I Built My House This Way
The Men Lyrics


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Playing like I made it
Wearing silk and gold
Drive me to the airport
Eating well, I'm told

A well achiever, true believer
To small-town cries of shame
My life astounds, the cynics frown
I took my wife, and I moved my life
And I built my house this way

Made some friends in little cubed office spaces
I had to keep up, that was the way
Sunday barbecues on fire with property values
Rising like smoke away

A strong competer, wife mistreater
Head in my hands today
I walked upon the knives of boredom
I bit too much off, the cake was so tough
I built my house this way
Oh, I built my house this way

Little dreams are little dreams
And little dreams mean everything

Walking bravado, parent of the new generation
Keep your kids cool, make them believe
That big cars, wet bars, and swimming pools just come along
With what you'd love to make me

My lust for life lives in a condo
The kids have moved away
I even cry at stupid commercials
And wipe the tears, remember the years
I built my house this way
Oh, I built my house this way

Little dreams are little dreams
And little dreams mean everything





I built my house this way
Oh, I built my house this way

Overall Meaning

The Men's song "I Built My House This Way" is a reflection on the pursuit of the American Dream and the consequences of that pursuit. The song opens with the lyrics "Playing like I made it, wearing silk and gold, drive me to the airport, eating well, I'm told" which sets the tone for the rest of the song. The singer is someone who has achieved success, but at what cost? He's living in a world of materialism and status symbols, but he's also aware that he's being judged by people who haven't achieved the same level of success.


The following verse talks about the sacrifices he's made to achieve this success. He's made friends in "little cubed office spaces" and he's keeping up with the Joneses. But the cost of that success has been high. He's become a strong competitor and a wife mistreater, always putting his career first. And now he's realizing that he's built his life around work and status symbols and he's not sure if it's all been worth it.


As the song progresses, the singer reflects on how his desire for material possessions has overshadowed what really matters in life. The song ends with the lyrics "Little dreams are little dreams, and little dreams mean everything. I built my house this way." The singer has come to the realization that his pursuit of the American Dream has come at a cost, and that the small things in life are really the most important.


Overall, "I Built My House This Way" is a powerful commentary on the American Dream and the sacrifices people make to achieve it. The lyrics are poignant and the melody is soulful. It's a song that will resonate with anyone who has ever questioned the true cost of success.


Line by Line Meaning

Playing like I made it
Confidently presenting myself as a success, even if I am not yet


Wearing silk and gold
Dressing extravagantly to showcase my success and wealth


Drive me to the airport
Having others do the mundane tasks for me as I am too important for that


Eating well, I'm told
Indulging in luxurious foods and meals that contribute to my lifestyle


A well achiever, true believer
A person who has accomplished many things and believes in their own abilities


To small-town cries of shame
Despite coming from a small town where success is not common, I have achieved it


My life astounds, the cynics frown
Many people are amazed by my success, but some do not believe in my accomplishments


I took my wife, and I moved my life
I left my hometown and moved with my wife to start a new life based on success


And I built my house this way
I created a lifestyle based on the achievements and successes that I have made


Made some friends in little cubed office spaces
I have made friends in the corporate world, where everyone is striving to be successful


I had to keep up, that was the way
I felt the need to keep up with my peers in the corporate world to maintain my image


Sunday barbecues on fire with property values
Hosting lavish events at my home that showcase my wealth and success


Rising like smoke away
My property values, much like smoke, are on the rise and fleeting


A strong competer, wife mistreater
I am a fierce competitor, but in the process, I may have been ignoring my wife


Head in my hands today
I am feeling overwhelmed and stressed, thinking about the future


I walked upon the knives of boredom
I have become restless and bored with my luxurious lifestyle


I bit too much off, the cake was so tough
I may have overextended myself and taken on more than I can handle


Oh, I built my house this way
I have built my lifestyle and success in a certain way and cannot go back now


Walking bravado, parent of the new generation
I have become a symbol of confidence and success for the younger generation


Keep your kids cool, make them believe
I advise others to stay calm and confident, even if they are not yet successful


That big cars, wet bars, and swimming pools just come along
I suggest that success and wealth will naturally follow if one follows my example


With what you'd love to make me
Others aspire to be like me and follow in my footsteps to become successful


My lust for life lives in a condo
My life is confined and limited despite my success and wealth


The kids have moved away
My children have grown up and moved out, leaving me feeling alone


I even cry at stupid commercials
My emotions are heightened and I am more sensitive than I used to be


And wipe the tears, remember the years
Despite these emotions, I still cherish the memories of my success and lifestyle


Oh, I built my house this way
I cannot change the way I have built my success and lifestyle


Little dreams are little dreams
Small aspirations may seem insignificant, but they can mean everything


And little dreams mean everything
Small successes and achievements can be just as important as big ones




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