Swingers
The Wedding Present Lyrics


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Honey, really, there's no need for you to pout
Because you know precisely what I'm talking about
All those meaningful sly glances and that long embrace
You had 'come and get it' written all over your face

I'm not exaggerating; I saw it happening

You don't have to flirt with everyone just because you can
You're like Brigitte Bardot in 'And God Created Woman'

You know exactly what I mean; your behavior borders on the obscene

But you were still my girlfriend
My one and only until the end
The last time that I checked

Or, are you telling me, in your own way,
Is this how you say that you're desperate to be single again?
Well, yeah, but 'til then…

You were still my girlfriend
My one and only until the end
The last time that I checked

You were still my girlfriend




And I just can't comprehend
Is self-control too much to expect?

Overall Meaning

In The Wedding Present's song "Swingers," the lyrics describe a relationship in which one person is accusing the other of flirting excessively and behaving inappropriately. The opening lines address the issue head-on, with the singer telling his partner that there's no need for her to pout because she knows exactly what he's referring to. He notes the "meaningful sly glances" and "long embrace" that suggest she's interested in someone else. He even goes so far as to say that she had "come and get it" written all over her face. The singer insists that he's not exaggerating; he's simply stating what he's observed.


The chorus of the song emphasizes the fact that despite his partner's behavior, she's still his girlfriend. He contrasts her behavior with that of Brigitte Bardot in the 1956 movie "And God Created Woman," suggesting that she's similarly provocative and flirtatious. He accuses her of crossing the line into being "obscene," but nonetheless insists that she's his "one and only until the end." However, he acknowledges that perhaps she's trying to break up with him through her behavior, and wonders if self-control on her part is too much to expect.


Overall, "Swingers" is a song about jealousy, suspicion, and the challenges of maintaining a romantic relationship when one partner is behaving in ways that suggest they're interested in someone else. The singer is clearly frustrated and unsure of what to do, but still hopeful that the relationship can survive.


Line by Line Meaning

Honey, really, there's no need for you to pout
You don't need to be sad or upset


Because you know precisely what I'm talking about
You are fully aware of the situation I'm referring to


All those meaningful sly glances and that long embrace
The way you looked at and hugged the other person was very suggestive and intentional


You had 'come and get it' written all over your face
Your facial expressions made it clear that you were interested in the other person in a romantic way


I'm not exaggerating; I saw it happening
I'm not making this up, I actually witnessed it


You don't have to flirt with everyone just because you can
You shouldn't indulge in flirting with others just because you have the ability to do so


You're like Brigitte Bardot in 'And God Created Woman'
You have a similar seductive and irresistible charm as the character played by Bardot in the movie


You know exactly what I mean; your behavior borders on the obscene
You are fully aware of how you are acting and it is crossing a line into being inappropriate


But you were still my girlfriend
Despite everything, you were still officially together with me


My one and only until the end
You were the only person I truly loved and intended to spend my life with


Or, are you telling me, in your own way,
Perhaps you are trying to communicate to me in a subtle manner


Is this how you say that you're desperate to be single again?
Are you subtly indicating that you want to break up and be single again?


Well, yeah, but 'til then…
Yes, that is true, but until we actually break up…


You were still my girlfriend
You were still officially together with me


And I just can't comprehend
I can't understand or process what you are doing


Is self-control too much to expect?
Is it unreasonable to expect you to exercise some self-control in your actions and behavior?




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