Misery
Therapy? Lyrics


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Here comes the misery, yeah
Coming back to make me pay, yeah
I wanted you haunting me, but not just yet
Give the memories time to blossom into regret

You come to my house
I don't know what you're talking about
I owe you nothing, I owe you nothing
You say you need friends or something
Just shut up, I'm feeling guilty
Get away from me I'm thinking, no way this again

You come and stand and face me, you're betrayed
Like I should say something or ask you to stay
And now you're gonna go all girlie on me
You always left me wanting, now I want you to leave

You can talk about the things that you say you left behind
While you lead me down dark alleys in the ghettos of your mind
You've got that look on your face
That I could never comprehend anyway

Fuck you, waste my time
And tell me that you're broken hearted now
A long way back to where you've been
You cry alone, martyrs alone

Here comes the misery, yeah
Coming back to make me pay, once again
I wanted you haunting me, but not just yet
You better go before I do something I regret

You can run, call the cops
Cry your eyes out, give them the lot
You can say I marked your face
But you do these things to yourself anyway




I can never be with you
This is over, this is over, this is over, hey

Overall Meaning

In Therapy?'s song "Misery," the singer is reminiscing about a past relationship that ended in a lot of pain and heartache. The titular "misery" is coming back to haunt him, but he's not ready for it just yet. The singer recounts how his ex came to his house, saying she needed friends or something, and he feels guilty for not wanting to be around her. He knows that she's betrayed him and left him wanting more in the past, but she keeps coming back, and he doesn't know what to do.


Throughout the song, the singer emphasizes his reluctance to be with this person again. He calls her out for leading him down "dark alleys in the ghettos of your mind" and tells her that he can never comprehend the look on her face. As the song reaches its climax, the singer becomes increasingly angry and frustrated, telling his ex to "fuck you" and warning her to leave before he does something he regrets. He acknowledges that she might try to get revenge or make things even messier, but he knows that he can't be with her anymore.


Overall, "Misery" is a powerful examination of the pain and trauma that can come from a toxic relationship. The singer's frustration and anger are palpable throughout, and the listener can feel the tension building as the song progresses. Despite the song's heavy subject matter, however, the catchy guitar riffs and driving drumbeat keep it from feeling too bleak or depressing.


Line by Line Meaning

Here comes the misery, yeah
I am anticipating extreme pain and disappointment.


Coming back to make me pay, yeah
It feels like the universe has conspired to make me suffer and atone for something.


I wanted you haunting me, but not just yet
I have a morbid longing for the memories of us to visit me, even though it might only bring me pain.


Give the memories time to blossom into regret
I dread the moment my fond recollections turn into bitter disappointment.


You come to my house
You show up in my space to extort and manipulate me.


I don't know what you're talking about
I remain confused by your attempts to talk with me.


I owe you nothing, I owe you nothing
You have no claim over me, and I refuse to let you control me.


You say you need friends or something
You attempt to ensnare me emotionally, by saying you need something from me.


Just shut up, I'm feeling guilty
Your manipulations lead me to feel a sense of responsibility and shame, but I recognize it's all a game.


Get away from me I'm thinking, no way this again
I'm warning you to leave my presence, as I cannot tolerate more of your toxic behavior.


You come and stand and face me, you're betrayed
I realize the extent of your deceit and treachery by the way you confront me.


Like I should say something or ask you to stay
I acknowledge that you seek to provoke me to ask you to stay, but I refuse to cave into your emotional blackmail.


And now you're gonna go all girlie on me
You attempt to play up your vulnerability and appeal to my chivalry in order to get your way.


You always left me wanting, now I want you to leave
You always took advantage of my vulnerabilities and needs, but now I want nothing to do with you.


You can talk about the things that you say you left behind
You try to evoke sympathy by talking about the tough things you've had to deal with, and use it as an excuse for your behavior.


While you lead me down dark alleys in the ghettos of your mind
You manipulate me and lead me into your twisted, unhealthy thoughts and behavior.


You've got that look on your face
Your expression is inscrutable and incomprehensible to me.


That I could never comprehend anyway
I realize you are beyond my help and understanding, and it's futile to try.


Fuck you, waste my time
I express my anger and exasperation, as you are an unwelcome intruder in my life.


And tell me that you're broken hearted now
You fake emotions and try to use them to manipulate me further, but it's too late for that.


A long way back to where you've been
You've made a mess of your life and have a lot of work to do to fix it.


You cry alone, martyrs alone
I recognize you will suffer for your own actions and cannot rely on others to save you.


You better go before I do something I regret
I'm warning you to leave before I lose my temper and do something we'll both regret.


You can run, call the cops
You can escape and try to involve the authorities, but it won't work.


Cry your eyes out, give them the lot
You can try to manipulate others with your tears and drama, but it won't change the fact that you're responsible for your own problems.


You can say I marked your face
You can try to accuse me of something I didn't do, but it won't work.


But you do these things to yourself anyway
You are responsible for your own pain and suffering, and it's time to face up to that fact.


I can never be with you
I recognize the toxic nature of our relationship, and it's time to move on.


This is over, this is over, this is over, hey
I repeat to myself that it's really over, and it's time to let go and move on.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ANDREW CAIRNS

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Comments from YouTube:

alopam

Great song from terribly underrated album. Definitely one of the greatest albums of the 90s. I think it's better than Troublegum.
If this song or this album were a sledgehammer, I would use it to smash to pieces the stupid commercial music of today...

axebox

I wish Therapy did a proper follow up to Troublegum - then I think this album would have been more welcome at the time.

Michael Bell

alopam terribly underrated band too!

AMW9999

Such a great song and such a great band!

Michael Bell

One of the best songs from one of the best albums from one of the most underrated bands ever. “I wanted you haunting me but not just yet, give the memories time to blossom into regrets” is one of the best lines ever written IMO.

nickthelick

This album is FUCKING STUNNING! Bad Mother! Och! Another fucking class song... the guitar sounds like a razor slicing out the riffs... so to speak! Can't believe it got such a bad rep at the time and divided the fans! Perfect progression from TroubleGum (which is awesome too)...

LondonUnderground186

Excellent! One of my favourite tunes of the 90s

CB 5882

Therapy? — These guys can play the soundtrack of my life.

MrTimarattila

Best drummer ever, period. Best love song lyric ever, period.

Ilya S

Great tune!

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