What's A Girl
The Wrens Lyrics


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What's a girl to do, what's a girl to do
dead by matches on a red dirty mattress under you
bleak enough for two throw-up in pales at the mention of males
even you what's a girl to do
throw my pennies and I throw my privilege
and I violate for you and I escalate towards you I won't sin
I moan him and I suffocated in you - what's a girl to do
what makes everything seem something I'd never want to do
pack my paintings and I pack my cookies





Overall Meaning

The Wrens's song "What's A Girl" is a melancholic tune about a woman who is in a difficult and dangerous relationship. The opening lines "What's a girl to do, what's a girl to do, dead by matches on a red dirty mattress under you" describe the danger that she is facing in her relationship-- she is at risk of being hurt or killed. The lyrics go on to describe her feelings of despair and hopelessness, as she struggles to find a way out of the situation. The lines "bleak enough for two throw-up in pales at the mention of males even you what's a girl to do" highlight how trapped and hopeless she feels, even though she is with someone who she thought would make her feel safe.


The song becomes even more haunting with the lines "I throw my pennies and I throw my privilege and I violate for you and I escalate towards you I won't sin I moan him and I suffocated in you - what's a girl to do," which depict the woman's desperation to please her partner, even if it means breaking the law and risking her own safety. The chorus "what makes everything seem something I'd never want to do pack my paintings and I pack my cookies" suggests that she is preparing to leave her relationship, yet still feeling conflicted and unsure.


Overall, The Wrens's "What's a Girl" is a poignant and powerful commentary on the struggles of women in abusive relationships, and the long journey they often face in order to break free.


Line by Line Meaning

What's a girl to do, what's a girl to do
The girl is uncertain and questioning what action she should take in her current situation.


dead by matches on a red dirty mattress under you
The girl feels trapped or helpless, potentially in a dangerous or abusive situation.


bleak enough for two throw-up in pales at the mention of males
The environment or circumstances are so unpleasant that even the girl and another person get physically sick at the thought of men, indicating potential trauma or abuse.


even you what's a girl to do
The girl may feel conflicted about her feelings for a particular person, possibly even the person who is causing her distress or harm.


throw my pennies and I throw my privilege
The girl is willing to give up her wealth and status to escape from her current situation.


and I violate for you and I escalate towards you I won't sin
The girl may be engaging in dangerous or harmful behavior to appease or keep the person who is causing her distress or harm satisfied, potentially out of fear of the consequences if she doesn't comply.


I moan him and I suffocated in you - what's a girl to do
The girl may feel emotionally or physically trapped and suffocating in her relationship with the person who is causing her distress or harm.


what makes everything seem something I'd never want to do
The girl is beginning to question the things she has done and the situation she is in, and is no longer sure if it is what she truly wants.


pack my paintings and I pack my cookies
The girl is preparing to leave her current situation and start anew.




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Comments from YouTube:

p g

This friggin song's been haunting me for years...

tannerin

still in a trailer park

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