Together Or Apart
Thunder Lyrics


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Long drive across a dusty plain
Clear my eyes, clear my brain
I guess I needed some time

You and I are at the stage
Where we stay together or make a change
We both know that it's right
Avoiding the future won't cut it anymore
We need to decide

'Cos I can't stay in this place all my life
Are we one thing or the other
Are we only killing the time?
Together or apart, better make up your mind

I'm not trying to force your hand
I just wanna know where I stand
To get it straight in my head

Don't be afraid to tel the truth
Either way I'll still love you
Even if it's the end

It's no use pretending that this'll go away
It's been coming so long

'Cos I know I won't be hapy inside
Until we really talk about it
And I know there's nothing to hide
Together or apart, are you breaking my heart
Better make up your mind
'Cos we're out of time

There's no right or wrong here, it's just the way it is
No need for disguise
Whatever your feelings, just look in my eyes
And you won't lie

'Cos I can't stay in this place all my life
Are we one thing or the other
Are we only killing the time?
Together or apart, better make up your mind

We gotta sit and talk about it
Till I know there's nothing to hide




Together or apart, are you breaking my heart?
Better make up your mind, cos we're outta time

Overall Meaning

The song Together Or Apart by Thunder is a ballad about the crossroads in a relationship. The singer is on a long drive across a dusty plain to clear his head and think about his relationship. He expresses his anxiety about the stage he and his partner are in and whether they should stay together or make a change. He urges his partner not to be afraid to tell the truth because he just wants to know where he stands. He wishes to get it straight in his head and is even prepared to accept the end if that is the truth.


The lyrics express the importance of facing the consequences of any decision that will be made. Avoiding the future won’t cut it anymore since admitting the truth is the only way they can resolve their situation. The singer is aware they are out of time and that they need to talk about it until there is nothing left to hide. The song is a plea for honesty and for the couple to make up their minds about whether they want to be together or apart. The singer can’t stay in this place all his life, so they must figure it out before it's too late.


Line by Line Meaning

Long drive across a dusty plain
I needed to get away and have some time to think and reflect, so I took a long drive across a barren landscape.


Clear my eyes, clear my brain
I needed to clear my head, so I took some time for myself to regroup and refocus.


I guess I needed some time
I needed some time to myself to figure out where I stand and what I really want.


You and I are at the stage
We are at a crossroads where we need to decide whether to stay together or make a change in our relationship.


Where we stay together or make a change
We need to decide whether we continue to stay together or if it's time to go our separate ways.


We both know that it's right
We both know that we need to make a decision about our relationship for the sake of our own happiness.


Avoiding the future won't cut it anymore
We can't keep putting off making a decision about our future together, it's time to face it head on.


We need to decide
We need to make a decision about whether we should stay together or go our separate ways.


'Cos I can't stay in this place all my life
I can't stay in this state of uncertainty forever, I need to know where we stand so I can move on with my life.


Are we one thing or the other
We need to figure out if we are committed to each other, or if it's time to move on and find something new.


Are we only killing the time?
If we stay in this relationship just to avoid being alone or out of habit, we are only wasting our time together.


Together or apart, better make up your mind
We need to make a decision about our future together, whether we stay together or go our separate ways.


I'm not trying to force your hand
I'm not trying to pressure you into making a decision, I just need to know where we stand.


I just wanna know where I stand
I need clarity and honesty about our relationship so that I can make informed decisions about my own future.


To get it straight in my head
I need to have a clear understanding of where our relationship is headed so that I can have peace of mind.


Don't be afraid to tell the truth
We need to be honest with each other about our feelings and what we really want, even if it's difficult.


Either way I'll still love you
No matter what decision we make, my love for you will remain unchanged.


Even if it's the end
Even if our relationship comes to an end, I will still care for you and cherish the memories we've shared.


It's no use pretending that this'll go away
Ignoring our problems won't make them disappear, we need to address them and make a decision about our future.


It's been coming so long
Our issues have been brewing for a while now, and it's time to confront them once and for all.


'Cos I know I won't be happy inside
I won't be able to find happiness until we address our issues and make a decision about our future together.


Until we really talk about it
We need to have an open and honest conversation about our feelings and what we want for our future.


And I know there's nothing to hide
We need to be completely transparent with each other about our feelings and intentions so that we can make an informed decision.


Together or apart, are you breaking my heart
We need to make a decision about our future together, and if we decide to go our separate ways, it will be heartbreaking.


'Cos we're out of time
We can't keep avoiding making a decision about our future, we need to act now before it's too late.


There's no right or wrong here, it's just the way it is
There's no easy answer to our situation, we need to do what's best for ourselves and our own happiness.


No need for disguise
We need to be completely honest with each other about our feelings, without any pretense or hidden motives.


Whatever your feelings, just look in my eyes
No matter what decision we make, we need to face it honestly and with clear intention. We need to communicate openly and compassionately.


And you won't lie
We need to be truthful with each other, even if the truth is difficult to hear or accept.


We gotta sit and talk about it
We need to have an open and honest conversation about our future together and what we each want.


Till I know there's nothing to hide
We need to be completely transparent with each other about our feelings and intentions so that we can make an informed decision.


'Cos we're outta time
We can't keep avoiding making a decision about our future, we need to act now before it's too late.


Are you breaking my heart?
We need to confront our feelings honestly and openly so that we can make a decision about our future without causing heartache or pain.


Better make up your mind
We need to make a decision about our future together and do it soon, before it's too late.




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Written by: LUKE MORLEY

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