You Never Know Who Your Friends Are
The Hooters Lyrics


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Beneath the skies of Disneyland
In the place where I grew up
I learned to think that the man I was
Was just not good enough
Funny how the road can lead
Away from all the ones you need
You never know who your friends are
I set out on my mission boat
To a place called anywhere
I offered my confession up
To a priest without a prayer

And as all hope was fadin'
I heard you calling from afar
You never know who your friends are

Sometimes you may find them
Like a wolf in sheep's disguise
Sometimes they're just hiding
Right before your very eyes

I thought that I was sinking but
I found myself afloat
And then I started thinkin', man
That's a whale that ain't no boat

And in the words of Jonah
Which now I holed in high regard
You never know who your friends are

Sometimes you may find them...
You can chase the far horizon
Trying to be someone you're not
You can spend your whole life
Searching for what you've already got

Funny how the road can lead
Back to all the ones you need
You never know who your friends are





You never know who your friends are

Overall Meaning

The Hooters’ song “You Never Know Who Your Friends Are” is a reflective piece that talks about the journey of self-discovery and the realization of true friends. The song begins with the singer referring to himself and acknowledging that he believed that he was not good enough. He reflects on his past and how growing up in Disneyland led him to think this way. The singer then reveals that life led him on a journey to find himself, and he ended up in a place called “Anywhere.”


Throughout the song, the singer talks about how he had a life-changing moment, and he realized that he didn’t need to be chasing something he wasn’t. For instance, when he struck out to find his identity, he made a confession to a priest without a prayer, signifying that he wasn’t looking for absolution or even a solution. During this time, he heard somebody calling to him, which gave him hope again. Later in the song, he reveals that he almost gave up, but because of a true friend (who he never expected), he overcame his challenges.


The song's central message is that friends can come from anywhere, even places that we least expect them. Sometimes our true friends are hidden in plain sight, indicating that we should not judge a book by its cover. Furthermore, the song highlights the importance of self-discovery and the realization that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Ultimately, the singer concludes by advising listeners that it's crucial to value their friends, as they never know who their actual friends are.


Line by Line Meaning

Beneath the skies of Disneyland
In my hometown, where everything seems magical and perfect.


In the place where I grew up
My childhood and adolescent years taught me to doubt my abilities.


I learned to think that the man I was was just not good enough
My self-esteem was low, and I had no faith in myself.


Funny how the road can lead away from all the ones you need
It's interesting how life can pull you away from those you depend on the most.


You never know who your friends are
You never know who will stand by your side in the midst of difficulties.


I set out on my mission boat to a place called anywhere
I embarked on a journey without a clear destination or plan.


I offered my confession up to a priest without a prayer
I shared my secrets and struggles with someone who couldn't help or understand me fully.


And as all hope was fadin' I heard you calling from afar
Just as I was losing hope, someone unexpected reached out and supported me.


Sometimes you may find them like a wolf in sheep's disguise
Some people pose as friends but are not sincere or trustworthy.


Sometimes they're just hiding right before your very eyes
Occasionally, people are loyal and supportive but don't always show it openly.


I thought that I was sinking but I found myself afloat
I had assumed that I had hit rock bottom, but someone helped me to stay afloat.


And then I started thinkin', man that's a whale that ain't no boat
I realized that I had underestimated who came to my aid; they were stronger and more helpful than I thought.


And in the words of Jonah which now I holed in high regard
I appreciate and respect the story of Jonah, who was helped by someone he least expected.


Sometimes you may find them...
Sometimes people who support and care for you come in strange and unexpected forms.


You can chase the far horizon trying to be someone you're not
Don't try to be anyone else; chasing a life that's not truly yours is not worth it.


You can spend your whole life searching for what you've already got
You might have something valuable already in your possession without even realizing it.


Funny how the road can lead back to all the ones you need
It's interesting how life can bring you back to the people who matter the most.


You never know who your friends are
People who stand by you through thick and thin are truly unpredictable.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ROB HYMAN, ERIC M BAZILIAN, RICK CHERTOFF

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