The Things We Did and Didn't Do
The Magnetic Fields Lyrics


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All the things I knew I didn't know and didn't want to know
That you told me just to tell me later that you'd told me so
Come flooding back to me now Come on Come flooding back to me now

All the things you said you'd never say and you said anyway
The things we did and didn't do The things we did and didn't do
Come flooding back to me now




Overall Meaning

In The Magnetic Fields' song "The Things We Did and Didn't Do," Stephin Merritt is reflecting on a past relationship and the lingering memories that continue to haunt him. The opening lines, "All the things I knew I didn't know and didn't want to know," indicate that he was aware of certain truths but chose to ignore them. However, his partner still felt the need to share these truths with him only to later use them as a means of saying "I told you so." This highlights the theme of regret and the feeling of being duped or misled in a relationship.


The chorus, "Come flooding back to me now," suggests that these memories are returning and overwhelming Merritt. He is unable to escape them and is facing the consequences of the decisions they made or didn't make as a couple. The line, "All the things you said you'd never say and you said anyway," is reflective of the destructive patterns many couples fall into despite their best intentions. The repetition of "The things we did and didn't do" further emphasizes the idea of missed opportunities or actions taken that cannot be undone.


Overall, "The Things We Did and Didn't Do" is a poignant reflection on a past relationship that is unable to be fully reconciled.


Line by Line Meaning

All the things I knew I didn't know and didn't want to know
The singer knew there were things they didn't want to know, but you told them anyways.


That you told me just to tell me later that you'd told me so
The singer was told something just so you could prove them wrong later.


Come flooding back to me now Come on Come flooding back to me now
All the things the singer didn't want to know are coming back to them.


All the things you said you'd never say and you said anyway
You said things that you promised not to say.


The things we did and didn't do The things we did and didn't do
The artist reflects on the actions they took and didn't take.


Come flooding back to me now
The singer is realizing the consequences of past actions.




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