Modern Swinger
The Pink Spiders Lyrics


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She's out of luck
And out of hope
And out of cigarettes
Misunderstood, with naked pictures on the internet
Her social deviance is teasing me
I know what I want

And I'm really gonna, really let her know (woah)
That I like her, but I just don't care enough
To fool around with love

Yeah, my baby's pretty as a car crash
Sexy as the stinger of a hornet in your arm
Just another modern swinger
Screaming catch me if you can
With a cigarette in hand
And it''s love
It's heavy and it hurts and it's love

Strung out on blow
She doesn't know why she's not feeling good
Dropped out of school
And now she's moving out to Hollywood
Her reckless decadence
Is taking things a little too far

And I'm really gonna, really let her know (woah)
That I like her, but I just don't care enough
To fool around with love

Yeah, my baby's pretty as a car crash, subtle as a splinter
Yeah, my baby's smooth as sandpaper, warm just like the winter
Screaming catch me if you can
With a cigarette in hand
And it''s love
It's heavy and it hurts and it's love

Staring at my shoes, thinking of something to say
But nothing's better than what silence is saying
When every time I turn around, she's always looking away
It's just the nature of the game that we're playing

And I think I''m tapping out
I think I''m gonna skip the title bout

Yeah, my baby's pretty as a car crash
Sexy as the stinger of a hornet in your arm
Just another modern swinger
Screaming catch me if you can
With a cigarette in hand
And it''s love
It's heavy and it hurts and it's love

Yeah, my baby's pretty as a car crash, subtle as a splinter
Yeah, my baby's smooth as sandpaper, warm just like the winter
Screaming catch me if you can
With a cigarette in hand
And it''s love
It's heavy and it hurts

And she's pretty as a car crash
Sexy as the stinger of a hornet in your arm
Just another modern swinger
Screaming catch me if you can
With a cigarette in hand




And it''s love
It's heavy and it hurts and it's love

Overall Meaning

The Pink Spiders' song Modern Swinger is a fast-paced, upbeat track that tells the story of a young woman who is "out of luck" and "out of hope." She is misunderstood, with naked pictures on the internet, and her "social deviance is teasing me." The singer knows what he wants, but he's not interested in fooling around with love. He describes his "baby" as "pretty as a car crash" and "sexy as the stinger of a hornet in your arm," but also has a sense of reckless decadence that may be taking things a little too far.


Throughout the song, the singer is torn between his desire for this woman and the realization that getting involved with her may not be worth the potential heartache. He spends much of the song trying to figure out what to say to her, but ultimately concludes that he's "tapping out" and wants to "skip the title bout." The song ends with the repetition of the phrase "it's heavy and it hurts and it's love," emphasizing the complicated nature of romantic relationships.


The lyrics to Modern Swinger are both catchy and provocative, drawing listeners in with their fast-paced rhythm and clever use of wordplay. However, the song also touches on some serious issues, including the objectification of women and the dangers of social media.


Line by Line Meaning

She's out of luck
She's having bad luck


And out of hope
She's feeling hopeless


And out of cigarettes
She's run out of cigarettes


Misunderstood, with naked pictures on the internet
She's being misunderstood by others and her naked pictures are circulating the internet


Her social deviance is teasing me
Her nonconformity is attracting my attention


I know what I want
I'm clear about what I desire


And I'm really gonna, really let her know (woah)
I'm determined to confess my attraction to her


That I like her, but I just don't care enough
I have feelings for her but not enough to commit to a serious relationship


To fool around with love
I don't want to mess with love and its complications


Yeah, my baby's pretty as a car crash
My girl is strikingly attractive


Sexy as the stinger of a hornet in your arm
She's alluring and dangerous


Just another modern swinger
She's a typical player in today's dating world


Screaming catch me if you can
She's challenging me to chase her


With a cigarette in hand
She's smoking a cigarette


And it's love
She and I have a strong romantic attraction


It's heavy and it hurts and it's love
Our love feels intense and painful


Strung out on blow
She's addicted to cocaine


She doesn't know why she's not feeling good
She's feeling unwell without knowing the reason


Dropped out of school
She quit school


And now she's moving out to Hollywood
She's relocating to pursue a career in the entertainment industry


Her reckless decadence
Her wild and hedonistic lifestyle


Is taking things a little too far
She's pushing the limits too much


Staring at my shoes, thinking of something to say
I'm feeling awkward and struggling to find the right words


But nothing's better than what silence is saying
Sometimes silence speaks louder than words


When every time I turn around, she's always looking away
She avoids eye contact with me


It's just the nature of the game that we're playing
This is how things go in our relationship dynamic


And I think I'm tapping out
I feel like giving up in this situation


I think I'm gonna skip the title bout
I'm deciding to avoid any conflicts or competition


Yeah, my baby's pretty as a car crash, subtle as a splinter
My girl is stunningly beautiful yet has a subtle intensity


Yeah, my baby's smooth as sandpaper, warm just like the winter
She's both rough and gentle, comforting and challenging


And she's pretty as a car crash
She's still breathtakingly gorgeous




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@dylans906

10th grade bumpin this on my mp3 player smoking cigerettes. Oh the glory days

@sleetskate

isnt that a little young to be smoking?

@pine_tree5559

​@@sleetskateFor some people it is to each their own tho

@sleetskate

@@pine_tree5559ironically enough i started smoking since i made that last comment lol

@pine_tree5559

@@sleetskate damn💀💀

@sleetskate

@@pine_tree5559 yeah well it helps pull girls, women love a guy who smokess

@scoschu5336

It's seriously a shame these guys didn't get as big as they deserved to be. This song is full of lyrical genius "ness".

@robertmaybeth3434

maybe because they never made their own "NEVERMIND" album, since it seems to me, once you do one really good album they just coast on whatever-kind of songs for the next 4 or 5, like Foo fighters -

@andersonzega5464

The foo fighters are still coasting off nevermind lol. Also, In Utero was a great album, come on

@ryanmccauley1925

I agree with you but I really think that this entire album had a blast of lyrical lines unlike what I previously had heard of at the time (granted I was 18-19 at college at the time when this record was released.)

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