Pay Us No Mind
The Staves Lyrics


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Easy come, easy go
Tell me things I want to know
Drink until your lips are black
You′ve given things you'll never get back
Oh, you silly thing

Cold sheets of linen
Doomed from the beginning
Do what you will
Leave the worry to the women
That′s our game to play

But, oh
We will say anything
Pay us no mind (ooh)
Ooh
Ah
Ah
Ah
Oh, oh
Ah
Ah
Ah
Oh, oh

You were right and I was wrong
To tarry here for far too long
Pick me up
Wish me luck
Fare thee well, I don't give a fuck anymore

But, oh
You could say anything
And I wouldn't mind (ooh)
Ooh
Ah
Ah
Ah
Oh, oh
Ah
Ah
Ah
Oh, oh
Oh
Ah
Ooh

Think of me, sweet Anthony, in private disarray
I never needed sympathy, I only want to say
That I′m not afraid to shout, I′m not afraid to tell
And we're ready now to give them all hell
And you always said it′s every man for himself

But, oh
We will say anything
Pay us no mind (ooh)
Ooh
Ah
Ah
Ah
Oh, oh
Ah
Ah
Ah
Oh, oh
Ah
Ah
Ah
Oh, oh
Ah
Ah
Ah




Oh, oh
Ooh

Overall Meaning

The Staves's song Pay Us No Mind is a hauntingly beautiful piece that speaks about the pain and frustration of constantly being ignored and dismissed. The opening lines, "Easy come, easy go, Tell me things I want to know, Drink until your lips are black, You’ve given things you'll never get back, Oh, you silly thing" suggest a sense of recklessness and a desire for escape. The next verse speaks about the inevitability of failure ("Cold sheets of linen, Doomed from the beginning") and the futility of worrying about it ("Leave the worry to the women, That's our game to play"). The chorus, "But, oh, We will say anything, Pay us no mind" suggests that despite the apparent apathy and resignation, there is a strong desire to be heard and acknowledged.


The second verse describes the regret of staying in a situation for too long ("You were right and I was wrong, To tarry here for far too long") and the desire to move on ("Pick me up, Wish me luck, Fare thee well, I don't give a fuck anymore"). The third verse speaks about the need to voice one's opinions and stand up for oneself ("Think of me, sweet Anthony, in private disarray, I never needed sympathy, I only want to say, That I'm not afraid to shout, I'm not afraid to tell, And we're ready now to give them all hell") and the idea that ultimately, the only person one can rely on is oneself ("And you always said it's every man for himself").


The repeated chorus, "But, oh, We will say anything, Pay us no mind" reinforces the sense of intense desire to be heard, to be noticed, and to be taken seriously.


Line by Line Meaning

Easy come, easy go
Things that you don't work hard for can be lost easily without much regret.


Tell me things I want to know
I want to hear what I like to hear, not necessarily what's true.


Drink until your lips are black
Keep drinking alcohol until you're completely numb and lose control.


You’ve given things you'll never get back
You've lost something valuable or precious, and there is no way of getting it back.


Oh, you silly thing
Referring to someone who has made a foolish or naive decision.


Cold sheets of linen
Referring to a bed that has been left cold and untouched, no love or warmth.


Doomed from the beginning
This relationship has no future or hope from the very start.


Do what you will
Do whatever you want, I don't care anymore and I won't stop you.


Leave the worry to the women
Women are expected to handle or worry about things that men don't want to deal with.


That's our game to play
It's a common role that society often shapes us into, the women worrying about the smallest things while men escape.


But, oh
Introducing a new idea or thought to the conversation.


We will say anything
We will not hold back, and we are not afraid to speak our minds.


Pay us no mind
Ignore us, and don't listen to what we say.


You were right and I was wrong
I admit that I made a mistake, and you were correct in your judgement.


To tarry here for far too long
I should have left this place or situation earlier, and not stayed for such a long time.


Pick me up
Help me, support me, or give me a hand.


Wish me luck
I hope for good luck and blessings in the future ahead.


Fare thee well, I don't give a fuck anymore
Goodbye, I don't care anymore, and I'm leaving without looking back.


And I wouldn't mind
I won't take any offense, even if you say something hurtful or unpleasant.


Think of me, sweet Anthony, in private disarray
Reflect on my state of confusion or disorder, but keep it to yourself, Anthony.


I never needed sympathy, I only want to say
I don't want others to feel bad for me, I just need to speak my mind.


That I'm not afraid to shout, I'm not afraid to tell
I'm not scared to speak up and make my voice heard.


And we're ready now to give them all hell
We're prepared to stand up for ourselves and unleash our full force.


And you always said it's every man for himself
You always believed that everyone looks out for themselves first before helping others.


Ah
A filler word with no specific meaning, usually used to express emotion or emphasis.


Oh, oh
A sound of surprise, excitement, or impatience.


Ooh
A sound of appreciation and enjoyment, usually in response to something pleasing.




Writer(s): Camilla Staveley-taylor, Emily Staveley-taylor, Jessica Staveley-taylor

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@PlantsNepal

Easy come, easy go
Tell me things I want to know
Drink until your lips are black
You’ve given things you’ll never get back
Oh you silly thing

Cold sheets of linen
Doomed from the beginning
Do what you will
Leave the worry to the women;
That’s our game to play

But, oh, we will say anything -
Pay us no mind

You were right and I was wrong
To tarry here for far too long
Pick me up, wish me luck
Fare thee well, I don’t give a fuck anymore

But, oh, you could say anything
And I wouldn’t mind

Think of me, sweet Anthony, in private disarray
I never needed sympathy, I only want to say
That I’m not afraid to shout, I’m not afraid to tell
And we’re ready now to give them all hell
And you always said it’s every man for himself



All comments from YouTube:

@didoma73

This song perfectly captures Emily's soulful vocal range...which often times goes unnoticed

@Dannyistravelling

"I don't give a fuck anymore". Best line! Well said, Emily.
Cheers from Brazil

@RowynMottershead

this is the greatest passive-aggressive feminist ballad of all time

@jamievidd775

Em is so good. ❤️
Love the Staves. So brilliant. 🙏🙏🙏

@indiegoo

She has such a blues lovely voice!. I love you girls... your music it's just awesome!

@jessicahsato

Emily should sing more often! <3

@margarethaley2633

Yes she should!

@audiochris78

That part from 2:30 to 3:25 is so ridiculously beautiful...

@Bear-im3cf

I love hearing Emily.

@pauldavies8571

Just outstanding. You girls could be the new Mumford. Such depth resonance to your song structures. Absolutely lovely.

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