A Message to Myself
The Night Café Lyrics


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All I ever
Wanted was enough
It takes time
Through all the nights
Spent alone

Take care
Take care
Am I losing again?
Take care
Take care
Am I losing in this?
You wish

All I ever needed
Was your love
It takes time but the
Wrong kind
It′s enough

Take care
Take care
Am I losing again?
Take care
Take care




Am I losing in this?
You wish

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Night Cafe's song "A Message to Myself" explore themes of longing, self-doubt, and the desire for love. The first verse begins with the singer expressing the simple desire for enough, indicating a sense of lacking or dissatisfaction in their life. They acknowledge that it takes time to achieve what they want, possibly referencing the struggles and difficulties they have faced along the way. The nights spent alone suggest feelings of loneliness and isolation, further emphasizing the need for something more.


The chorus reflects the singer's inner turmoil. The repeated phrase "Take care" can be seen as both a self-reminder to look after oneself and a plea for others to treat them kindly. The line "Am I losing again?" implies a fear of failure or disappointment, indicating a lack of confidence or insecurity. The repetition of the chorus and the line "You wish" could be interpreted as a response to someone who may doubt or underestimate the singer's abilities or desires.


The second verse shifts the focus to the desire for love. The singer acknowledges that love is a need they've always had, but they also recognize that finding the right kind of love takes time. This might suggest past experiences of unfulfilling or toxic relationships, where the wrong kind of love was given. Despite this, the singer still believes that this love is enough for them, indicating a sense of hope and resilience.


Overall, "A Message to Myself" conveys a sentiment of self-reflection, longing for fulfillment, and the struggle against self-doubt. It encourages self-care, perseverance, and the pursuit of healthy love and relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

All I ever wanted was enough
I have always desired to have sufficient resources or contentment in life


It takes time
Achieving what I wanted requires patience and perseverance


Through all the nights spent alone
During the moments of loneliness and solitude


Take care
Be cautious and look after yourself


Am I losing again?
Am I experiencing defeat or failure once more?


You wish
You desire or hope for something that may not be possible


All I ever needed was your love
The only thing I truly required was your affection and support


It takes time but the wrong kind
Although it requires time, the love I received was not the right kind


It's enough
Having that inadequate love is sufficient, but not ideal


Am I losing in this?
Am I playing the losing role in this situation?


You wish
Your desire or hope for a specific outcome




Writer(s): Arran O'connel-whittle, Carl Dillon, Sean Martin, Joshua Higgins

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