Advice for Young Mothers to Be
The Veils Lyrics


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She found the world embedded in the snow
It's too bad the rest have made it all their own
there's got to be a better way somehow but I don't know
Wish I could find the words and heal my baby

She made a crib with blankets for the floor
Painted the bluest colour on the walls
I don't want to know the time I don't care about that at all
Nobody knows the way to heaven baby

No, this can't go on
Your advice for young mothers to be
We'll never find the words, darling believe me

So here it is your heart's out in the cold
The friends who care still call you on the phone
The vicar said it's wrong but hey what does he know
He said its wrong but that the Lord forgave me

Well I don't want his pity and your scorn
Boy why you preaching no one's listening anymore
That old live of yours sickens me
Directed I'm on an eternal call
No man alive has earned the right to save me

No, this can't go on
Your advice for young mothers to be
We'll never find the words, darling believe me

No, this can't go on
Your advice for young mothers to be
We'll never find the words, darling believe me

Now here I am, I'm pushing 24
I've got a house and a little terrace on the lawn
My baby's grown and I'm as happy as a fawn
Now only the beauty of the world delays me

No, this can't go on
Your advice for young mothers to be
We'll never find the words, darling believe me

No, this crown of thorns




Your advice for young mothers to be
We'll never find the words, darling believe me

Overall Meaning

The Veils' song "Advice for Young Mothers to Be" is a hauntingly beautiful piece with a narrative that dives deep into the psyche of a young mother. The lyrics seem to revolve around the struggles of a young mother, as she battles societal expectations, religious beliefs, and the sheer weight of motherhood. Although there is a sense of hopelessness that permeates the lyrics, there is also an underlying optimism as the story progresses. The song's strongest message is that, no matter how difficult things may seem, it is possible to find happiness and peace.


The opening lyrics, "She found the world embedded in the snow, it's too bad the rest have made it all their own," suggest that the mother feels isolated and alone. The next line, "there's got to be a better way somehow but I don't know," conveys a sense of despair and hopelessness. However, as the song progresses, there is a shift in the mother's perspective. By the end, she has found happiness and is content with her life.


The song's narrative conveys a range of complex themes, such as the societal pressure placed on women to have children, the challenges of motherhood, and the struggles of single parenthood. The lyrics are rich with imagery, and the instrumentation complements the themes perfectly. The acoustic guitar is the main instrument throughout the song, but there is a melancholic edge to it, which complements the mood of the lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

She found the world embedded in the snow
She discovered the beauty in the world during a difficult time.


It's too bad the rest have made it all their own
Sadly, other people have taken ownership of the world and its beauty for themselves.


There's got to be a better way somehow but I don't know
She believes there must be a solution to the problems of the world, but she isn't sure what it is.


Wish I could find the words and heal my baby
She wishes she had the ability to make everything better for her child.


She made a crib with blankets for the floor
She improvised and created a comfortable space for her child.


Painted the bluest colour on the walls
She decorated the room with a calming and soothing color for her child.


I don't want to know the time I don't care about that at all
Keeping track of time is not important to her, as her only concern is her child's well-being.


Nobody knows the way to heaven baby
She believes that no one knows the true path to happiness and contentment.


No, this can't go on Your advice for young mothers to be We'll never find the words, darling believe me
She is unable to continue living the way things are, and people's advice for young mothers won't help her find a solution.


So here it is your heart's out in the cold The friends who care still call you on the phone The vicar said it's wrong but hey what does he know He said its wrong but that the Lord forgave me
Despite feeling alone and abandoned, her true friends still care about her, while the religious figure thinks her choices are wrong but chooses to forgive her anyway.


Well I don't want his pity and your scorn Boy why you preaching no one's listening anymore That old live of yours sickens me Directed I'm on an eternal call No man alive has earned the right to save me
She rejects the judgment of the religious figure and the criticism of others. She doesn't believe that anyone has the right to judge or save her.


Now here I am, I'm pushing 24 I've got a house and a little terrace on the lawn My baby's grown and I'm as happy as a fawn Now only the beauty of the world delays me
Years later, she reflects on her life as a mother and feels content and happy. She is enjoying the beauty of life.


No, this crown of thorns Your advice for young mothers to be We'll never find the words, darling believe me
She believes that motherhood is often difficult, and no one has the perfect solution or advice to offer.




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Comments from YouTube:

@matthewttrolfe786

Love this video one of the baby's is my son who now is 15 children grow up fast great memories

@patrickroberts9080

my daughter is in it too she is now 18 !!!!

@emfacemcguills

do people not think this is the most hilarious video ever?? there are like 25 babies just randomly strewn across the floor and all of the band members looks so confused about it! Priceless.

@JustXavierB

This is damn funny, 1st time seeing it... Had this song on my play list for over 15 years I'm sure

@Sneeuwuiltje

I love the music from the Veils. My friend dubbed the singer "noodle-leg" after watching this video though, makes me giggle every time I see his leg wiggle.

@discombobulated46

The drummer looks so terrified x) I love this song :D

@kingate10

this is my favorite song of 2006. an innovated video for a innovated grupo "the veils". I admire the great man in vocal Andrew.i afford you and continue to be like one you know... great staly to song man¡...David.

@Ava-20.1.18

Still in love with this song 🧡

@onewink

Until now, the only Veils I had heard was the Leaver's Dance and I love it. This is great too. Pretty versatile band : )

@ericn1450

A couple of times the band members look a little worried about the babies but in actuality kids that age are pretty durable. They probably fall over about 50 times a day as it is. The crying often times has more to do with the parents reaction. Cute video and a cool song.

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