Modern Girls & Old Fashioned Men
The Strokes Lyrics


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You were (You were)

Modern girls always have to go (right on time)
Old-fashioned men always want a mistress (you were right)
Modern girls always get their way (I was wrong)
Modern men dream of what they can't say (That's alright)
Right - right, right, right, right
I don't belong (I don't belong)

Why you gotta say it if you know it's something wrong? (Why you sittin' over there?)
Says that he'll apologize and it won't take too long
Well you don't wanna trust nobody else (Always thinking 'bout yourself)

(Time)
There's a few things that are gonna have to change
(On your side)
Everyone has the same opinion
(Won't you please?)
Your time is almost over
(Don't be mean)
We won't get the chance to do this over (That's alright)
Right - right, right, right, right
I don't belong (I don't belong)

I don't want the imprint of your key upon my nose (Why you sittin' over there?)
You don't have to tell no one 'cause no one wants to know
That you don't have no happiness at all (Always thinking 'bout yourself)

Shhh....

Oh yes we're falling down (Oh yes we're falling down)
Oh yes we're falling down (Oh yes we're falling down)
Oh yes we're falling down (Oh yes we're falling down)
yes we're falling down (Oh yes we're falling down)

Oh yes we're falling down (Oh yes we're falling down)
Oh yes we're falling down (Oh yes we're falling down)
Oh yes we're falling down (Oh yes we're falling down)
So fucking help me up (So fucking help me up)

Always thinking 'bout yourself (You don't love me)
Always thinking 'bout yourself (I am an animal)
Always thinking 'bout yourself (I am not practical)





Was, I…? (Was, I…?)

Overall Meaning

"Modern Girls And Old Fashion Men" by The Strokes is a song that expresses the differences between modern relationships and those from the past, highlighting how the image of the modern girl and the old-fashioned man, always wanting a mistress, contrasts with the modern men dreaming of what they can't say. The song has an interesting structure that allows for both a frontman and a backup singer, representing different perspectives on the topic. The song essentially talks about the struggles and battles in a destructive relationship with a partner that only thinks of themselves. The repeated line, "I don't belong," echoes the feelings of detachment, confusion, and isolation in the relationship because of the fundamental differences between them.


The chorus also makes a statement about holding onto the past, even if it means losing sight of one's self in the present. The lyrics suggest that we have to embrace change and not look back because time is running out, and we won't get another chance. The song ends on a more upbeat note with the repeated lines, "Oh yes, we're falling down, so f***ing help me up," implying that hope and salvation can still be found if someone is willing to reach out.


Overall, "Modern Girls And Old Fashion Men" palpably conveys how challenging it can be to navigate a relationship when partners have different values, aspirations, and backgrounds. The song explores the tension and conflict between modernity and tradition, individual and collective, and highlights that we can't always get what we want. Ultimately, the song implies that relationships are complex and require constant effort, compromise, and understanding.


Line by Line Meaning

You were
Addressing the subject of the song, an old-fashioned man.


Modern girls always have to go (right on time)
Modern women are always busy and punctual.


Old-fashioned men always want a mistress (you were right)
Old-fashioned men desire a romantic and sexual relationship aside from their primary partner.


Modern girls always get their way (I was wrong)
Modern women tend to be assertive and have things done according to their preference.


Modern men dream of what they can't say (That's alright)
Modern men have desires they cannot speak of but they are okay with it.


Right - right, right, right, right
Sarcastically agreeing with what has been said.


I don't belong (I don't belong)
Feeling out of place.


Why you gotta say it if you know it's something wrong? (Why you sittin' over there?)
Asking a question about why a person says something they know is inappropriate, with a hint of annoyance.


Says that he'll apologize and it won't take too long
An old-fashioned man who has committed a mistake promises to say sorry but will do so later.


Well you don't wanna trust nobody else (Always thinking 'bout yourself)
Being self-centered and not willing to rely on anyone else for help.


(Time)
A pause in the song with no actual meaning.


There's a few things that are gonna have to change
Something needs to be altered or adjusted.


(On your side)
Another pause in the song, not related to anything else.


Everyone has the same opinion
Everyone shares the same viewpoint on the subject matter.


(Won't you please?)
Pause in music without context.


Your time is almost over
A warning that an opportunity is almost gone, and there may not be another chance for it.


(Don't be mean)
Pause in music without context.


We won't get the chance to do this over (That's alright)
Acknowledging that there's no opportunity to do things again and being okay with it.


I don't want the imprint of your key upon my nose (Why you sittin' over there?)
Rejecting the idea of a person getting too close or being possessive, with annoyance expressed again.


You don't have to tell no-one 'cause no-one wants to know
No one is interested in the romantic and personal life of the subject.


That you don't have no happiness at all (Always thinking 'bout yourself)
Being unhappy due to a self-centered attitude.


Shhh....
Shushing or making a tone of silence.


Oh yes we're falling down (Oh yes we're falling down)
Repeating the phrase in a chorus, which may imply a feeling of failure or downfall.


So fucking help me up (So fucking help me up)
Asking for help or assistance to stand up again.


Always thinking 'bout yourself (You don't love me)
The song concludes with a final line that restates the subject's self-centeredness while adding a romantic element to it.


Always thinking 'bout yourself (I am an animal)
A statement describing the subject as an animal that is always prioritizing their needs and desires.


Always thinking 'bout yourself (I am not practical)
Describing an impractical and unreasonable nature of the subject is again reiterated by repeating the chorused phrases.


Was, I...?
An unfinished thought and the end of the song.




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@sarahrayanne8247

You were (right)
Modern girls always have to go (right on time.)
Old-fashion men always want a mistress (you were right)
Modern girls always get their way (I was wrong.)
Modern men dream of what they can't say (that's alright)
That's alright (I don't belong)
I don't belong


(Why you sitting over there?) why you gotta say it if you know it's sounding wrong
Says that he'll apologize and it won't take too long
(Always thinking about yourself) you don't wanna trust nobody else


(Time)
There's a few things that are gonna have to change (I'm your son)
Everyone has the same opinion (won't you please)
Your time is almost over (don't be mean)
We won't get the chance to do this over (that's alright) alright
(I don't belong) I don't belong


(Why you sitting over there?) I don't want the imprint of your key upon my nose
We don't have to tell no one, cuz no one wants to know
(Always thinking about yourself) you don't have no hapiness at home


Oh yes, we're falling down (oh yes, we're falling down)
Oh yes, we're falling down (oh yes, we're falling down)
Oh yes, we're falling down (oh yes, we're falling down)
Yes, we're falling down (oh yes, we're falling down)


Oh yes, we're falling down (oh yes we're falling down)
Oh yes, we're falling down (oh yes we're falling down)
Oh yes, we're falling down (oh yes we're falling down)
So fuck and help me up (so fuck and help me up)


(You don't love me) always thinking about yourself
(I am an animal) always thinking about yourself
(I'm not practical) always thinking about yourself


Was I?
Was I?



All comments from YouTube:

@hegdepuffin

Why isn't this a more known strokes song? It's amazing.

@nickzzzinger

b-side bruthuh

@destroucs5446

Because people sucks

@MrShahid0072

@Noize he did..

@ToonsCraft1

They should've uploaded b-sides onto Spotify. There are so many gems there.

@HDJoltTV

You know why..... (it wasn't on an album)

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@mayaceleste842

Holy crap. I have loved Regina Spektor for basically forever, and I have loved The Strokes for almost 2 years, and this song just combined perfection with perfection.

@TheCajunhotsauce

This is rock perfection. I remember the first time I heard Automatic Stop, and I thought "Wow! This band can do so many things well!" STILL being surprised by Room on Fire-era.

@laptophp375

This band is how rock should have been

@cayleighhughesss3267

There needs to be more duets between them. It's just so perfect. I can't stop listening to this gem.

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