersweet emotions of falling in love with a friend and the fear of losing that connection altogether.


Line by Line Meaning

We're both careful
We're both cautious and not impulsive in our actions


We're both kind
We both have a considerate and sympathetic nature towards others


I know you
I am familiar with your character and personality


You're so easy to find
Your nature and qualities are easy to discern and recognize


Clumsy me, clumsy you
Both of us are awkward or lacking in skill, especially regarding our emotional reactions


Fell in love
We developed romantic feelings for each other


And we don't know what to do
We are uncertain about how to proceed or act on our feelings


We make mistakes
We are prone to errors, especially in our interactions with each other


Things crack and break
Our relationship is frail and fragile, easily damaged and broken


A friendship's born
Our romantic relationship began as a result of our friendship


And then it's too late
Our romantic relationship progressed beyond the point of return or change


Broke something
We damaged or destroyed an aspect of our relationship, whether communication or trust


It used to be fun
Our relationship began as an enjoyable and lighthearted experience


Something to share
We had a special connection and intimacy that we shared with each other


Now we're both jealous
Our relationship is characterized by possessiveness and envy


'cause now we both care
Our romantic relationship deepened our emotional investment and concern for each other


Between the world and us
Our relationship is situated or constrained by external factors or societal expectations


I sang, 'caught you'
I discovered or exposed something about you, whether positive or negative


Two is a crowd, one of us should know
Our relationship is strained or conflicting, and one of us should back off or give way for a healthier dynamic


Safety in numbers means number one can't go
Our relationship, however toxic or unhealthy, is the only one we have, and thus we cling to it for fear of being alone




Lyrics © DOMINO PUBLISHING COMPANY, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: GRANT MCLENNAN, ROBERT DERWENT GARTH FORSTER

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