I Lost the Monkey
The Wedding Present Lyrics


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No, I don't know why
Well, I was feeling hurt and so I annoyed you; making up reasons to avoid you
But now that all just seems so immature

Because I just want you back
This has all been a mistake; I didn't know what was at stake
I was playing some kind of senseless game
Oh, you don't need to tell me how I've lost the monkey now

Now I discover you've found yourself a young new lover
Well did I mention that that was never my intention?
Here's my confession: I was just teaching you a lesson
Did you see through me?
Because instead of running back here to me you just said: "OK, if that's what you really want"

No, I just want you back
This has all been a mistake; I didn't know what was at stake




I was playing some kind of stupid game
Oh, you don't need to tell me how I've lost the monkey now

Overall Meaning

The Wedding Present's "I Lost the Monkey" is a song that explores the feelings of regret and remorse after a lover has made an impulsive decision to push their partner away. The song begins with the singer admitting to creating false reasons to avoid their lover as a result of feeling hurt. They acknowledge that their actions were immature and they want their partner back. They admit to making a mistake and not realizing what was at stake while playing a senseless game.


As the song continues, the singer reveals that their former partner has now found someone new. They confess that it was never their intention to lose their partner, and what they were doing was simply to teach them a lesson. They wonder if their former partner saw through their actions.


The song concludes with the singer recognizing that they made a huge mistake and admitting that they want their partner back. The metaphor of "losing the monkey" is used to highlight the idea that the situation has gotten out of control, and the singer has lost their partner as a result.


Line by Line Meaning

No, I don't know why
I am unaware of the cause.


Well, I was feeling hurt and so I annoyed you; making up reasons to avoid you
I was in pain and lashed out at you by creating excuses to distance myself.


But now that all just seems so immature
Looking back, my actions appear childish and foolish.


Because I just want you back
All I desire is to reunite with you.


This has all been a mistake; I didn't know what was at stake
I realize now that my behavior was misguided and I failed to understand the gravity of the situation.


I was playing some kind of senseless game
I was engaging in a pointless and destructive activity.


Oh, you don't need to tell me how I've lost the monkey now
I am already aware of the consequences of my actions and their impact on our relationship.


Now I discover you've found yourself a young new lover
I have learned that you have moved on to a new romantic partner who is younger than me.


Well did I mention that that was never my intention?
I want to clarify that I never meant for this to happen.


Here's my confession: I was just teaching you a lesson
I am admitting that I was attempting to teach you a lesson through my actions.


Did you see through me?
Were you able to see past my intentions and understand my true motives?


Because instead of running back here to me you just said: "OK, if that's what you really want"
Rather than pursuing a reconciliation, you accepted my actions as final and moved on.


No, I just want you back
My only desire is to restore our relationship.


This has all been a mistake; I didn't know what was at stake
Once again, I accept that my behavior was misguided and I failed to understand the implications of my actions.


I was playing some kind of stupid game
My behavior was nonsensical and pointless.


Oh, you don't need to tell me how I've lost the monkey now
I already understand the negative effect that my actions have had on our relationship.




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paul wilde

great album😃😃😃

walkingthevalley

So. Fucking. Good.

smokinnplatez

wow i love steve albini

Gary Gedge

doesn't have the Albini drum sound though

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