Remember Me
The Rascals Lyrics


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Remember me, I’m the one that taught you how to laugh
When all your friends just up’d and walked away
It seems by now you’ve gone and torn that memory in half
And now I see the kind of games you play.

Don’t think twice at what you say and who you may offend
I know you’re not the kind to concentrate
On saying something nice to me if only just pretend
You’d rather use your mouth to aggravate.

You get your satisfaction out of hurting me
I know you’d love to see me crawl
But if I get the nerve, I’m gonna split on you
Then you won’t even get to me at all.

If I’m ever in a bind and need a helping hand
I know that I can always count you out




If friends are who you turn to when nobody gives a damn
Then friends like you I’d rather do without.

Overall Meaning

The Rascals' "Remember Me" is a song about a relationship gone sour. The singer, who is likely addressing a former friend or romantic partner, notes that they were the one who taught the addressee how to laugh when their other friends walked away. However, the addressee has apparently torn that memory in half, behaving in a hurtful and vindictive manner. The singer notes that the addressee is not one to think twice about what they say or who they may offend, and that they seem to enjoy hurting the singer.


The singer expresses a desire to sever ties with the addressee, noting that if they get the nerve to do so, the addressee won't even get the satisfaction of seeing the singer crawl. The singer also notes that if they were ever in need of a helping hand, they wouldn't be able to count on the addressee, as they seem like the kind of person who would abandon their friends when it's convenient. Ultimately, "Remember Me" is a poignant song about the pain of losing a friend or lover to callousness and cruelty.


Line by Line Meaning

Remember me, I’m the one that taught you how to laugh
I want you to remember that I was there to teach you how to find joy and happiness.


When all your friends just up’d and walked away
I was the one who stuck around when everyone else abandoned you.


It seems by now you’ve gone and torn that memory in half
It appears that you have forgotten our past experiences together and have disregarded them completely.


And now I see the kind of games you play.
I am now aware of the manipulative and hurtful tactics you use to control people.


Don’t think twice at what you say and who you may offend
You don't care about the consequences of your words and actions, and how they may hurt others.


I know you’re not the kind to concentrate
I am aware that you lack the ability to focus on anything but your own selfish desires and impulses.


On saying something nice to me if only just pretend
Even if it's just for show, you can't bring yourself to say something kind to me.


You’d rather use your mouth to aggravate.
You find pleasure in upsetting and annoying others with your words.


You get your satisfaction out of hurting me
You feel satisfied when you cause me pain and discomfort.


I know you’d love to see me crawl
You have a desire to see me in a vulnerable and helpless state.


But if I get the nerve, I’m gonna split on you
If I find the courage, I will leave you and our toxic relationship behind.


Then you won’t even get to me at all.
By cutting ties with you, I will no longer be accessible to your manipulative behavior.


If I’m ever in a bind and need a helping hand
If I find myself in a difficult situation and need assistance,


I know that I can always count you out
I know that you will not be there to provide support or assistance.


If friends are who you turn to when nobody gives a damn
If you rely on friends only when no one else cares about you,


Then friends like you I’d rather do without.
I would prefer to not have friends like you in my life.




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