Where Were You When I Needed You
The Grass Roots Lyrics


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Don't bother crying, don't bother calling
It's all over now, no use in stalling
The love once I felt
I don't feel anymore for you
This time I'll even open the door for you
You walked out when I was down
Well, now I'm well off
And look, look who's coming 'round

Where were you when I needed ya
Where were you when I wanted ya
Where were you when I needed ya
Where?

You're looking good
It's hard to fight it
There's no use explaining
I've already decided
That living with you
Is worse than without you
I won't spend a lifetime a-worriying about you
Things get rough and you disappeared
Now I'm back on my feet
And look, look who is standing there

Where were you when I needed ya
Where were you when I wanted ya
Where were you when I needed ya
Where?

You were so young and you were so wild
I knew you were nobody's innocent child
The first day I saw you
You really got to me
I thought I could change you
What good did it to me?
Things got rough and you couldn't wait
Now you're tripping back
But babe, babe it's too late

Where were you when I needed ya
Where were you when I wanted ya




Where were you when I needed ya
Where?

Overall Meaning

The Grass Roots's song "Where Were You When I Needed You" is a classic example of a breakup song that focuses on the singer's anger and resentment towards their ex-lover. The song is written in a conversational style where the singer speaks directly to the person who hurt them. The opening lines of "Don't bother crying, don't bother calling, It's all over now, no use in stalling" are a clear indication that the singer has moved on and doesn't want any contact from their ex. They go on to say that they no longer feel the love they once had for the person and that they won't waste any more time worrying about them.


The chorus of the song repeats the question "Where were you when I needed ya?" three times, which drives home the message that the singer's ex wasn't there for them in their time of need. The lines "You walked out when I was down, Well, now I'm well off, And look, look who's coming 'round" suggest that the ex is now trying to come back into the singer's life, but the singer is not interested in reconciling. The final verse, which addresses the ex's youth and wildness, suggests that the singer was drawn to the ex's free-spirited nature, but that it ultimately proved to be their downfall.


Overall, "Where Were You When I Needed You" is a powerful breakup song that conveys a strong sense of anger and frustration towards an ex-lover who wasn't there when the singer needed them most.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't bother crying, don't bother calling
There's no point in trying to contact me now.


It's all over now, no use in stalling
Our relationship is finished, so there's no point in delaying the inevitable.


The love once I felt
I used to love you.


I don't feel anymore for you
But I don't have feelings for you anymore.


This time I'll even open the door for you
In fact, I will help you leave, by opening the door for you.


You walked out when I was down
When I was going through a tough time, you left me.


Well, now I'm well off
But now I am doing much better.


And look, look who's coming 'round
And now you are trying to come back into my life.


Where were you when I needed ya
So, where were you when I was in trouble and needed help?


You're looking good
I have to admit, you look good.


It's hard to fight it
It's difficult to resist your appearance.


There's no use explaining
But trying to justify yourself won't help matters.


I've already decided
I have already made up my mind.


That living with you
Living with you again


Is worse than without you
Would be worse than being alone.


I won't spend a lifetime a-worriying about you
I refuse to spend the rest of my life worrying about you.


Things get rough and you disappeared
You tend to run away when things get tough.


Now I'm back on my feet
But I have recovered from the problems that we had.


And look, look who is standing there
And now you are trying to come back into my life again.


You were so young and you were so wild
You were very young and free-spirited.


I knew you were nobody's innocent child
I knew that you were not a naive, innocent person.


The first day I saw you
When I first met you.


You really got to me
I was immediately attracted to you.


I thought I could change you
I once thought that I could change your wild ways.


What good did it to me?
But that did not work out well for me.


Things got rough and you couldn't wait
When things got difficult, you did not have the patience to stick around.


Now you're tripping back
But now you are trying to return to my life.


But babe, babe it's too late
But it's too late for us to be together.


Where were you when I needed ya
So, where were you when I was in trouble and needed help?


Where were you when I wanted ya
Where were you when I wanted to be with you?


Where were you when I needed ya
Where were you when I was in trouble and needed help?


Where?
Where were you?




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: P.F. Sloan, Steve Barri

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